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UPDATED 03.01.08

Searching for a service submissive, preferably one that has a masochistic yearning and definitely one who isn't married. If you feel you meet this description, feel free to contact me.

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over ten years now. My style is decidedly feminine, loving but firm, sadistic yet caring. I adore to be pampered. Nothing makes me smile more than a submissive who knows how to make my coffee or cocktail perfectly. Massages, manicures, pedicures, shaving and shampooing (especially if you have good strong hands) are a few of my favorite things.

I am married, but my husband is dominant and has his own interests. However, if you are bi, it is a plus. I have a tendency to be rather selfish with my toys anyway .

Things I abhor.

Liars. There is no reason to lie to me. Honesty is crucial to the success of any relationship, especially a D/s relationship.

Being disappointed. Things that disappoint me? Saying one thing and doing another. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Backing out of an obligation at the last minute. If there is any doubt you will be unable to fulfill an obligation, then don't make the commitment.

Uncleanliness. Self-explanatory.

What do I require? Your presence. Your commitment. Your desire to please. Your loyalty. Your pain. Your pleasure. Your submission.

I am a switch. I am very much a masochist and need that itch scratched from time to time. If you are interested in that aspect of my personality then contact me and we can discuss.


12/6/2008 6:18:52 PM
I need a distraction.  Someone to help me mend my broken heart.  (Yes Dommes can have a heart LOL).  Anyone out there have what it takes?  Are you certified in cardiac first aid?  Can you make me laugh again?
10/3/2005 4:44:36 PM
Why do people feel compelled to lie in this medium?  I don't really understand it at all.  I share everything I am comfortable sharing and if I am not comfortable sharing certain information I state my viewpoint plainly, but I don't lie.  I have met more liars on this site than I can count.  Is anyone here real?

Another thing, I state in my profile that I am not into feminization.  I don't have anything against it, but it does nothing for me.  I am not interested in sissies, cross-dressers or forced feminization. 

And while I'm on a roll, I am not interested in anyone relocating from a foreign country in order to serve me.  If you are coming to America to work, go to school or flee persecution, our doors are open as always, but don't come here with the express intention of serving me.  I don't have the time nor the energy to become involved in the immigration process on your behalf.

Oh what the hell, here's another one.  If you provide a photo, at least have the decency to give me credit for recognizing professional model photos/advertisements.  It's hardly credible to say you work in sales when your photo looks like the cover of GQ.

Which brings me back to where I started.  Don't lie!  I'm to the point right now where I will simply refuse to speak to anyone at any length until they are willing and able to meet me in person.  You are relocating to Jacksonville?  Great!  Look me up when you get here.
9/29/2005 7:01:55 PM
Hmmm, I must have had a really bad experience back in March .  Time passes and with it any negative feelings I might have been having at the moment.  Suffice it to say, I scrutinize people more carefully and have a tendency to take what I am told at face value.  I realize that I am not perfect (a long way from it) and expecting anyone else to be perfect is quite unrealistic of me.

I still despise liars and if I have cause to believe someone is lying to me then I won't waste any more of my time with them as life is far too short to be living a lie.

I have also realized some of my own limitations.  I have a very active vanilla life, a successful career and outside interests.  While I love this lifestyle, it is just a very small portion of who I am.   I AM someone who likes to be in control.  I AM someone who likes to be pampered.  I CAN be extremely selfish.  I can also be very giving and loving to special people in my life.

I have always looked at the exploration of my dominant nature as a journey into self-discovery.  So far, I am not dissappointed.
3/10/2005 3:43:17 PM
Right now I'm feeling somewhat disgruntled with male submissives.  I'm tired of hearing how they will do anything for you but cannot accomplish the simplest of tasks, or focusing only on sexual activity instead of D/s (yes, sex is part of what we do but it's not the primary aspect of D/s, just an extension of it), and then most recently, devoting large amounts of my time getting to know someone (and beginning to care for them) only for them to simply disappear from the face of the earth when it becomes apparent that this is for real and not some game.  No wonder most Femdom's become bitches!  (No offense intended ladies)

So!  Here's the deal, if you contact me, you better be real and sincere in your intent.  Plan on being scrutinized and interrogted  until I am satisfied that you are trustworthy.  Yes, I may come off as a bitch and no it's not your fault but I'm warning you ahead of time so you will understand why I have an attitude.   Lie to me and you're history.  I detest being lied to.

All I ask is simply for you to be a real person and not someone playing a game.  I have alot to offer a submissive who I deem worthy enough to serve me, and I don't say that because I think that since I am female I'm some sort of superior being.  I say that because, so far, I haven't found a male submissive worthy of taking out my garbage much less serving me as cherished property.

I am hoping that I have made myself perfectly clear.

Now, having said that, I will be at Chambers in Tampa again this weekend.  Don't know what I'm wearing yet, but I have long, straight dark brown hair which goes down to between my shoulder blades.  You can also asked someone which lady is Devon, I am well known, someone will be able to direct you to me.  I would enjoy meeting SINCERE gentlemen who are interested in serving an intelligent, caring, and confident Femdom.
2/11/2005 4:34:05 PM
Greetings,

I have been "meeting" many nice applicants and appreciate the efforts that they have put forth when writing to introduce themselves.  I have been pleased at the number of well thought out introductions in lieu of the usual "Can I be your slave?" posts.  When I see someone put forth a sincere effort in their communication, it let's me know that they will also put forth a sincere effort when serving me.

Tomorrow I will be on my way to Tampa to attend Fetish Circuit at Chambers.  If you are in the area, please feel free to come by and introduce yourself.  I'll be the tall brunette in the red plaid skirt and 5" heels.

1/7/2005 7:18:16 PM
Thank you to all who have responded to my ad.  I appreciate your sincere desires to serve myself and to those interested, my husband.

I must apologize for not responding as ettiquette dictates, the holidays were very hectic and then as soon as the new year began I came down with a cold from which I am just recovering.

I am going to be heading down to Tampa this weekend to attend Fetish Circuit at Chambers in downtown Tampa. If you are in the area, feel free to stop by and introduce yourself.  I will be wearing a two piece navy dress with long fringe on it. 
jane999
 
 Age: 26
 Monigomary, Maryland