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I am a bisexual poly slave. When I am submitting my will to someone, whether for a simple play session or because that person is my Owner, I expect my submission to be treated as the gift it is. Nothing more, nothing less. I'm not a fake or a player, and I have no patience for those who are. I will be straight forward in all things. Don't ask questions you don't want the answer to. I am newly single and unowned, but have prospects here in Florida. Unfortunately, I am without my own transportation, so if someone wants to meet me, you will have to come here. Do not, however, expect first meetings to be private or to involve play, or me coming home with you. First meetings are for getting to know each other. No, I do not give tribute, so don't ask. The chat requests here never work for me. Send me a message, and if I'm interested, I will read and respond to it. If you ask, I will answer. Additionally, if you cannot write in the English language intelligibly, don't bother. I will not respond to text speak. Either use complete words and sentences, or don't contact me at all.
I realize that some of this may sound demanding for a slave to say, but what some people refuse to recognize is that slave does not equal doormat. What I am seeking on this website is conversation and friendship with like-minded people, and the occasional online, text only, interactive role play session. I don't need an owner. I have one. Unfortunately, our current living situation makes maintaining the dynamics of Master/slave difficult at best. I am sure I will think of more to update this with later, but for now, this is all I can think of.
Note: To those of you out there who do not see the point in playing or cybering online, I have a couple of things I need to say to you. First, I respect your decision and have nothing against you. Second, I ask you for the same respect. Please do not go off calling me fake or whatever other derogatory terms you can think of. Third, for some, online is all there is for a variety of reasons. Just as you have your kinks and want them to be respected, please respect the kinks of others. Finally, not only does cybering require a good grasp of words, but it is also an excellent method of creative writing outlet, and one can learn a lot about someone simply by how well or poorly that other person is able to interact in a cybering or online role playing environment.
(Recent as of 06/19/2012)
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Let me be clear about something. Just because I'm not sure that my Owner and I are going to last much longer, does not mean it's open season. I repeat, it does NOT mean it is open season. For fuck's sake, people. I haven't even left him yet! Give me time before inundating me with how compatible you think we are. |
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I have come to a realization about myself in regard to the BDSM lifestyle. I'm not a switch as I've thought for so long. I'm a slave who happens to be proficient at service Topping. Yes, I have a bit of a nasty streak and I can be bratty at times, but those are the times when I most need discipline. To be reminded of who I am, and of what I am. |
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Than: A fucking comparison. As in I like fucking intelligence more than fucking stupidity.
Then: A fucking indication of time. As in do fucking this, then do fucking that.
There: A fucking place. As in right over there.
Their: Shows fucking ownership. As in to each their own.
They're: They fucking are.
Its: Shows fucking possession.
It's: It fucking is.
Your: Shows fucking possession.
You're: You fucking are.
To: Shows fucking direction. As in from fucking here to fucking there.
Too: Means the same fucking thing as also.
Two: The fucking number after one.
Here: A fucking place.
Hear: One of the five fucking senses.
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I am trying to allow myself to be more open now. If addressed with at least basic respect, I'm more than willing to talk to men. This does NOT mean that I am inviting Dominant men to inundate me with commands or rude messages. Nor does it mean that I am inviting submissive men to throw themselves at my feet and beg me to be their Mistress in the first message they send to me. We're all adults here. Let's please act like it. As of late, I've been more interested in Dominants and Switches as I've been more interested in expressing my own submissiveness. If you can't accept the following things, then you and I are not going to get very far:
1. I do not cam for anyone unless I am positive I can trust them and trust takes time to build.
2. I have everything I need in real life, and I do not want to relocate, nor do I expect anyone to relocate.
3. I expect to be able to READ any message sent to me, not to have to decipher text speak.
4. If you demand financial tribute, don't bother. I don't give it, nor do I require it.
That's all I can think of for now.
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STILL NOT ACCEPTING MEN. ALL MESSAGES FROM MEN ARE IMMEDIATELY FILTERED TO BULK.
Now that the obligatory warning is out of the way, I'm going on a little rant. Dominate is something you DO. It's a VERB. Dominant is something you ARE. It's an ADJECTIVE. There are far too many people who don't understand this. Another pet peeve of mine is the misuse of apostrophes. Let's go back to grade school, shall we? An apostrophe is the little mark that looks like a comma, but is put up by the top of letters. On a keyboard, it is on the same key as the quotation mark. Apostrophes are used to indicate that a word is a contraction or that one noun is in possession of another noun. The only time when it is appropriate to use an apostrophe to pluralize something is when indicating multiples of single letters or numbers. When communicating with me, please make sure that you remember these basic rules of grammar and use your apostrophes wisely.
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NO LONGER ACCEPTING MALES!!!! DON'T EVEN TRY!!!!
Now that I have that out of the way, I will explain myself. I am tired of inarticulate boys who wouldn't know what creative writing was if it bit them in the ass. I'm tired of message after message being about how these boys need to be humiliated, sissyfied, etc. I don't give a rat's swollen, infested ass what you THINK I want. I will TELL you what I want. I find that I'm not connecting with men on an emotional or spiritual level any more, romantically and sexually speaking. I don't want to lead anyone on or pretend any more. I'm too old for that shit. |
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I cannot bear any more of these cookie cutter answers and messages. Much of the time, when I ask what a sub/slave would like to know about me, I will get an answer like "whatever you want me to know" or "whatever you wish to share" or something along those lines. This is a nuisance to me. Another pet peeve of mine is all of these subs/slaves who send me messages immediately asking to serve me and to be my sub/slave. These things do not happen at a moment's notice. It takes time. I am not just my interests in BDSM. I am not just a Domme. I am not just a Mistress. I am a person, and I expect to be treated like one! But, alas, in the age of instant gratification we live in, this seems to be an unreasonable expectation. |
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After a recent disappointment, My standards are raised and so are My shields. Tread carefully boys and girls. |
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| Age: 21 |
| Costa Mesa,
California |
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