Being an attractive, feminine woman is not easy. Not only must you want to achieve femininity and attractiveness, you must also work to achieve those goals. Believe me, wishing does not make it so and no amount of nagging or pushing by an outside source is going to get the job done unless you want to reach those lofty goals.It is said that one must dress for success well that applies to being believably attractive and feminine also. As we age, hormonal changes and lifestyle changes make it more difficult to achieve the goals we set for ourselves.  OH well, I enjoy being a girl!!!