Collarspace.com

Not seeking a real life boy (Mine has been with me many years) altho I play and train online with special ones while they look for a real life connection. I am very real. Fairly casual and lowkey when talking and relaxing. Anything but when in a scene or doing training. Consider velvet gloves and kitchen heat. Many years in the RL scene. What works? Manners, honesty, etc. What doesn't? Arrogance. Selfishness, etc.

I'm also a Top, and that says it all to those that understand the terms. Not a pro - I have pets, not customers. Happy to talk, exchange knowledge, etc. Pull up a chair - or a cushion - and chat.
9/8/2010 10:40:25 AM
There is a fine line between a profile that shows a boy will be challenging to a good Domme - bringing a smile of anticipation to her face - and a profile that is aggressive and in-your-face.  As there is between one that gives information on limits, interests or positive buttons in order to find a match versus the common checklist that says "you will do this".  Guess which works for a quality Domme ....
7/27/2009 11:48:07 PM
Honesty.  Trust.  Loyalty.  Respect.  Safe.  Sane (hhmmm?).  Consent.  Or consent to non-consent.  Mutual benefit / pleasure.  A slave isn't a bottom.  A sub isn't a slave.  Submission is gifted and responsibility accepted.  And the fun begins ....
7/18/2009 11:56:09 PM
Here's a thought ... before a boy claims to be an expert in a particular field (that he don't really know), he should make sure the Lady he is talking to hasn't made it her career ..... *chuckles*
5/25/2009 3:41:20 PM
Basics:  (1)  With the right attitude, anything can be taught.  With the wrong one, nothing will be learned. (2) The only thing worse than a bad slave / sub is a bad Domme.  Do it well, or don't do it.  If necessary, find a mentor / teacher.  Or put on a collar and learn from someone who knows.  There are very few good Dom/mes who haven't worn a leash.  And there are way too many bad ones. 
2/23/2009 12:41:48 PM
Be careful what you wish for.  Especially in this lifestyle.  Reality is often very different.  And be very careful ... especially when you think you may have found it.  Responsible Dom/mes understand caution .. and concern.  Make a good choice .. then enjoy and serve well. 
1/14/2009 7:18:04 PM
Nice to see a sense of humor here and there in profiles.  An important piece of a top quality puzzle.
12/16/2008 2:53:32 PM
To the real ones on this site who so deeply crave a real life connection and owner ...  don't give up.  Stay actively seeking.  It happens, and you never know what, or who, might lead to it. 
robynnxx
 
 Age: 41
 Atlanta, Georgia