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Not living in South Florida? Do not expect a reply. I'm looking to connect with local people. I'm not comfortable trying to dominate someone that's a plane ride away. Like really??? You do something wrong and how the heck am I going to punish you??? Since I'm smart enough to know that, I don't like starting a BDSM situation with an out-of-towner. So just pass me by if you're not in South Florida.
I will not respond if your profile photo is a cock shot. If you think I'm interested in what you got between your legs before I know what you have between your ears, you're wrong.
I'm more normal than most, I'm not looking to financially Dom anyone. If you are not SINGLE - I have some choice words for you....instead, I'll be a Lady - go to a Pro Dom and leave us, real ladies, alone!
I DO NOT wish to dominate someone 247 I DO want to be with an Alpha Male who accepts and cherishes the fact that I am an Alpha Female, a smart and sexy one at that!
I like thinking of things like a clock pendulum swinging - left then right, always coming back to center at the end. The center is the foundation, the strength, the reality, the everyday vanilla aspect of life. I want to know that in those moments when the pendulum stops swinging and we are at peace at the center, that we are just as happy maybe even happier for journeying to the left and right TOGETHER. This journey is just SO amazing to me, so emotional, in a positive way.
A couple of men have recently said (written 6112016) that they didn't know what I was looking for. So I'm adding some more ination...
I am a normal, fun, creative, sexy, discrete (about the lifestyle), intelligent professional woman, that enjoys dominating a strong professional alpha male who will submit to me -in private. All while exploring having a real fun-loving relationship in the vanilla world - which translates to - I'm NOT looking for a play partner. SINGLE men only!! If you chose to not be upfront with me about your circumstances, the results will not be very pretty. All I ask for is honesty so I can decide what to do. Oh, and when I say a fun-loving relationship I have NO I repeat NO interest in cuckolding my partner.
The previous paragraph said a lot **PLEASE RE-READ it NOW!**
Now what that means to me, is if you met me in a vanilla situation you would date me. IF you can't commit to something like that, please do NOT contact me, I have enough men who wish to serve me. It doesn't interest me. Nothing happens immediately. All this here is just a piece of who I am.
I am looking for a relationship that can INCORPORATE BDSM play into it and some Femdom. I prefer a strong alpha male who is at least 5' 11" I prefer not to tower over you when I wear my 4 heels but I'm beginning to wonder if I should make an exception, I could wear 3 heels in the vanilla part of the relationship.
Someone who is confident in the vanilla world so that they can handle me in that part of our relationship and willing to submit to me when we choose to play. This lifestyle is more about power exchange than anything else.
I don't need a doormat.
A man who is close to my own age - late 40s to mid-60s. I need someone who will keep up with me, but who will also know what I'm talking about. Someone who will accept that I am busy with my family and business at times. By no means does that mean I will ignore you. Just stuff has to get done to survive.
I appreciate all the younger men emailing me, but for an LTR, I just don't see it happening.
2122017 Update
You've read this far - that's great - so let me say this about the whole Ds, FLR, BDSM (whatever YOU want to call it) relationship ALL know that it starts with chemistry - that's a given. But after that, it's really the vanilla stuff that will make this work. Now with that said, I know we all have been through the wringer with relationships that didn't work and now we are looking for our one. Let me put this thought in your head. Having 85 of SOMETHING is BETTER than having 100 of NOTHING!! Also, things take time, you will NOT get that perfect person right out of the gate. People change, grow and morph (I hope) as relationships go on. If you want to stay with someone, you figure out HOW to make it work. You do the activities that they like. You find the commonality with them so you can bond. Teaching is one of the most bonding acts in a relationship. And who says that the Dom has to be the one teaching? If you meet someone you have chemistry with, give them a chance, a REAL chance to show you who they are and what they can do. Be willing to open up your heart and get hurt. Giving only 25 - 50 of yourself because YOU'RE scared it won't work - isn't fair. You need to go ALL IN!!
5112017 Update
I do enjoy having men in sexy lingerie, especially panties. Corsets, thigh highs, and heels are lovely as well. Not really interested in doing it in public maybe at fetish events. Mostly just for at-home (except for wearing panties, which could be 247 if you are up for it). I like so many different things, lol.
10202017 Update
I'm beginning to realize that I should be with someone who
1) was raised in the Northeast of the USA
2) and politically leans toward being a liberal
Now I'm going to help you out
Understand, I am a woman FIRST. Therefore, if you want to start something with me you need to pursue me! I am not going after you. You need to show me that you are interested in me. So how is that done? Well, it starts with the emails here. Show some interest in me, on a vanilla level. Ask me questions, and tell me about yourself. Make me interested in you. Keep the conversation (i.e. email exchange) going. Don't email me one day and the next one a week later. If you won't be available tell me. Expect to start the discourse with one or two emails a day at a minimum. That shows interest. When the time is right we can exchange phone numbers and vanilla photos. I expect phone calls and morning wake-up texts. You have to show me that you have the capability of being a good sub and that you want to make me happy.
I hope this gives some clarification to all who might be interested...
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