Rather than coming unstuck trying to send individual mesasages, I thought I'd update one and all via my journal :)

I'm now almost half way through my London Tour, and have to say i'm having a ball!

I've met some really great people, both in a professional and private capacity.  And hope that the friends I've made will continue to be so when I head back home.

From what I've learnt, the scene in London appears, on the surface, to be quite different to what I have become used to.  So my challenge for the rest of my time here is to meet some of the other Dommes in the area and investigate whether or not my first impression is correct.

Wish me luck!

Lady A

Well Hello There!

I know it's been a long, long time.  What with trying to find regular professional friends, domming at the club and trying to keep up with a personal life too - lets just say it's been hectic............fun, but hectic ;)

Since I was last on I've met a new lifestyle sub and am thoroughly enjoying progressing him through his slave training.  If all goes well, I'm hoping to collar him by the end of the year.

So what have you all been up to?  What ever it is, I hope it's been making you smile!

Lady A x

Becoming the ClubF House Domme

Well last night saw my first evening as the House Domme over at Club F........I was made to feel extremely welcome by the members and met some really lovely people.

I'm determined not to let my time as House Domme be the same as everyone elses and so am putting together an events scehdule.  Having spent some time discussing this with a few friends on here and then last night with the members. 

The list is likely to include;

• an introduction to whipping and flogging,
• playing safe - CBT,
• Ball busting,
• slave training,
• tie and tease,
• Novice & 1st timer introduction to BDSM,
• Extreme Measures - needle play and electricity

If anyone has any more ideas....please let me know.  The clientelle range from 1st timers to pain sluts so I am trying to identify themes that will give everyone a little something.  I'm after things that can be passed on, so that everyone learns a little more and then gets to practice it whilst at the club, gently stretching their boundaries.

Fingers crossed all my nights there willbe as enjoyable as last night!

Lady A x

London Trip - Cancelled due to family emergency

Hi All,

Qute a few of you have been asking when I'll next be in London.  So I thought I'd use this medium to communicate with you all......

I will be down in London from the 5th to 8th of Feb, inclusive. 

I'm currently working on a New Site.......but I'm sure all of the lovely people on here won't judge me too harshly if I share the site as WIP.  As such, don't be surprised if things change on there :).  Especially the pictures!  My editing software just isn't up to scratch....so will be replacing and adding more in the days come!

Enjoy -

www.LadyAria.com

 

Lady A x

A Huge Thank You, to all that replied......a very kind Sub in Dorset (Dave, thats you :) )  Has pointed me in the right direction.

The item I was looking for is quite obviously named (not) - the TaZapper.

So I'll be investing in one today!

Violet Wand Help Required!!!!

In several domination / slave films I have seen the Domme using a plastic, battery operated shock wand.

I'd love to get my hands on one but so far, an hour of googling hasn't turned it up.

I don't want to have to haul around a power unit nor place pads on my slave......I'm after an instant deterrent from inappropriate behaviour.

The wand in question is made of plastic, looks approximately 45cm long and discharges it's charge by simply touching the skin.  I'm assuming that it is very low voltage as it is repeatedly used above the waist in the films....in fact, being placed directly onto the nipples.

Can anyone help???  I just need to know what it's called.........obviously even better if you know where I can purchase one!

I have tried the obvious searches and some more creative ones..........

Yours Hopefully,

Lady A

My First Impressions:

After only a couple of days on the site I have already created some lasting first impressions.

Firstly this appears to be a dating site, and one that is unfortunately open to everyone.  Including those who are not acually part of the scene.

Secondly, I have sadly received some abusive messages, which began with one line demands for information and when I politely refused - giving my reasoning, was then sent quite a rude mail.

I can understand that on such a site some profiles will be made up for fun.  By the 'Vanilla People' trying to understand or poke fun at the BDSM world.  But why on earth would a BDSM member be on here if they believed every profile to be suspect?

I am by no means an arrogant up her own backside type Domme, but I do believe in corresponding with everyone in a polite manner - even if their wants and desires do not meet my own.  A polite 'I think I'm not the one for you' is far better than an abusive reply surely!?!

But all is not lost!...I have actually met some very nice people on the site.  Polite, courteous and open to discussion.  It's just a shame we can't weedle out those who should not be here, or should come with a warning :) - Contact at your own Cost!!!

I look forward to the weeks and months of being a memeber however, from the friendships struck up so far!

Long may it continue :)

Lady A x