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A profile doesn't really do justice in allowing someone to get to know another..it's just the tip of the iceberg, but a good starting point nonetheless.
Now, onto the tip of the iceberg, giving you some insight in who I am; I could tell you about all My passions and preferences, but we know that doesn't spark compatibility, at least not in a meaningful sense of the word. It cant tell you if we're going to match in any of the ways that really count, either in everyday vanilla life, or the real of bdsm. No. What you want to know is, am I the kind of Domme that is strong enough to express her desires yet still respect yours, am I the kind of Domme who has goals and a life outside of searching for her special submissive, am I the kind of Domme who can let you know how confident and caring She is with a guiding grasp of your arm, or a strong look in your eyes that gives you tingles in the right places, am I sharp enought to give you a conversation so stimulating that it's like the sensation of being a kid in a candy store, with time standing still......
If I have your attention, you might already know the answers to My questions. I'm not your average Domme, and don't fit any typical stereotypes that you may have met before. I'm here for that submissive who has become disappointed and tired of sifting through a 1000 vulgar propositions from self absorbed, inexperienced, unrefined Domme's, who I'm sure are perfectly fine for someone out there, but they're not lighting up your candles, now are they ? or blowing them out; Life is too short not to get what you are seeking .
D/s is not about race, or the hardware, it's not about the pain, not about the bondage. D/s is about an exchange of power. It is a relationship in which the balance of power is unequal. It is about the mind, about psychological control and internal(mental) enslavement. D/s is not for everyone, any more thatn golf or tequila or politics is for everyone. And for those who do claim it is their kink, the depth to which D/s is a part of their lives will vary. D/s-ers can arise from all walks of life-any sexual orientation, any profession. I am not a pro, so don't expect that, for I too, am still learning.
About Trust: I believe trust is given in the form of consent, as you come to trust Mistress more and more, things u can do to please Me as your Mistress will expand. Another aspect of this trust will be the ability for you to remove your emotional armor when talking to Me, and when around Me. I know to some degree or another, we've learned that we are vulnerable unless we hide some parts of ourselves for the world at large. We hide some of our emotions, we hide our crazier thoughts, we hide our fantasies, our impulses, our desires. We wear a mask or two or three, and if we are lucky we have a few close friends whom we know will not just tolerate, but accept most of who we are.
Once your trust has been given to Mistress, you will discover that it has suddenly freed you from the need to protect yourself, from the need to put a lid on your self-expression, and from the need to armor your heart when talking to Me or with Me. With this trust, Mistress has not only made sure you understand all of who I am, and that I have accepted your trust. I also will embrace it. Every flaw, every fear, every dream, every hope, all of you. Then you may trust Me completely that you can give all of yourself, and know that I will not harm you in any way. Life is too short to not get what you are seeking ...I have spoken.
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