Ok I know I have been slacking but the holidays do that people.  But here's the bottom line: I am seriously seeking a sub this new year.  But he has to be more than an ass to spank.  I am seeking someone who has much upstairs to offer as he does down stair.  You must be appropriate when approaching me.  I prefer Ma'am than to Mistress.  You only have the right to address me as mistress once you wear my collar not before.  So let the games begin.