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	8/30/12... I am back. My health issues still linger and I will be treated for them for the rest of my life but it will not RULE my life. Even moreso now I am looking for a sub/slave who will happily want to please me with their service as well as their body. You must be willing to speak/exchange emails with my partner Bart ( IamBartman here on CM ) as well as myself in order to get to know you better. Ok so I'm not 95... that's the only time I will lie to you :) Please read my recent journal to know more about me... "Venus Columba (The Dove) is the aspect of the Goddess of Love which is most concerned with peace. She who brings hearts together, desires our happiness, reconciles opposites and blesses those who love." ♦♦♦♦♦♦♦♦♦♦♦♦♦ I am a lifestyle femdomme from the Philly/Bucks/Montco area in SEPA. I am the fem half of an experienced, fun, and sexually charged M/F dominant couple. His name is Bart. We have known each other for more than 9 years and are in a loving, committed, long term relationship. Bart & I, as a couple, practice"Polyfaithfulness" or "Polifidelity" as opposed to an "open" or "swinger" lifestyle. We have 12+ years experience in bdsm and D/s. Our interests range from the sensual to the sadistic and are seeking just the right boy to be our perfect pet. Ideally, we are looking for a younger boy, from 30ish to 40, but may consider someone older if the chemistry is right. You must be of slim/petite build, or athletic. And oh yes... I have a real attraction to smooth shaved boys & men. Please know what you want and do not be so narrow minded as to worry about a male being present and participating... You should be someone who is looking for a couple to enjoy spending time with and serving and not looking for a girlfriend to spend the rest of your life with. We offer an active family to be part of. ◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄► What we also offer you is experience, safety, and your fantasies realized. ◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄► What you must be willing to offer us, is your desire to learn about us and yourself, your open-mindedness to experience a wide range of play, and a desire to serve an attractive, fun and sexually charged dominant couple. Ultimately, we are seeking a boy who is interested in a true D/s relationship. Someone wanting to be collared and owned. A collar is not something you should expect quickly. We are willing to take our time to find the right boy to accept as "ours" and not just to add a list of names to our profile. What we enjoy in the meantime, is quality play. Keep in mind, that quality of play increases with frequency and getting to know your partners. Your expectations of a one-night stand may be unrealistic. If you're looking to have all your fantasies fulfilled in one night, you should go see a pro. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Honesty and integrity are a must and a sense of humor is required... we like to have Fun! We prefer that you are not married or otherwise seriously attached. The main reason for this is availability. The exception to this, is if your wife or SO knows of your interest in the lifestyle and allows you liberal freedom to practice it. We will not be put low on anyone's list of priorities. If your time is tied up with family or career, then please, focus on your priorities but don't bother wasting our time and yours. Neither Bart nor myself have strong family or job commitments. ♀♂♀♂♀♂♀♂♀♂♀♂♀♂♀♂♀ Our personalities... First and foremost, I am a woman of Strong Convictions & character. I will not toss around the words, honor and integrity. It's up to others to determine that I possess these qualities by the observance of my actions. My demeanor covers a broad spectrum. I can be laid back ... and I can be high energy. I can be tolerant ... and I can be demanding. I may feel completely sexual ... and I can be amazingly sadistic. It may take time, but you will come to recognize each mood and I will expect you to roll with it. I love to be pampered and require you to be attentive to my needs and wants. In return, you will be treated as my pet... rewarded when you're good... disciplined when you're not. However, I am also nurturing, compassionate, upbeat, happy and content for the most part. Life is meant to Live, Love & Enjoy and pass it on to others. I am also fiercely protective of those I love. ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ Bart is my SoulMate I've loved him for as long as I can remember. We've been thru many changes over the past 7 years, and our bond just increases each and every day. He's taught me how to communicate openly & honestly and work thru things together, and I love him deeply for that. He has the biggest and warmest heart I have ever encountered. When he wraps me up in his strong arms and pulls me close, the rest of the world ceases to exist. And have I mentioned he's hot, sexy and wickedly evil? What more could I want in my life? Bart is the Butter on my Bagel !! He is a completely sexual creature. He stands 6'4 and weighs 215 with shoulder length blonde hair and piercing blue eyes. He knows what he wants and will take command of a boy with no hesitation. He is very considerate of your limits however, and will not push them until your trust in him is established and your consent given. His smooth deep voice will compel you to obey him. And if his voice is not enough to compel you, a slap of his huge hand across your butt will. Do not expect us to chat with you online for weeks or months on end before meeting in person. We expect initial contact online, but want to meet in person, relatively soon. This first meeting will be in a public place and you may ask anything you want. We will always answer honestly and openly. There are no expectations on this first meeting. It is just a good time to judge compatibility and attraction. So you MUST be local...which means within an approximate 2 hour driving distance...if you cannot meet for a drink or a cuppa coffee, then you are too far away...unless you are willing to meet for an entire weekend. We are real life ONLY and do not have the online time to spend getting to know someone long distance in order to relocate. None of this is negotiable and I know what I want. Please do not think that you can change my mind on these things. If you see us out & about in the local community, please don't hesitate in introducing yourself if you see us. We love to get to know new people and are very warm and welcoming... no, really. We are lol ◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄►◄► Who is Dove outside bdsm... * I love my Harley, I've been riding for all my adult life but got my own about 15 years ago. I've been nearly cross country several times & as far south as Tennessee and as far north as NE, however I don't ride nearly as much as I used to. I miss the wind in my hair. * Music is a huge part of my life... I enjoy everything from 60's Motown to New Age, to Alternative. * I am a spiritual person and have a deep faith in my beliefs altho I won't beat you over the head with them. * I love to cook, but really enjoy sharing that experience with someone. * Other people, good friends, make my world go round, but I do treasure my solitary moments. * Animals, the pets with fur, are the most inspirational form of unconditional love I've ever come across on this earth. * I love the smell of a room filled with incense & candles, vanilla and spicy smells like apples & cinnamon are my fav. I can spend forever in those wonderful shops filled with those scents. * And lilies are my absolute favorite flower.

2/11/2010 4:19:09 PM

I am a Dominant Woman ©LadyDove2u

I know what I am. I’ve taken the time over the years to explore, examine and experience who and what I am, what I want and what I expect and deserve from life and those I allow into my life.

I will not speak for others… I am speaking of my very own unique nature in this post.

So, what do I mean when I say I am a dominant woman? I’m afraid so many males are clueless to what being a domina encompasses.

Dominant Woman. Two words. I am a Dominant. I am a Woman. Seems simple to some. To some, extremely complex.

I’ve realized I am an acquired taste. My personality is certainly not for everyone. Most people either love me or they hate me. There isn’t much in between.

I stand for something and don’t have a problem verbalizing what I stand for and on top of that, living what I believe in. This translates to arrogance to some. Yes, I can be arrogant. I mix that with a good dose of humility when needed. I do not believe that I know “it” all. But I can say that I know myself.

So what some may see as arrogance, I prefer to see as self-confidence. I know my strengths and my weaknesses… I try to make the best of the former and minimize the latter. I believe in rules. I believe in boundaries and pretty firm adherence to those rules. Without them we have chaos and the more popular, “do whatever feels good.”

First, I do not wake up and put on my boots and leathers. As I sit and drink coffee in the morning, I am most likely dressed in a nightshirt with my hair pulled up and no makeup on. However, I do not put on and take off my dominance as I do my makeup. It’s who I am, ALL the time… even when I cry over a sad movie, the injustices of the world, a friend’s heartache or my own.

I am not a man-hater. On the contrary, I love men and the inherent differences in the sexes. It fascinates me how we are wired differently. It excites me how we react differently.

I am very much a woman… who thinks very much like a man. I am a total contradiction of nature at times. I plan, I organize, I execute. I am a thinker… I look ahead not at just the immediate.

Visuals are my turn-ons… my motivation. Do I want a hot, sexy submissive male? Of course I do and I make no apologies about that. But I also want one with a personality and a sense of humor and an intelligent opinion. I want your opinions expressed at the proper time and in the proper manner… unless I declare a no-holds barred discussion and allow you the opportunity to express yourself freely. But be forewarned… allowing you the chance to express yourself, even if it is disillusionment in me, does not mean you may do it with disrespect.

I am not your priest, your mother, your wife, or your therapist. I will always be concerned about your spiritual welfare, your emotional and physical well-being, and your mental stability. That’s my responsibility and I take it very seriously. But I will not absolve you or all your wrongs, I will not wipe your snotty whiney nose, I will not fix all the things that have made you who you are because of your past life experiences. If life is a constant crisis for you, it’s my prerogative to say your drama is more than I want to deal with and it’s time to say good bye.

I am mature. I have lived a difficult life but I do not regret it nor do I proclaim myself a victim of any of my circumstances. Rather I own all of my life and it’s circumstances … all of its ups and downs. I abhor victim mentality and refuse to take part in any such nonsense. I have taken the bad things in my life and learned from them. I have done this through intense introspection, alone, in my solitary times. I’ve spent much time looking in the mirror and taking a raw look at myself and crushed the rose-colored glasses under my foot to see the truth that stares back at me. I have made amends for my wrongs whenever that’s been possible. And then I have moved on to try and never make those same mistakes again.

I have taken an inventory of the wrongs done to me. I have owned and admitted my part in those wrongs… and if I have found none, I have forgiven those who wronged me without warrant. I may not accept those offenders back into my life and won’t ever again. I am not stupid. Once I have found the strength to forgive, I will not give them the chance to wrong me again. I have forgiven… not forgotten.

If you desire to be part of my life and you want my guidance, I will listen to you and I will draw upon those past life experiences, those that hurt me and those that made me joyous, and I will share what I have discovered in the hopes of helping you through whatever is plaguing your soul and your spirit. I want to see you grow and prosper in character. I want to see you love yourself, minimize your faults, fortify your strengthens… be happy with who you are when YOU look in the mirror.

I expect you to recognize these qualities in me and never take me for granted. I expect you to worship and adore me, as my submissive, for the tools I can give you to grow as a better human being. I expect you to stand on the rooftops and shout out to the world what I mean to you.

But more than that… I expect you to show me what I mean to you without my telling you to do so. I want to see it in your actions. I want to hear it in your words. I want to see it in your eyes. I want you to FEEL it down to the very core of your soul… I am your Mistress… I am your Goddess. Period. When our time together comes to an end, whether it is weeks, months or years, my hope is that you will walk away a better person than when you came to me.

I want your trust and I am confident that I can earn it. I am trustworthy. I am honest. Brutally honest at times. Therefore, I expect that if I ask you to do something, you will not have to question why. You will know that whatever it is I ask, I will not harm you. I do not expect you to wonder why I cannot do it for myself. Be assured that I CAN do it for myself. I want YOU to CRAVE to do it for me.

While I am extremely funny in the company of the right people or when I am in my not-so-elegant mood, I am not on this planet for your entertainment. Have a personality and sense of humor and keep my mind and spirit engaged and happy. If you find me sitting on my computer playing games or posting on forums for most of our time together, you can safely assume I Am Bored. I detest being bored. However, I love being content. Do not confuse the two.

I have spent years learning to love myself and I have arrived.

What I am NOT… is Perfect. What I want from you is to believe that I am. If you put me on a pedestal, be prepared to support that pedestal if you see it begin to topple.

Now, is that too much to ask?

I AM a Dominant Woman.

Lady Dove

1/10/2010 7:51:28 PM

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Pics are from Winter Solstice 2010 over the NYE weekend!!

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3/15/2009 4:13:08 PM

I am a particular Bitch and will not compromise what I want... that means having to wait sometimes to find just what I am looking for... but patience is something I've learned.

9/6/2008 12:19:41 PM

**A Storm is in the Air**

I love storms... thunder and lightning electrify the skin like the air...

A blanket on the floor in front of the open slider... the room lit by a few fragrant candles that enhance the smell of the fresh rain... the room lit sporadically with the flash of lightning... glimpses of skin, a glisten of sweat...

And Rough, Raw, Raunchy Sex...

7/27/2008 10:08:01 AM

He walks in the door, eyes lowered, greets me "Hello Ma'am". I can see his eyes straying to what I am wearing but he hasnt gotten to my smile. His eyes settle on my shoes.... he adores my 6 inch spiked heels as much as I do.

"Get ready pup".

He knows what this means. He strips naked and goes to the place his collar and cuffs are kept and brings them to me. He crawls on his knees to me and stops at my feet. I reach down and fasten the wrist and ankle cuffs and lastly, his collar. I put my finger under his chin and raise his face to me. I want to see that look in his eyes. Awe. A bit of fright. So overwhelming I can see him trembling.

He follows my instructions to stand up. I want to inspect his preparation for seeing me. I run my hands over his ultra-smooth body... from his neck, down over his chest and nipples, his smooth hard belly... By the time I reach his cock, its hard, erect and hugging his belly tightly. Soooo very yummy.

I point to the floor and he immediately gets on his knees. A simple cross of my legs and lift of my foot to his mouth and he begins licking my shoes, kissing them passionately, taking the entire 6 inch heel into his mouth. He knows this particular move excites me. He's a good puppy.

He is allowed to speak and asks, "Ma'am may I go higher?" I am in a good mood so I uncross my legs and allow his tongue to travel to my calf, my knee, my lower thigh. I want to tease him so I spread my legs a bit further so he can see between my thighs... I watch his eyes and hear his intake of breath. He becomes a bit overly enthusiastic and tries to head there with his tongue...

"Oh no no no pup. You havent been given permission to go there yet. Go get the thigh straps."

He obdediently crawls to the toy closet and finds them immediately... after all he has packed it all away after our last meeting.

I buckle one strap to my left thigh and one to my right. I stand over him as he leans his head back over the seat of the chair, and attach two hooks to each side of his collar and to the thigh straps. Now his head is positioned inches from the place he longs to go with his tongue... freshly shaved and showing obvious signs of my own excitement, he cannot and will not reach for it till told to.

"Put out your tongue pup.... further boy... as far as you can.... wiggle it."

He complies and I am smiling now. I bend my knees sligthly so that sweet paradise that he is yearning for, touches his tongue. It is still wiggling furiously and feels sooo very good as it reaches its mark on me. I can hear his moans coming more frequently now... over and over as if he is reaching for a drink he has been denied for a week. I pull back so his mouth is out of reach. I see his eyes open and make contact with my smiling face.

"You tease me Ma'am."

"Thats right sweet one. You do so want a drink don't you?"

"Yes Ma'am. Let me drink from you, please Ma'am", he begs, looking up at me pleadingly.

I lean forward over the chair to hold on to the arms, my knees now resting on the chair itself, and let the boy have what he wants. My thighs carress the sides of his face as his tongue works furiously, then slowly, short fast licks, slow long steady ones... he has been trained well on how to please me.

My belly tightens and we can both feel the orgasm building... he knows what I am about to do and his mouth opens... begging for it.

As my orgasm reaches its peak it splashes on him, drenching his face, his hair and runs down his neck and chest. He reaches with his hands and rubs it all over himself... but does not touch his hard throbbing young cock... not yet. He knows he will get release how and when I say so..... the night has just begun.

5/24/2008 5:59:57 AM

I just want to say something about these requests to add me as a friend on profiles. Please do not take it as an insult if I do not accept your request. I simply do not want to participate in this feature of collarme. If you want to add me to your favorites list, feel free. I simply do not choose to be adding friends or accepting invitations to be added as one to someone else's profile. It may seem rude. I don't mean for it to seem that way. Simply my choice.

2/22/2008 7:26:10 PM

Ive updated some of my photos. Like many other things, it was time for change. Are they approved yet? If you cant see them today, check back tomorrow... or until they magically appear.
I have been taking a bit of a break for awhile...dealing with life & just "stuff". Nothing earth shattering but I've gained a better sense of peace & contentment in the making of some long term plans.

Now Im feeling restless. My mind is filled with wicked thoughts.

Want to know what they are? *winxx

7/4/2007 4:34:46 PM

Ok heres the deal... I have pics and I want to know who Im talking to so please send a pic with your email.. why is it only the CD/TV/TG's are willing to share pics... c'mon boys!!! Show me what ya got...