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Gentlemen….I have news for you. Listen up, because what I am going to say will change your life….and hopefully your tactics!
A good Domme wants……an equal partner. A man who is confident,
intelligent, caring, patient, has a good sense of humor, appreciates his
partner, and realizes that a Domme/sub relationship is a 50/50 prospect. That is not to say that the power exchange doesn't swing in the Dominant's direction - just that, when you get down to it, the Dominant cannot take unless the submissive gives…and for that to occur, the underlying relationship must be equivalent.
Sort of sounds like most relationships to you? It should. Deep down, most
relationships - straight, gay, BDSM - are emotionally and socially pretty much the same. It is merely our means of sexual gratification that differ.
Dommes are human, too. We require stimulating conversation. We enjoy a good challenge. We welcome genuine emotion and intelligence. In other
words, we want a real person. On the few occasions that I have replied to one of my sniveling IM's, and told men this, they seem completely confused.
Intelligence is sexy. A `worthy opponent' is a turn on. A submissive who is fun, witty, bold, a wonderful companion, and who dares to look you in the eye and ask questions is a worthy partner. Confidence, bearing, and the knowledge of WHEN to act submissive is equally important.
Manners
The art of being a Gentleman has not died. Male submissives who follow the basic rules of societal etiquette are greatly prized! Even in this day and age, a woman appreciates having a man open a door for her…and A Domme is no exception.
One last message, if you are married, or in a relationship, PLEASE do not get in touch with me. Also, if you are under 55 – your email messages will go right into my bulk mail. Thank you I look forward to fun and yet serious minded communications.
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