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All genuine replies will be answered, one liners and people who have not bothered to read my full profile & journal entry which states how to apply, will not be replied to. Do not expect me correspond with people who use text speak you will be ignored.

Adventurous submissive male required for an experienced 43 year old sensual dominatrix. I am single and only want to meet single men aged 50 – 65, this is non-negotiable.
Please note traveling is a passion of mine and I often go to the Nederland’s, Portugal, France, Nevada, San Francisco and Boston. So if you contact me and there is a slight delay it is because I am on another adventure. I live in London so primarily I am looking for people in that locality. Yes I would consider relocating but only after having met several times and I have got to know you well. I will only consider applications from a submissive if you are in one of the aforementioned locations only, this in non-negotiable. If you live elsewhere I am not interested. You don't quite know what you are searching for but you do know it is submissive in nature. You have been feeling these feelings of being submissive for a very long time. You try to suppress them but they just don't go away. You find yourself going on a fantasy binge that last a day or two and then you get a little rest from it but then it comes back even stronger. You cannot and will not speak of it to anyone because society tells you that it is wrong to think that way. You get very scared at times and feel you don't know yourself and all but at the same time you get very excited while the thoughts roll over and over in your mind. You know there is more to your sexuality but either you don't know how to get there or you are afraid to step out into it. I am talking to you and you know I am, now it is time you talk back to me. Just a few words and I will lead the conversation.
For me a relationship where the basis of it is trust and friendship will mean we can build a solid foundation to explore the rich tapestry which is BDSM. I am not looking for a cheap thrill but a long term relationship. So do not expect to meet me today and immediately go for a session. We need to understand each other and there must be respect.
I am looking for a man who to the rest of the world appears to be just a regular guy but shows his true submissive nature to me. I enjoy taking the time to develop you in to the best submissive you can be maybe more with time and patience. This is done through various methods and takes time but will give us both pleasure in our own ways. Like you I am confident and discreet and the world around me has no idea about my private inclinations but behind closed doors you will feel my strength. I also like to play control games with you outside that only we are aware of. I want a special submissive who is intelligent, playful and diligent. You will be able to express you needs and limits clearly. Mistress will respect your limits and where appropriate over time push them slowly. You must be a person with a strong desire to serve the needs of mistress to the best of your ability. Once I understand your needs then I can work on making this an exciting and pleasurable time for us both. But remember I am in the driving seat so you will not be allowed to top me from the bottom. I like my submissive to proactive, devoted and focused. Micromanaging for me is boring, so if you want a woman to stand over you as you execute every task I am not for you. But if you can seize the initiative then we will get along famously and my submissive will be rewarded. If that is the type of thing you are looking for say hello.
I respect the privacy of those I am in a relationship with and expect you to be the same so discretion is assured and expected. Your looks and size are not important to me but your desire to serve and attitude is. You must however behave like a gentleman and appreciate all that implies. A man who holds doors open, helps his lady on with her jacket is the type of man that I like to be around. You must be willing to following instructions and complete tasks to my specification or this will not work.
Below is a taster of what I enjoy:- Over the knee spanking Restraint including, chains, rope, cages, vacuum bed, sleep sack Strap on/pegging Orgasm denial Sissy play Chastity Humiliation Diary task You doing my chores Pampering me will of course be part of your duties, so I hope you are good at massage. If not you will learn. Discreet outdoor play. I look forward to starting an adventure with you soon. Come say hello now, I’m waiting.
Read my journal entries, which tells you how to apply to serve me.

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9/30/2017 4:34:43 AM
What am I up to this weekend?



On my way out to meet a girlfriend who is also dominant she is staying over with me for the whole weekend. Here is a synopsis of what we have done so far and out plans for the rest of today.



1 Hour walk around Hampstead Heath. Then to gym for yoga and time in the steam room and sauna. Very relaxing.



Home to freshen up and plan what we would do next. Her submissive is instructed where to meet us tonight and what to bring over. Sarah's submissive has been with her for 18 months so they are now feeling comfortable with me teaching him some things.  


As Sarah is my guest I decide we will do some of my favorite things, which I know she will enjoy.

Firstly a visit to 
The National Gallery, London





Late lunch 
Browns Restaurant in Covent Garden – Brasserie & Bar





Shoe and anal toy shopping 

Honour | Fetish Clothing, Bondage Equipment and Sex Toys



Welcome to the Harmony Store website



Fetish & Bondage | Prowler.co.uk






Collecting treats Champagne Truffles & Sea Salted Pecan Brownie

Marc de Champagne Truffles, 125g - Fortnum & Mason



Paul A Young Fine Chocolates.






We will be meeting "John" for a light dinner before going to the dungeon where he will be serving us our treats and our slave for the evening.


Dinner 


We have a reservation at
Brasserie Zédel | French Restaurant in Soho, London




We will then be going to stay overnight at a dungeon we have rented out. I am very much looking forward to the rest of the day so must go now. 


Feel free to share any of your dungeon experiences with me in a message.






 



9/25/2017 10:06:35 AM
Food for thought Monday 25th September


9/25/2017 9:53:35 AM

Apply to serve me

If you are considering applying to become my submissive you must doing the following -

 

 

 

A) Read my profile and journal entries in full. Digest them. Then and decide if you really think that we are suited. If the answer is yes continue

 

 

B) Use paragraphs and full sentences in all correspondence. And check you spelling and where you put capitals etc. At your age you should be able to proofread. This is the layout I expect to receive my messages in. I like it to have spaces in between each paragraph, rather than a huge jumble of text. Messages in text speak will immediately be deleted.

 

 

 

C) Be honest. Just be yourself.

 

 

 

 

I expect you to send me a detailed reply covering the following and using these headings.

1) A little bit about who I am

 

2) I want to be your submissive because

 

3) Here is an overview of my experience.

In this section include at least a couple of paragraphs from each significant D/s relationship you have had. Say a little about what was the highlight of any BDSM relationships you have had and why that was the case.

 

4) My experience of seeing a pro-dominant

I have no prejudice about that.

 

5) My age is

 

6) What name I wish to be known as

Do not use your username. It is off putting trying to have serious correspondence with anallover 55! John, Collin or whatever Christian name you wish to use is just fine.

 

7) What am I looking for a BDSM relationship?

 

8) My hobbies and interest are

You can use my journal entry where I list mine for an idea of length. You can of course white more if you are so inclined.

 

9) Musically I like the following artist and music types

 

10) I live in X area

I want an idea of the general area, West London, or Hammersmith is fine. No need for further detail.

 

11) My idea of a first meeting would be to

There is not right or wrong answer; I just want to get an idea of who you are and what you like. No need to try and impress me with saying lunch at the Savoy.

 

12) I like X type/brand of chocolate and alcoholic drinks are

 

13) Here is a detailed depiction of what I look like

 

14) A fully clothed picture of me from within the last 5 years

This can follow in a later email but I expect it within exchanging 4 emails with you.

 

15) And any other things that you think appropriate

Obviously this is optional

 

16) Marital status

 

 

I look forward to corresponding and meeting with you soon.

 

 

 

Lady Frances


8/19/2017 5:22:43 AM
Real life/Vanilla and BDSM

It seems that I need to clarify this as I have had 84 questions about this to-date. 

I am looking for a person who like me can coexist in the real/vanilla world and enjoy the BDSM in private. 

The amount of people asking if I will keep them locked in the house all day is unreal. I work and afford to travel by working and not having too much rubbish at home. Whoever I am with must be able to live a normal life. When I see my family and friends you will behave like a vanilla person in private that is something else. I have take time to share my interests and hobbies so you can see I am a real person and have an active life. This is real life and vanilla things are a part of that, it is that simple. If that is not for you then I wish you well but do not contact me.



8/19/2017 5:15:15 AM
Have respect for me and for yourself

Hello one and all.

If you are genuinely interested in getting to the point of us meeting you do not have to do impossible tings. All you have to do is pay attention to what I have written in my profile and first journal entry and respond accordingly. That is how I assess our compatibility. It is as simple as that. I have standards and expect my submissive to meet these. If you wont take time and effort to do that at this stage there is no further for us to go.

I am not an Financial Princess who is looking for money and stuff who does not care if you can follow instructions as long as you buy her things. Yes I like to be pampered but BDSM is so much more than that and if you do not understand this I am not the woman for you and you should not bother to contact me.

Do not try to bypass my requirements by sending me your email address, KIK, Skype, mobile number or chat requests. I will just delete it. You will just be wasting my time and yours, simple as that.



8/19/2017 12:51:23 AM

Hobbies & Interests

 

Getting out in to the countryside or the coast for a nice long walk is always a pleasure, especially on a sunny day. I do yoga 3 times a week for relaxation and flexibility, now important at my age ha ha. I enjoy the theatre, cinema, live music, galleries, museums and reading. In May I went to see the Blue Man Group in Las Vegas, they were fantastic. Currently I am reading Everything That Remains by the Minimalists.  

 

Musically I have a broad taste, enjoying rock, pop, classical, opera, dance and 60’s -00’s. Specific artists I can always listen to include but are not limited to The Doors, The Stones, Journey, The Who, Peter Gabriel , Survivor, Burt Bacharach, Andy Williams, Glen Campbell, Tina Turner, Genesis, U2, Michael  Jackson, Kraftwerk, Rage Against The Machine, Radiohead, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Madonna and Lenny Kravitz. When it comes to relaxing at home after a stressful day a glass of wine and some relaxing baroque music is a favourite, unless  I’m fed up and then Vivaldi’s Four Seasons and particularly Summer give me an energy boost. Failing that then some Dave Brubeck, who was a fantastic live performer.


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KellieL
 
 Age: 28
 Galway, New York