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Accepting only female submissives / slaves into my mentoring - support group.

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Are you new to the lifestyle and have more questions than answers?


BDSM involves emotional risks, and requires lifestyle knowledge in order to be reasonablely safe. Simply put, the more you know ... you can make a wiser decision and protect yourself from harm. Don't choose a Dom without educating yourself beforehand.



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Submissives under my care will learn in a relaxed caring online atmosphere of support, honesty and openness.

With knowledge, you will be prepared to recognize and choose an honorable dom who has your best interest at heart verses the player or possibly a preditor.



Our time together will be enjoyable as well as educational. Some of the areas we will discuss ...

vHow to respectfully negotiate ... If a Dom/me tells you that a submissive / slave has no right to negotiation ... RUN and run fast

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What your rights are as a lifestyle submissive / slave.

vHow to ensure your 'NEEDS" will be met.


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How to remain a strong woman yet still be submissive. The lifestyle is no place for a 'doormat'.

vDom/me responsibilities and duties to the submissive.

vHow to keep yourself safe in the BDSM community.

vHow to deal with conflicting emotions during your emergence into the lifestyle.

vHaving pride and self respect with your chosen designation in the lifestyle.

vHow to deal with self esteem issues as a submissive.

vGain knowledge of a realistic and healthy D/s relationship.

vCommon qualities and behaviour of preditors.

The lifestyle is very individualized. It is not my intent to 'teach' my personal view of what a submissive should be. I will be presenting a wide range of study material and references. Each sub/slave is encouraged to accept what feels comfortable and applies to their personal situation.

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What I Seek

v Females (only) who have a sincere desire to grow and learn.

v Lifestyle experience, marital status, sexual orientation, race, age and weight are not an issue. The MOST important issue to me is honesty, cooperation and a willingness to learn.


v Location is unimportant as this will be an online relationship only.

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I am a cheerful sensitive woman with a quirky sense of humor. It is my goal to assist a submissive to gain confidence and acquire lifestyle knowledge as well as receive support and encouragement.


v I do not consider myself a Domme, but and lifestyle mentor and mediator.
There are times when I change my profile designation to Domme in order to reach submissives that are searching for guidance.
Just to make this very clear, I am NOT looking or offering a collar.

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It is very comforting for a submissive to be involved with a mentoring and support group. You will experience the support of the 'sisterhood'. Submissives can form a very special bond with one another that is like no other vanilla relationship.

The journey of a submissive can be a rollercoaster of emotions and frustrations. These issues can be vented and discussed during our group or private chat sessions. It is really comforting to know that what you are experiencing can be considered 'normal'. (lol) ... to know that you are not alone in your feelings.

Each of us deal with issues a little bit different. The ladies in the group are caring, non-judgemental and understanding. We all learn from one another ... yes, an inexperienced submissive's opinion and life experience can be beneficial and helpful to others.

If you are interested, please drop me a note.


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Be Healthy, Happy & Safe

~ Lady Dollz ~


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9/18/2005 11:11:30 PM

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I would like to thank those who have written requesting information on my mentoring group.  I am not accepting anyone new at this time.  Please check with me in the near future 

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Never make someOne your priority, when you are only Their 'option' 

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5/21/2005 11:58:52 AM
 
Some still don't
get it'. I am not having an identity crisis. ... rofl

Simply put .... There is no clear classification or orientation on this website to distinguish what I am offering. I change my orientation to 'Domme' when I have an opening in my mentoring group so that I can reach those that are new to the lifestyle and are seeking guidance and information.

I offer myself to female subs (only) as a mentor and a mediator. I mediate, protect and monitor my fem subs during early interaction with those Dom/me they are considering entering into a relationship. I take this responsibility very seriously and it is in this capacity only that I am treated with the respect and the accompaning responsiblity of a Domme.


I am submissive to only One.   I do not use the word 'Sir' lightly or casually.

There are only a few that I refer to as 'Sir'. They have earned that honorable title in my eyes for exceptional acts that are common place for them.
 

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4/18/2005 11:44:59 PM


Never make someOne your priority,
when you are only Their 'option'

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->     Females    <-
O N L Y

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I no longer have the luxury of time to accept  male subs in the mentoring program.

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You only have one chance to make a first impression.

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I don't suffer from insanity, I enjoy every minute of it.

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Laugh alone and the world
thinks you're an idiot.

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I used to be indecisive. Now I'm not sure.

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Hypochondria is the only illness I don't have.

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Psychiatrist to his nurse...Just say we're very busy, don't keep saying "It's a madhouse."

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Neurotics build castles in the sky, psychotics live in them,
psychiatrists collect rent.

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Isn't it a bit unnerving that doctors call what they are doing "practice?"

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I'm only paranoid because everyone is out to get me.

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Two analysts pass each other in the hall. One says "Hello." The other thinks, "I wonder what he meant by that?

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Schizophrenia beats being alone...

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Out of my mind. Back in 5 minutes.


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4/18/2005 11:43:12 PM


A wise Master addressing his BBW submissive about self esteem and negative body image.

The master said to His submissive "I own you, all of you - the good and the bad and it's not yours anymore to judge."
 
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Words that move me...
Courtesy of SirMike:


Jump, he said
I'm afraid, she said

He pushed her ...
and she flew.

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4/16/2005 8:57:59 PM

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3/25/2005 1:45:34 PM

There can be no domination without the gift of submission.

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Never make someone your priority,
While you are still their option.



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One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.

He said, The battle is between two wolves.

One is Evil. 
 
It is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.  
 
The other is Good. 
 
It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.
 
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his
grandfather, "Which wolf wins?" 

 
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

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I wish to thank those wonderful submissives who have taken the time to write a polite and respectful email. 

It is so very refreshing to see so many new ones who are serious about learning the lifestyle.

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For those that are new to the lifestyle:

I urge you to read as much information that you can find.

The more you know, the better choices you will make.


Smiles and Sunshine
 ~ Lady Dollz ~