Before you contact me.. ask yourself what it is that you "NEED" from a dominant and what you have to offer a dominant. What makes you unique? How would you enhance a dominants life and what is it that is missing in your life that you think a dominant will give or teach you?

This lifestyle is NOT just about sexual gratification or receiving pain. I have no desire for a " do me sub".

My submissive must be a part of my vanilla life as well as my DS life. It isn't just about being sessioned.

I will be in control at all times .. have no doubt about that. However, this is supposed to be fun even tho it is intense at times.

Sessions are rewards not punishment. Trust me, if you deserve to be punished it will not be with something you enjoy.

if I accept his submission, I require that my sub be a gentleman and a partner, just a very Junior partner. He must be strong enough to be my knight in shining armor, yet understand that he has no desire to do anything but serve me.

If you feel you understand what service means and that as a Dominant I would challenge your mind as well as your body, and if you realize that sexual service could be a part of this .. but only a part .... not the focus .. then email me. I dont bite .. too often or too hard!