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Getting back into the local scene after several years away.
While I am not averse to casual playdates, finding someone I can connect with on a vanilla level is very important to me. If you are looking for some NSA kinky fun (especially flogging and caning) or someone to go to parties with, feel free to hit me up but make it clear that's what you're looking for.
Subs wishing to present themselves for consideration for service should address me as "Ma'am". If I accept them they will refer to me as "My Lady." If you call me "Mistress" or "Goddess" you'd better be wittier than Oscar Wilde or more ripped than Chris Hemsworth if you want me to even open the message. I detest being called those things.
What I am NOT looking for:
- online only. I'm not adverse to relationships that start out long distance over text (especially as I don't know which grad school I will be attending), but keep in mind my goal will be to meet in person.
- sissyfication I like my subs masculine. And usually naked, so even if you were in something frilly, you'd be out of it quickly. To me one of the most erotic feelings is knowing that a submissive is physically stronger than me, but chooses to submit of his own free will.
- someone who doesn't have their own life sorted out. I am not a life coach. I am not a free therapist. I am working towards my goals and I expect my eventual partner to be doing the same, or have already achieved them.
- random dick pics. I went to art school, I work in the medical field, believe me, no matter how unique you think it is, I've seen it, probably several times; I'm interested in the person attached. If you don't have a picture of your face on your profile, please be prepared to send one with your message or on request. I realize that I am just a strange woman on the internet, but I do take privacy and discretion very seriously, and any leaks will not come from me.
What I AM looking for:
- a companion - someone who I can take out in public, who I enjoy spending time with in the vanilla world
- a confidant - a good sub has good judgement, and can act as a sounding board for his or her Dominant.
- a comrade - someone I can count on to support me as I support them through the battles life throws at us.
I'm currently working in the medical field, and am returning to school in order to pursue a degree in chemistry and mathematics. I enjoy training for endurance sports. I grew up riding horses (mainly eventing) and played polo in college, but I cannot afford it time-wise or money-wise right now.
I recently achieved my goal of a sub-30 minute 5K, and in summer 2015 my goal of cycling a century (100 miles in a day). I'm currently working on becoming more consistent with my triathlon-specific workouts.
My idea of a fun Saturday is a long bike ride during the day, ending with a quiet evening in. My wardrobe usually consists of either scrubs or a t-shirt and jeans. And of course Keen shoes, this is Eugene, after all. I rarely wear make up or dresses, but enjoy getting gussied up for a nice night out.
Quick rundown: I'm politically very liberal, atheist, and child-free. I have one elderly cat, and a home-cultured sourdough starter named Bubbles. I am introverted and cherish my alone time. I enjoy the act of creation, which in the past has meant lots of writing, drawing, and painting, and these days means baking, textiles, and puttering around in my friends' gardens.
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Ch-ch-ch-changes! I'm finally all moved (well, mostly moved) into my new place and I am working on going through all the messages that landed in my inbox over the last week and a half. Oy. Y'all are chatty buggers. |
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If you ask if we can "chat" the answer will be no. I do not do online domination. I find it pointless, inane, and get absolutely nothing out of it.
If you send me a nice message that introduces yourself as a person and gives me ample conversational hooks to grab onto, then I'm much more likely to respond. With a message, not a chat request. Because I don't "chat". |
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Recently in a chatroom it was asked what physical traits Dominant women found appealing, ie, instead of the constant cockshots, what attributes should male submissives highlight in their photos if they wanted to get a Domme's attention?
I can only answer for myself, but I personally find a well-muscled butt insanely appealing. After all, I am a sadist and I prefer to spank a firm tuchus. Just think of me as Tina Belcher in leather. Mmmm, butts. Closely related is the back - nice traps and lats get me going.
On the front side, there's Apollo's belt. Sometimes called "The V" or "Aphrodite's Saddle" in women.
I wish there was more heterosexual erotica that focused on male beauty, but it seems that most femdom stuff is made for male submissives, and thus it focuses on the physicality of the Domme. If I could wave a magic wand and get equity in porn, that's what it would look like - nice butts and backs everywhere, probably nice and rosy from a good spanking. |
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On "proper" D/s online protocol:
Using I/i is not necessary when contacting me. I understand that some subs are so used to using lowercase when referring to themselves in online interaction that it is difficult for them to "turn it off," but I really would prefer you would use correct English capitalization and grammar when writing to me.
Now it's time for me to re-read this entry obsessively because it's almost guaranteed that when complaining about online spelling and grammar one will make a mistake. |
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OK, I didn't think I would have to say this, but apparently I do.
I am NOT a financial Domme. I have no interest in taking your money, or in being paid to dominate you. I am looking for a long term relationship. If you send me your financial information unsolicited, your message will be deleted, probably unread. If you send me requests to "control my computer please mistress" it will be deleted unread. If you ask to pay me, I will block you then delete the message immediately. I find such approaches extremely offensive, especially as there is NOTHING in my profile that even hints I am into the findomme scene. If that's what you're after, there are many, many ladies here on Collarspace who will oblige you. Go bother them. |
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| Age: 35 |
| Akron,
Ohio |
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