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	I am a naturally Dominant Woman with a very deliciously wicked sadistic streak. I am bi, polyamourous and involved in several long term and long distance relationships. My primary partner is local and submissive. I seek male and female submissives/slaves/switches who are in British Columbia or Washington State. I am interested in online relationships only as a place to start and if you don't intend or aren't able to meet me in person, please look elsewhere. I am also looking to build friendships with other polyamorous Dominants in the hopes of building a poly & D/s intentional community for recreational events and possibly housing.

9/18/2008 6:42:10 PM

I've not been visiting this site regularly and do apologize for delays in responding to your lovely messages. I am spanking as many lovely butts as I can handle at the moment and am not seeking new subbies. This may change as I run them through my training. Meantime, keep well and continue to say hello. Conversations will likely minded people are always fun.

5/24/2008 8:13:33 PM

The last while has been interesting. I've had online conversations and encounters with male and female subs and slaves that have messaged me here on collarme. It has helped me to define what I DON'T want more than help me find what I DO want.

I've very much enjoyed the warm welcome I found in one of the forums and wander in there now and again.

I'm finding online stuff to be less than adequate. Time zone issues certainly impact things and the lack of privacy will go on for a bit longer. However, the greater chafing is that I want to play in real life. I belong to the local BDSM club and find that being swarmed by willing subs in a club where Dominants appear to be an endangered species...just doesn't work for me. I prefer to know my subs well enough to anticipate problems and intuitively sense where things should go. Subbie for the night makes me uncomfortable especially now that alcohol is sold on site at events. There are other groups though.

The end result is that I am going to set aside time to meet people who are local to me on collarme and push the shyness & wannabe envelopes. I will chat online first of course, but in the end I want to see your pretty/handsome self in real life and you me.
I want to see lovely red marks on your tender flesh and hear you cry out with pain and delight.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh yeah.......

3/13/2008 9:32:38 PM

So life changed here and I have had computer and privacy issues. I have resolved some of that and will be pursuing interviews with willing subs via IM. Male subs are more prevalent in my contacts but I would love a few sweet girls to torment. Additionally, I would like to play with couples where both are submissive. I'm thinking long term, local and in person primarily. I am going to be building a dungeon in my home in the summer and need some fannies to fan.
Although...Victoria IS a great vacation spot.

2/9/2008 10:30:41 AM

Well, it has been an interesting welcome here on collarme. I was positively swarmed by willing subbie and slaves. I have sorted through my messages and contacted some who are local and some who aren't. Directly after that I became ill and have now just begun to feel up to following up on those contacts. To be fair, I need to see if my time and energy is enough for those already chosen and that they in fact meet my criteria for addtions to my stable before I respond to anyone else. Thank you for your charming messages.