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ABOUT MYSELF AS A WOMAN:...I am a plus size Woman with a dry, often warped sense of humor. I try not to take anything in life, including Myself, too seriously.

I am kind hearted, compassionate, understanding. Artistic and creative...a lover of antiques, collectibles and just plain junk! Initially I may appear quiet, aloof and reserved...but once I get to know you I've got a wickedly wild streak that often pops out at the least expected times. I am passionate about anything that captures My interest. A romantic at heart who still believes in the fine art of seduction, romance and "head over heels...heart pounding...head spinning" love. I also know this doesn't happen over night...but over time. It is something I very much hope to find again one day.

ABOUT MYSELF AS A DOMINANT WOMAN:...I desire control. I want to be the One who encompasses your soul...rules your mind and thoughts and causes you to serve Me...not out of fear or the purely viseral reaction between your thighs...but out of love and the genuine pleasure you receive from serving One you care about as your best Friend, your life partner...your "One".
I take pleasure in pushing limits...physically, emotionally and psychologically. Again, this requires time. I need and to know all those little buttons that make you tick, both as a man (first) then as the submissive you think you are. I don't profess to know it all and in actuality...never will as there is ALWAYS something new and exciting to learn. I still consider Myself to be a novice in many ways and in many areas. What I do know...I know well but there are so many more areas I wish to gain knowledge and experience in. What I truely desire is to meet a level headed submissive man in which I can grow...evolve...learn, have fun and develope WITH in a mutually loving and committed relationship.

WHAT I CAN BRING TO THIS RELATIONSHIP:...an honest heart. A firm desire (and hand) to push your limits as well as My own. A genuine desire to get to know the MAN that you are FIRST as well as the submissive that lies within. Hopefully I can bring a sense of peace, acceptance and completeness to your life...and fully expect the same in return.
If we chose one another (and yes...it is a mutual situation...just as in ANY relationship)...you will get a loving, protective and passionate Lady to stand with you for the rest of your life. I will be your biggest critic, your defender, your best friend, lover, confidant, partner...and Mistress.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:...I am looking for My submissive partner in life. The one who both compliments and completes Me as I do him. The one who's willing to sacrifice for his Ladys pleasures...whether it be performing domestic duties or something of a more...intimate nature. A man that derives pure joy from making his Lady happy...in whatever fashion that entails.

I seek a man who is intelligent, sensitive, humorous, creative, confident, in good health and emotionally sound. you MUST be local to the Western New York area. I believe that two people HAVE to be able to spend r/l quality time together in order to establish chemistry and compatibility. Also...you must be within My own basic age group. Once again...it's a compatibility and mutual interest issue.

I'm looking for one who believes in good old fashion conversation...about everything and anything...from the serious to the absurd. one who is open to discussing (in time) even those painful, tough and touchy subjects. I am looking for one who understands the importance of mutual chemistry and that we must click in all the important areas of both D/s and vanilla interests in order for the relationship to maintain any hopes of longevity. So please be prepared to furnish g-rated photos of yourself.
Last...but certainly NOT least...I seek one who has at least one foot firmly planted in the world of reality. one that can differentiate between a fictional internet story and what a REAL D/s relationsip entails. one who understands that 80% of life is spent in the vanilla world but knows that a healthy, WELL BALANCED, mutually satisfying D/s relationship CAN be incorporated into this world without trying to shock the entire community. Although I wish to incorporate aspects of the life style into a relationship I have NO desire to live and breath it. Tried it. Doesn't work. Vanilla with sprinkles might though.

WHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR:..I do not wish to be approached, in any manner, by one who is married...one who is involved in ANY type of committed relationship...or by one who is not emotionally, spiritually or physically free to enter into an exclusive one on one relationship should there be a mutual interest and desire to do so.

I am not seeking a "bratty sub"...or one that feels the need to be "broken". I have little patience for those who wish to fight/test My Dominance. Nor do I wish to "break" you...a broken spirit is of little use to Me, yourself or anyone else.

Again...I STRESS...please be local and within My own basic age group (ie: 50- early 60's)
If something in My profile moves you and you fit the criteria...please feel free to email Me a letter of intoduction. Make it something of substance please or I will not reply. Tell Me about yourself...(NOT meaning give Me a laundry list of your fetishes...the vast amount of Dommes you have served...your expertise in oral servitude or anything else of an intimate or sexual nature) If your email consists of this...do not expect a reply. Please show some tact and diplomacy.

To those that have read My profile and choose to go on to the next...I wish you well and the best of luck in your search.

Be well & safe......Lady Dee (and BTW...I am also MissDeeNile on this site. I'm not playing games....just keep forgetting passwords. I have so many at work, and they all change every 3 months, that I can't keep up with the few I have at home. Or maybe it's just "old timers"!)
6/18/2008 9:50:01 PM
I have discovered a new love. The cane. Unassuming in appearance. Both sensual and sadistic. Its sharp whistle slicing through the air has become music to My ears. The heat...the sight...of those perfectly alligned welts feed My hunger. Ahh yes, a new love indeed.
7/17/2007 6:17:34 AM
A fully committed power exchange relationship is like ANY other relationship committment......something you BOTH work at to create and something you BOTH work at to keep.
3/23/2006 3:12:52 PM
Something that I failed to incorporate into My profile and should have definetly mentioned...is the fact that I have an 13 yr. old son living at home with Me.  Therefore I am not often able to "jump and run" spontaniously.....or "scene" at the drop of a hat if the mood should strike. This is something you need to seriously take into consideration before initiating any contact with Me.





VicVixen
 
 Age: 25
 Philippines