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LadyGadget

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Fattyguava
So, first thing first: I DO NOT WANT YOUR MONEY. I am also not particularly interested in your penis... though for the right person, I may have interest in keeping it locked safely away for my future use. I have been in Vegas and been part of the scene since I moved out here 4 years ago. Yes, I have a profile on fet, I also have a blog and twitter. I am more than willing to provide my fet name and a few references for those that would like to vet me before any possible meeting. I would expect nothing less in terms of securing your safety and will ask the same of you prior to any meeting in order to secure my own. I have explored both sides of the bdsm coin. I started out as a sub at the age of 18, I identified as a switch for awhile, and mostly identify as a domme now. The journey has been a long one and I'm certain there's still quite a bit to learn. My friends describe me as someone who always has that random thing that adds just what is needed to make the game even better. I'm very creative and I love to make new toys and invent new games to play. Though you won't find much in the way of traditional bdsm toys in my equipment. I'm also a bit OCD, super nerdy and a big hearted romantic. I'm not sure who coined the term, but "Manic Pixie Dream Domme" was probably created with me in mind. I am looking for a service oriented gent,preferably within 10 years of my own age, with an interest in joining my adventures in life and kink. Drop me a line if you're interested.
6/6/2017 1:06:31 PM
-This is a PSA for submissive guys- No woman wants to admit to being dirty - ever! Most of us are taught to stay neat and tidy so even if our feet did smell or we needed a bit of extra time with the soap, we would most likely decline the activity and refuse to admit it. In that vein... Submissive guys, don't ever ask us if we have smelly feet, unwashed bums, etc... the majority of us will say no and automatically delete your message. Thank you for the time you took to read this and I hope this information is helpful to you. -Gadget
6/5/2017 8:25:59 PM
I'm back... Jumping into things again after a long hiatus. Looking forward to getting to know someone new.
1/4/2017 1:27:53 PM
I thought I was done ranting, but nope: 1. Calling me Miss, Mistress, or Goddess. Don't call me Miss. Yes, it's traditionally for unmarried women. However, it makes me feel like a little girl, which I abhor. Mistress is also not a title you should call me unless we're in a relationship and I give you leave to do so, it's a title we both need to earn the use of. If Mistress isn't right, Goddess is even more wrong. I promise you, I'm not a deity or even close. I have no wish to be placed on that sort of pedestal, it is rife with expectations I am unlikely to meet. What you can call me instead: Ma'am, Lady, Lady Gadget, or just plain Gadget. While we get to know each other, any of these is fine. 2. That weird capitalization thing. You and I are on the same level as human beings. You may make the choice to subit to me, but I can choose not to accept it and if it's oddly punctuated with weird capitalization, I will reject it. 3. Apparently, the whole "fucktoy" thing needs to be revisited. I am not looking for sex or even a relationship where sex and sexual acts are the primary function. I have no wish to play pimp or John to your hoe. Please keep the sex on lock down until I bring it up. Yes, I am polite. Yes I will mostly use my manners, even when setting you down. If you don't like it, don't message me.
1/4/2017 1:09:16 PM
A FEW RANTS ABOUT PEOPLE I'VE MET HERE: 1.I am not a Findom.Seriously, I don't want your money. I don't understand Findom or financial tribute at all. Please put your wallet away before I use it to smack you. I have pride and I work for an honest paycheck. I enjoy what I do and that will not change. The closest I will ever get to Findom is allowing you to pay for my coffee if we meet up. That's it, I don't want your money. Don't buy me expensive things, don't ask me for my PayPal. I'll say it one more time in all caps so it sticks. I DON'T WANT YOUR MONEY!!!! I AM NOT A FINDOM! GO TRIBUTE SOMEONE WHO IS! 2. If the first thing you bring up is sex, we will not be compatible. I am demisexual, meaning I have to know and like someone very well in order to have sex with them. This also means that kink and sex, while they may be with the same partner, are kept fairly separate for me. 3. The inferior male shtick doesn't work for me. I don't want someone who isn't worthy, so prove to me with your words and actions that you are. I'm sure there's more that I haven't thought of, but these are my top 3. Please do your best to not be idiot meatsticks. Thank you -LadyGadget
justmeAz
 
 Age: 40
  Alabama