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I am looking for a new personal slave that has time and energy to keep up with my various demands. Once this person is found and trained, I do plan on having a formal collaring ceremony. And I am also looking for a few playthings to distract me when I am in the mood for some variety in my life.
After much thought and debate, I have made the decision to re-stock my stable of submissives and to start working with someone to take on as a 24/7 slave. However, this will require LOTS of time, effort and commitment on my part and the potential slave's part. So, keep in mind, this is NOT being taken lightly. I am naturally dominant, a control freak by some standards and this is a LIFESTYLE for me and NOT a sexual fetish.
Once a proper slave is trained, this will be a 24/7 power exchange relationship. This will be for real and not like some story that has been posted on the internet. Chastity or being a cuckold can be a reality, however, if you are searching for being kidnapped or caged 24/7, do not waste the time to send a message to me.
My ideal slave would be atleast 25 years of age and younger than 50 years of age, have lived a life and enjoys this LIFESTYLE and is not looking for an occasional playtime with a Domme or just kinky sex. This person will be able and willing to live a 'normal life' during the day at work and then come home and be my personal slave in any way I see fit. That means that no matter what, I am in control at all times which includes the finances and even running the household. The training prior to moving under the same roof will be done IN PERSON only. I NEVER do phone, email or cyber training, so, please do not even ask.
Also, if the decision is made to start the training process/relationship, this will require you to be local. Keep in mind, relocation expenses for this position will be YOUR responsibility and do not even ask about me moving to you. Also, sponsorship to allow you to relocate to the United States from elsewhere is NOT an option.
So, it will be you making the conscious decision to give in to your slave side and place yourself TOTALLY in my hands to mold and shape to my personal specifications. Also, keep in mind, I want a person to be comfortable in their choice to follow this road, my family and friends all know I am a Domme and I refuse to go back into the 'kinky closet' because someone is in denial.
As far as my playthings/submissives, I require that you be local, not looking for kinky sex with a Domme, atleast 25 years of age, do not have so many restrictions on your time that I just write you off and I do PREFER that you be single or unattached. However, I will deal with that situation after background information has been confirmed and perhaps references have been checked on a case by case basis.
In a number of ways, I am 'Old Guard'. However, my feet are firmly planted in reality and the present. And keep in mind, a slave will have to deal with me in the vanilla world AND in the FemDom world. So, if you do not enjoy me for my entire personality, you will most likely not enjoy me at all.
Most people that know and love me tend to call me 'eccentric'. However, this is due to my bluntness, strong work ethics, semi-old fashioned belief system and expectations from life. And at the base of things, I feel that I work hard, play hard, do the right things all the time, why can't I be spoiled rotten and treated like a Queen once I arrive home from work?
Make a note, I am not looking for a 'pet'. "Pets" do not do chores, run errands, give foot rubs or massages or entertain me. They just tend to sit on the sofa like a cat and look pretty between licking their fur and eating. Not my personal taste by a LONG shot.
I am college educated, professional employed, twisted sense of humor and enjoy life. Some of my non-kinky likes are playing sports, cooking, reading, writing erotica, movies and almost all types of music. I can hold a rather good conversation I have been told, tell some wicked one line jokes/thoughts. Be warned, I can give you a run for your money if we play any sort of game that involved trivia or weird facts. 
I have been a Domme for a number of years now, tired of people that play games or are all talk and no action. Must be willing to put your naked hide where your mouth is. Do you think you can handle a sadist that has a wicked sense of humor and a high drive for torturing and training a slave to new and higher levels? 
i am a BBW and enjoy being one. so, if you can handle a woman that enjoys being in her body and what she can do with it, feel free to contact me......
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please make a note....
I do NOT enjoy long distance or online training. just never had that spark for me.
so, if you are not local, we can chat... but, I doubt more than that will happen. |
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Good morning....
Took some time away....which was MUCH needed..
It would be nice to come across a REAL person to amuse me... |
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ok... if you have time to write a long profile, more power to you.....
just make a note, not everybody has the time or the patience to type out War and Peace.....
not only that, if you are busy trying to use the mobile interface, you are not able to type until your fingers bleed.....
not only that, if you think about it... IF you are in the middle of serving a Domme, do you REALLY think they will give you directions that take FOREVER to give?? really????
besides, if you type everything about yourself in that profile, will you be able to carry on a 'normal' conversation that does not give your list of fantasies, wants, and demands you have for a dominant??? |
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Well well well....
I gave up my search for a bit of time. Frustration, holidays, work....A great recipe to make someone toss in the towel.
However, there eternal optimist in me has won the vote yet again....
So, I am back on the hunt for a proper slave
, A proper plaything and just a plain old pain slut to be my victim.
Soooooo many toys and evil thoughts begging to be released and appreciated... |
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Finally have 2015 wrapped up....
oh well... that means I have time on my hands and no proper slave to amuse me....
should I toss in the towel and give up? or, should I try to search yet again.....
have to admit... rather tired of being disappointed.....and I have NEVER been labeled a quitter.....
too damned exhausted to make the decision right now.... I guess I will think on it since my calendar is finally calmed down..... |
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been a bit of time since i have been on here..... i guess that life away from the keyboard got my undivided attention....
I guess that is a good thing... however....... that means extra energy and no proper outlet...
I will keep my fingers crossed and see what all happens...
is it a bad thing to wish for a true submissive and not just a plaything as a bday gift????
November is MY month..... time to see what my bday brings to me this year..... :) |
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for some reason beyond logical explanation.... guys on here will whine and fuss a storm about fake females on here and in real life....
however... if you spray paint yourself in gold paint... that does NOT make you gold.... you are just shiny and once the paint starts to flake off... you go back to your true self....
doesn't it prove to be a royal pain in the ass to try to keep up a fake personality?
and people wonder why so many small tests and tasks are given.... if you can't make it up to the curb... how in the hell will you be able to make it over the major hurdles of being a submissive or slave for a real woman?
oh yeah.... tired of guys offering oral service.... really??? you have NO OTHER SKILLS to bring to the table??? keep in mind, a dominant woman is still a WOMAN!!! if you are a submissive male, you are no less a male. offering to eat pussy til you pass out is not a cute thing...... be a man..... you better list some USEFUL skills and be able to hold a decent conversation about LIFE and not sports to keep a woman's attention.....
opening up a conversation about how you want to have a naked woman sit on your face while you are dressed up as a sissy does NOT show you are a submissive or slave. it shows that you are a selfish horndog looking for some kinky sex you can't get at home.....
if you want just kinky sex...... just say it...don't label yourself as a submissive or a slave. rather insulting to the TRULY submissive men in the world that understand the real nature of a power exchange relationship and are not as shallow as a puddle in a parking lot.... |
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It was just brought to my attention that the information you post on your profile does not do an automatic update.
so... I have updated my age to make sure I keep things current.
also, keep in mind... I am a focused woman and know exactly what I want. I am not so set in my ways that I have the same expectations of every person I meet. I am a realist.... the best part of this world is variety.... so, keep in mind... I will not have the same expectations of a new slave that I had of a part time playmate....
as time goes on, I will raise the bar on my expectations of you if we go into training. about the only thing that I expect no matter what is basic manners. and if you are one of those people that sets up a profile long enough to get a 'kink fix'... your actions tend to be a dead giveaway and I know you are not for real....
also, can sniff out a fake just by their profile... and trust me... the introductory email tends to show your true nature.... |
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good evening....
I know that most people on this site tend to scan and not really read a profile. I must admit... that is setting yourself up for failure....
I fully understand and respect that people have physical traits that they seek in a partner or companion...everybody does.... part of human nature. and human males are highly visual creatures.... medical studies have proven that even...
one thing however.... if you claim to want a dominant female for a power exchange relationship..you really should know what the hell you are talking about and what you want....
if you are focused on toys, lingerie and equipment... you are just looking to try to live out some story you read online or a porn you watched. a true dominant can figure this out during the first few lines of your email to them. if you list all your wants and ask for a picture right away... that is not to verify you are talking to a real person... that is to see if you deem that person to be fuckable......
keep in mind..... it is only fair if you are judged as harshly as you judge others..... karma is a cruel and fair balance in this world..... |
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The Golden Rule... people get onto the computer and TOTALLY shut off their minds.... guys all over this site are whining about how they come across gold digging females or people that want to take advantage of them financially or play with their emotions in a bad way...
Keep in mind... females run across about 500% more time wasters, fakes, etc than the average guy does here online. You also tend to ignore the fact that most people HAVE LIVES AWAY FROM THE FREAKING KEYBOARD!!!!!! If you send a message and it takes a bit of time to answer... you act like the world will stop spinning. And then the nasty messages start.....
REALLY???? Most of the wankers on here are married or attached and expect the females to be understanding and willing to put up with all that extra crap....however, the female does not feel the need to hunch over the keyboard on a constant basis typing with one hand and playing with herself at the same time like you are......
GET A LIFE!!! STOP BEING RUDE DUMBASSES!!! You NEVER know if you may meet that person you were rude to in real life.... and they might just rip you a new one for fun and embarrass the HELL out of you in front of your wife and kids who do not know you are wearing panties and jacking off...... |
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Hello all....
Please take a moment to read this BEFORE you decide to send me a message.
There is a difference between a submissive and a slave. If you are married with kids and etc, there is NO way you could be a slave to a Dominant. There is NO way your life allows you to drop everything at the drop of a hat and take care of an assigned task.
Make a quick note: the point of a submissive or slave is to please the Dominant. Not saying you should be a welcome mat and have footprints all over ya... but if you send an introductory message with your list of 'demands' or 'requests' and talking about performing oral service on a constant basis... do you really think that women focus all of their energies on getting their pussy licked???
My favorite line from a movie is when Rosie O'Donnell said to a submissive in Exit to Eden.. "If you wanna do something for me, come paint my house."
Every man has a tongue... however, not every man knows how to use it to speak properly and turn on the NUMBER ONE sexual organ on a woman... HER BRAIN!!!!
Major turn on for most women..... come home and chores are done PROPERLY. WAY better than just slobbering all over her clitoris and labia.... not only that... wash some dishes and not ask for something... more likely a woman will be nice to you..... the moment you ask to wear her thighs like earmuffs.... guess what you will not be getting any time soon..... |
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it has been ages since I posted on this journal. I know a few people read it and if someone takes the time to read and pay attention before sending a message.... all the better.
a lot of times people will complain about finding fake people on this website and gold digging bitches and etc. sad to admit, that can and does happen. however, it happens on both sides of the flogger. Dominant, submissive, switch, doesn't really matter, it can happen to anybody.
however, just keep in mind, if you are a submissive in search of a Dominant for playing, short term or whatever, you should remember the golden rule that you were taught in kindergarten and hopefully never forgot: Do unto others and you would have them do unto you.
if you want someone to treat you with respect, you should show them respect. it takes only a moment to turn a good conversation into a total disaster. guys complain about women that come at them with an attitude and a LONG list of demands. WHAT ON EARTH makes you think it is ok to come at a woman with a LONG list of demands and an attitude? if you don't like it, why should someone else put up with it?
if you are open minded enough to explore the taboo side of life, sex and relationships, you should be willing to learn, experiment, and not come at someone like they burned your freaking steak.
keep in mind... if you have someone that wants to be trained and someone that just wants a safe place to have kinky sex for free... which one would you pick????
looking for a haven to be a total asshole and NO ramifications when you act like an asshole is not being realistic. and keep in mind... a true dominant pays attention to EVERYTHING. and you really want that instead of someone that ties you up naked in a field and drives off.....you should NEVER piss off the person that is about to tie you up.... they may decide to be a childish asshole and teach you a lesson...., |
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i wonder... is this site even useful for meeting new people anymore? |
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a wonderful way to start a long holiday weekend...
had a chance to play with my fave human puppy first thing this morning...
forget a mt dew to start my day... playing with poochie is and was WAY more fun....
sorta funny being able to run errands and do chores with an evil grin covering my face....
oh well.... i am off to take care of a few other things....
huggs and kisses to my poochie that has spoiled me royally :) |
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well... after much soul searching and disappointment... several people from previous contacts will have to be tossed to the side. actions speak louder than words and i guess they just didnt take me seriously when i said that..... their loss and someone else's wonderful gain.
words to live by: Sometimes you have to be a high-riding bitch to survive. Sometimes being a bitch is all a woman has to hold onto. |
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i do LOVE the week of my birthday. my poochie came to visit me and i had a wonderfully wicked day with him. he is a submissive of his word and i must say he does make me smile no matter what. i wonder if other submissives like poochie exist that are not officially spoken for? |
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hello to poochie....
my human puppy never disappoints me...
he even did a photo session for me....
only days away from having my new playroom up and running.....
yes, i am excited -- evil grin |
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i want to give a shout out to my human puppy -- poochie
he is a truly a submissive of his word and makes me proud every time i give him a task to handle
:) |
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had a wonderful weekend with my human puppy -- poochie...
now, back to work on getting a proper playroom set up again :) |
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a shout out to my human puppy -- poochie
I must admit, he does make a woman proud of him and makes that extra effort to make sure he brings a smile to my face. |
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trying to get back into the swing of things.....
i wonder... has CM become the MySpace of the kinky world?
there has to be atleast one guy out there that can be a stud in a stable of sissies.... |
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I heard over the holiday weekend that no kinky people are in St. Louis... I wonder, they used to have Beat Me in St. Louis...
have kinky people been driven underground the world over?
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i forgot to type this since life has been rather hectic as of late...
poochie found his way back home... i guess that chip the vet suggested proved to be worth it [evil grin]
and i do know that poochie loves it when people know he has been a VERY good puppy.....
so, a thumbs up to poochie..... a very good human puppy
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it seems that there are tons of people on here looking for cyber or making the decision to COMPLETELY ignore a profile before contacting someone...
goodness, if you cannot follow basic requests like that, how on earth are you going to be a good submissive or slave????
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ummm..... i have finally decided to start interviewing possible subs again... i sure hope things have gotten better while i was out of commission....
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I decided to take a bit of time to relax....
now, I am back, however, after watching from the shadows for a bit of time, it really makes me second guess my decision to return............
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i am finally back in action.. thank goodness...
however, now, it seems to be harder to find subbies........
are they hiding or all of them with potential are located overseas????
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i wonder, do housebois exist anymore????
i would like a domestic subbie to assist me... but, oh well... i guess that is a dream...
also, if you are on the other half of the planet, please dont contact me...
and due to various reasons and problems, i am being REALLY selective with 'attached' subbies... so, if you are married or involved... you have more tests before you get a chance to interview.... |
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i HATE how life can mess up fun...
oh well, then again, i havent had the fun of having a proper slave or playmate in ages... so, i guess that 'normal life' was the best thing to keep me busy for the last few months....
however, things are back to calm... let the training and fun finally begin..... |
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ok, here we go..... just so people understand and it cuts down on the potential communication problems...
at present, i am looking for a live in slave for a poly household. after much thought and soul searching, i have decided to take that major step...
i might take on part time submissives, but, please keep in mind, you will not be the sole submissive in my life.... |
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i swear, i hate the holidays at times...
it seems that all the 'escape players' come out of the fog... the people that just want to get played with for a few mins and then go back to being 'normal' for the rest of the year....
do REAL slaves or submissives exist anymore????
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why on earth does it seem to be impossible to find a true slave or submissive??
i can find what appears to be alot of fakes, tons of guys looking to get laid, or my personal fave, the ones looking for extra stuff outside of their marriage....
stuff that runs around your mind as you are doing various tasks and cant think of a subbie to call when you are in the mood to play.... |
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goodness, get too busy and you lose track of life sad to say....
my poochie seems to be lost on the wind sad to say....
now, i need a new subbie to help me with various chores and such....
let the search begin yet again.... |
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my poochie finally found his way back to the loving feet of his Mistress. we have started his training again... I am rather looking forward to progressing with is training and seeing just how long he can handle cage time. and much like in the past, poochie has again renewed my faith in good subbies.... he always does a VERY good job for his Mistress and follows every single order to the exact letter.... |
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people have asked why i have taken a much 'stronger' stance on meeting new and potential subs.... the new stance is due to too many people being online looking for material to pleasure themselves to... ALL talk and NO action... that gets to be rather annoying..... just because you enjoy watching a video or reading a story online about FemDom does not mean you are serious about the lifestyle. so, due to previous wankers, i have a new stance... and keep in mind, if you ticked me off in the past, you have NO chance at another shot..... |
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hello out there....
make a quick note please, i do not enjoy chat invites. thus, they will be ignored....
i am not in search of any 'online friends' and such, so, those requests will be ignored also.
poochie is now back.... i wonder if he will be the only puppy in my kennel????
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back from ALOT of soul searching....
i have made a number of major decisions over the last few months that i have been 'out of touch'....
before, i was too 'nice'... well, the new lean and mean me is here for 2008
keep in mind, patience has moved and and refused to leave a forwarding address... .so, if you are a waste of my time or energy, have faith you will find out rather quickly....
by the way, poochie, your owner is back and it is time for you to stop wandering the alleys of town in hopeless despair.....
if you havent been adopted out, make sure to get in touch with me ASAP!!!!! send me a message here and lets get you back in obedience training...
i have new videos and techniques i want to explore with my lonely little puppy....
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finally.... summer is over....
dont believe the rumors, i am still kinky, still dominant and still in SE wisconsin....
had to do some travelling, but i am finally back in town. if it takes me a bit of time to reply to the previous messages, bear with me... i didnt have internet access during my travels.....
quick note to my human puppy... 'poochie'... i have missed you incredibly.....hopefully our schedules will meet again... i do want to see you caged up again... you do look cute that way [evil giggle fit] |
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goodness....
is it possible to go through 'detox' on being kinky?
i know that being a good brat for too long tends to make me evil... but, this is just getting out of hand....
due to being a responsible adult, i have been out of action for a bit... however, i am back and with LOTS of stored up energy....
ummm... now i just need to find and outlet.....
will i find that here? according to some of the profiles and journal entries i have read on here, it seems that things have gone down hill and lots of fakes...
oh well, i have always been the type of person to find out via personal experience. fingers crossed, i will not be disappointed.... |
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hello all.....
it has been a bit of time since i have been online. but, i have noticed that it seems that a rather large amount of people will update their profile to state that they have been 'collared' or have been made someone's personal property....
then, all of a sudden, within a week or so, that same profile is changed to what it said to begin with.
does that mean that people continue to make assumptions instead of ACTUALLY communicating? goodness, i know that vanilla relationships tend to be rather awful when it comes to communication, however, i would think that if someone is getting ready to tie you up and such, you would atleast make the effort to find out if you BOTH are on the same page....
also, i wanted to wish my poor wounded poochie a happy belated birthday. he wasnt able to celebrate by playing catch with me, but, he knows i am thinking of him and hoping to get him on his collar and leash really soon......
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ok, this totally stumps me and i doubt i will try to do the proper research to find out the reasons behind it...
ok, make a note... IF you contact someone that says in their profile they are not into online, telephone or email training, that does mean the will want to meet you IN PERSON and actually expect you to show up.....
this entire mess about getting cold feet and not showing up or avoiding meeting in person or even chatting on the telephone to see if meeting in person will happen is TOTALLY stupid and childish...
i just dont understand how someone can send you naked photos of themselves or do a webcam show and then chicken out when it comes to meet face to face or to chat on the telephone....
oh, yes, i get it now, WANKER ALERT!!!! just make sure to remember that if you develop or grow into the WANKER CROWN, you will NEVER be able to remove it from your brainless head.....
the worst part is that the WANKERS make it harder for the real people out there to find someone to explore with. not only that, WANKERS are the reason why so many Dommes and Doms have such restrictions on chatting or meeting people.
sad part is that i have noticed a number of profiles here that say they are 'NOT looking' or prefer to limit contact. ummm.... they must have run into the 'WANKER squad' that lurks here...... |
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patience is GONE!!!!!
ok, i have a number of people that have contacted me again after i ended contact with me before....
make a note, i have a list of reasons as to why i will END contact with someone....
1. asking if i will pay for you to come meet me.
2. ALWAYS talking about your personal fetishes and NOTHING else -- this is a rather BIG planet, even if you only come up with sports as a subject, that is ALOT better than always talking about things you want me to do to you IF we ever meet...
3. asking me to send you detailed emails about how i trained previous submissives or basically giving you stories to jack off to....
4. begging me to kidnap you and take you away from reality and hide you in my basement...
5. asking if you can be a sexual or oral only slave for me. or stating about the various types of sex acts that you have NEVER done with a Black Woman....
6. asking to be considered as a slave but in reality you are just looking for kinky sex and not being trained as a submissive or slave to serve a Mistress
7. wanting and begging to live out some story that you read online and played with yourself to....
just a basic list of reasons why i will make the decision to not contact someone again.... try to make a note and pay attention... |
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good mornin all.....
i have read a few journal entries posted by other people here online. as a Domme i can fully understand and sympathize with several people's decisions to give up totally on their search for a good and kinky partner. i must admit, i have tossed my towel into the ring a number of times out of pure frustration. i even did that when it came to 'vanilla' relationships. however, you have to keep in mind, part of the human psyche and biological side of life is PASSION.
keep in mind, passion is what keeps people alive for so long. serious illness, hitting some major potholes in life, anything... it is PASSION that keeps the human spirit alive and kicking. it is PASSION that makes you get up every morning to look at a new day. dont let the fire in your belly go out. that is the WORST thing you can do. live life with passion and things will be alot better. not only that, if you are a Dominant and you are searching for a slave or submissive, i you let that fire of passion die you, why on earth would that potential slave or submissive want to approach you? keep in mind, as a Dominant, you most likely do not want a slave or submissive that has given up on life. so, why should a slave or submissive want a Dominant that has given up on life?
it might take a bit longer than what you want or have in mind, you will most likely run into a ton of fakes and idiots, but, it is the journey in life that or a quest that helps to shape you. besides, the journey you take will help to make you a better Dominant for the right slave or submissive once you finally find them. besides, who knows, you might find that person in the most unlikely of places......and they might even land in your lap when you are NOT actively looking.
and yes, at present, i am in a really good mood. i have been screening and interviewing a number of possible slaves and submissives. at present, i have found my wonderful poochie, and i have a few other people that i am considering for live in positions. keep in mind, i am being realistic, but, so far, after much disappointment and such, i think i have a few people that will prove out to be well worth all the crap that i have experienced before..... |
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one quick note.... i am a LIFESTYLE Domme. that means this is not a fetish for me. i am not the type of woman that does this just to get aroused for sex....
i have no problem with someone that enjoys Female Domination as a sexual fetish. just keep in mind, since i am a lifestyle person and dont do this for sex or to be a gold digger, i might be a bit more intense than most people think or expect....
also, keep in mind, i did ALOT of thinking and such before i decided to explore this lifestyle and enjoy the adventure.... |
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hello there....
well, i have to admit, my poochie does try his best to impress me and show me he is worth my energies and effort to train and play with.
the morning after he took my laundry, he called me promptly the following morning to ask if he could bring my items over before work. once he arrived, he explained to me that he would have brought the laundry to me that evening, however, he was told that he would have to work late and that he did not want to bring my clean laundry to me past the deadline that was set. so, instead, he did it early.
he explained to me that he arose at 4:30am to make sure he had all of my laundry properly folded and packed away to bring it to me. i swear, i think that if i told him to bring me some coffee and a bagel he would have arrived with the coffee still hot from just brewing.
i do LOVE when someone takes pride in what they do and do a VERY good job. now, keep in mind, i am NOT a morning person by a long shot. however, it was rather nice to have my laundry personally delivered at 7am before i had to get ready for a 10 hour shift.
later that day, my poochie made sure that he told me about his long day at work. and that he was totally exhausted, however, it was a good exhaustion since he knew he was partially exhausted from getting up at 4:30am to do some work for his Mistress. so, it was a rather satisifying day for my little poochie...
and it goes without saying, he was given a nice little reward for being such a good puppy for me. the next time i get to play with my puppy, i think he will get to be properly put on his leash and taught some proper tricks.... i have to make sure that i pick up some begging strips for my puppy.... i do LOVE hearing him beg for a treat... and watching him pant and such for his treat....[wicked grin] |
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my poochie was able to stop by tonight....
he is a VERY good slave and would be a wonderful example to most of the people on here....
the only drawback is that he has other obligations, however, when he says he will make arrangements to come serve me, he is there and awaiting my orders.....
he is the ONLY person i have met online or via a fetish website that knows how to properly do chores, show up when he says he will and does not expect his Mistress to stand over him as he is doing the chores he has been ordered to do.... and he does not EXPECT or demand playtime with me..... too many people will show up with their demands and expectations and do NOT understand what SERVICE is....
so, poochie... even if you think you are not a perfect human puppy, you are a VERY good puppy and i do enjoy and look forward to training my puppy.......hell or high water, i will MAKE the time for my poochie since he has proven to me that he is worth the energy and effort to train and play with....
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QUICK NOTE: IF you decide to send me a message or a note, please pay VERY close attention to my profile information. Also, if you feel you cannot handle a multiple slave situation, DO NOT apply or contact me for a position as a slave.
submissive = PART TIME ONLY/occasional plaything
slave = FULL TIME/LIVE IN situation with other slaves that will serve me 24/7 when they are not working outside of the home and they will have a VERY specific job/station in my stable... |
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ok, what is the deal now? i find it rather amazing.... get messages out of every corner and what happens, try to continue the conversations and the people go 'poof'.....
DO NOT complain about how there are players, fakes, etc and you know that when push comes to shove, you have NO intentions on meeting someone in person and putting your butt on the line after typing all sorts of crap in emails.....
and people have the nerve to wonder why they have been searching for a Domme forever it seems.... perhaps you have a sign on your forehead saying you are a fake or a game player.....
think BEFORE you send a message..... |
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ok, here i am, finally have some energy and time......still busy, but, a woman can MAKE time for fun or wicked entertainment.......finally done with the being sick thing.....worst part was the damned side effects of the cure doing more damage than being sick..... but, oh well, need to find someone i can properly flog to get my shoulder warmed up again. a kinky version of spring training i guess  so far, i have been getting LOTS of messages from people where their profiles turn up as being 'gone'.....what is the deal? people set up a profile to send out an introductory message and then go proof? ummmm, does that mean that alot of people set up their profile and then get busted by their mate and then have to rush around and pull down the profile to avoid divorce court or something? or, does that mean that alot of new people on here are caught telling lies or are posting up profiles that are offensive to even kinky people???  |
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ok, here i am.... patience level is at a negative four on a 1 to 10 scale. NOT a good thing....now, the level is for a number of reasons. first off, i have had the wonderful displeasure of being under the weather for almost a month now. then, to add to that problem, besides two rounds of medication, the side effects of the medications were actually WORSE than the illness. needless to say, being sick can really mess up a person's life or even having fun. and then, i get to finally come to the computer to check email and messages and get a couple of notes here from people that were upset that i hadnt answered them within 30 mins. it would have been really nice to atleast have received a message that started off with 'are you ok? havent heard from you in a while.' instead of the stupid crap that people felt compelled to send. take a quick note, i do have a life AWAY from the computer. that means that i dont sit on the computer for days on end without sleep, food or basic daily hygiene in the hopes that a message or email has been returned. and also, not everybody goes to adult themed websites at work and put their employment at risk like it appears that a number of people on here do. it is sort of amazing how someone will tell you how they have been unable to find a Domme in what seems like forever. well, take some nice advice, you expect a Domme to be willing to put up with your work schedule, wife, live-in girlfriend, child visitation weekends, family obligations and phone restrictions and even more, that is a TWO way street.... believe it or not, most REAL Dommes do NOT sit at the computer dressed in leather from head to toe with a flogger in their hand lurking online for their next submissive or slave. if you run into a woman like that, be sure you will not blend well with that person due to their various demands on your time, money and body. and with most of you, i dont think your wife or girlfriend will appreciate you trying to give all your time and resources over to that other female that has NO life away from the computer and enjoys using people til they are broke and tossing them away. not only that, make a MAJOR note, if you dont have patience via email, WHAT on earth would make me think you would have patience in person if i decide to do some bondage with you? and besides, if you think i should drop EVERYTHING to answer your emails, then you will most likely expect or demand that i drop everything once again to make time for you according to YOUR schedule. keep in mind, actions speak LOUDER than words. if you act like a complete idiot online, then you will most likely be the same way in person. and if that is the case, WHY would i spend ANY time or energy to try to meet you? that means that would be time wasted and energy thrown away that could have been better spent elsewhere..... |
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a person on this site took it upon their person to send me an email shortly after i updated my profile. well, needless to say, after reading the rather stupid email and calming down, i have decided to post something about it. keep in mind, this person didnt even bother to say 'hello' in the email or try ANY sort of friendly approach before telling me that '1. i would NEVER find what i am searching for. 2. my standards are too high 3. my id is too 'scary' and might frighten people off.
ok, here we go..... first off, if you have NO information or details about situations, you should not make assumptions. i think i just take for granted that ALL parents teach their children that during the formative years. yet again, i am proven wrong......
now, i KNOW that i shall find what i am looking for. i have found it before and due to circumstances beyond human control, that relationship ended. and besides, IF that person that sent the email knew ANYTHING freaking thing about me, they would know i make it a hobby to beat the odds in life.....
now, as far as standards being tooo high. goodness, i didnt know that that expecting a person to look like their photo -- which should have been taken in the last decade -- they email to you is impossible. also, i didnt know that expecting a person to have a personality, manners, basic personal hygiene and the ability to tell the truth was a bit too much to ask. however, i will make a note of that for the future and start looking for submissives and slaves on websites that cater to the lower parts of the primate ladder.....
and as far as my ID goes..... well, ummm... if you pee on yourself when you read an ID, you have a rather serious problem and need to seek professional help of the emotional kind.....and besides, if you are too 'intimidated' to send me an email based upon my screen moniker -- which has a rather cute story as to why i selected it hiding in the shadows -- you are just too damned much of a whiny pantywaist for me to even start a conversation with......if you cant handle a screen name, how on earth will you handle me coming at you with a flogger????? dont even mention a paddle....good grief, you would die from a massive heart attack......
i could semi-understand if i had the ID i have and said i LOVE edge play.....but, that is not the case by a LONG shot......besides, should i select an ID that says i am sweet and such? or, better yet, a kinky female looking for a face to sit on? it seems like people expect that.... or, better yet, perhaps i should change my ID to BBWBLKBITCH????????
so, basically, take a bit more time to look INSIDE the book before trying to give a review of it..... life MIGHT be more fun for you and who knows, you might actually meet people that can think and hold a conversation. and besides, not all women that are a smaller size or the 'classic opinion' of attractive are the best women to spend your time with...... |
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a TOTALLY wasted friday night...... ok, my partner in wicked and i decided a few weeks back to look for some 'playthings' to entertain the both of us. so, last weekend, we met the first round of applicants. out of three people, one person proved to actually be worth some time and effort. the other two proved to be just people to show up, be used and sent away......we had one person just stand us up, one person that had good potential and two people that went POOF once we discussed them being of service for other things besides strap on play.....and then, we had the situation last night. the ONLY high points of the night was that i got to play pool after a LONG vacation and i had a good meal. the company proved to be totally disappointed from the very moment he set eyes on me and my partner in wicked. HEY!!! if you are a person that is looking for a certain physical type of Domme, ask for a pic before acting like a shallow idiot for an ENTIRE evening!!!! I have to admit, i was better off staying at home last night and watching repeats of Reba while eating leftovers instead of a two hour meal with someone that wanted to run away and kept looking around the place for a fire exit......
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WHAT is the deal with people 'claiming' they are looking for a real Domme and want to do something IN PERSON and they act a TOTAL fool? So far, I have played email tag or cell phone voicemail tag with FIVE people and they have TOTALLY dropped the ball.....
If we were playing sand volleyball, they would have lost so many games it would be rather sad. ummmm.......whine about fakes on your ad or journal here, get a phone call from a REAL Domme and run into the hills and go poof..... NOT very impressive...... |
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well, here i am.... tons of chores, lots of extra energy and NO outlet....
ACK....... i guess i am looking for the impossible, a good slave or submissive that is fun and multi-purpose. for instance, it would have been great to have someone to run my errands after work for me tonight. especially since i had a rather stressful day....however, i had to do that myself......ACK
and then to top things off, i would kill for a good massage and a helpless and naked man to tie up, tease, hear whimper or beg and help me to relax before going to sleep for the night......it might be more fun than watching Batman again.....having a man tied spread eagle to my bed and hearing his breathing getting deeper and quicker as his joystick stands at attention for me to do as i wish and please......
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| Age: 24 |
| Manchester,
United Kingdom |
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