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LadyAndreal

Not interested in Sissy, Cross Dressers, Animals, Guys or Guys pretending to be Girls. I will not add you as a friend unless I have spoken to you about it before. More often than not I will be the one to send the friend request if it is desired.
SEEKING submissive female for REAL TIME Relationship. My time is limited so please do not waste it. I have important things within my vanilla life that go first and always will be.
If you are not going to read my entire profile before messaging me... DO NOT WASTE MY TIME!
I am bi but limited with experience with a female. However, In the lifestyle I lean more towards a female in a kink relationship.
I am attracted to classical beauty, well groomed, and semi-conservative females.
Personal Preferences:
Gender: biologically female Ethnicitiy: Caucasian Orientation: bi-curious, bisexual Age: up to 35, mentally mature, and responsible Demeanor: Sub and/or slave
Looks are a bonus for me but I would like my submissive to have some intelligence about herself and also know what she wants. I will not accept I Do Not Know unless you can specify why you do not know. However, "I have not experienced that" is an acceptable answer. Also, acceptable is I do not like it. I do not mind being told that you do not enjoy but a straight no is not acceptable.
Please feel free to ask clarification, ask questions, just ask in general. But do not assume I am a cookie cutter Domme... None of us are. I am myself and me alone. I will accept you for who you are. Just be true to yourself and to me. If not I will eventually find out.
6/6/2014 8:37:05 PM

Crazy busy. New job location goes live around the 17th. I was hoping for a soft opening of the restaurant but it seems that everyone is excited about it and wanting to get in their. We have already had a couple of people stop by and try to walk in the front door wanting food. 

New paint, garden, tables, chairs, equipment, and scrubbed off all the gross ick that the previous horrible owners left is just about all done. Down to the tiny details of figuring out set up and finishing of menu and prints. Then to get my waitresses and waitors in for their bit of training and introduction to me and finish off kitchen staff training. Going to continue to be a crazy week next week but I am exivted for the change. 

I am semi my own boss. There is the owner of the restaurant/restaurant manager but Ill be doing main of house and I maintain the office side of everything. And I get to set my own schedule, which is already making things a lot easier to keep multiple parts of my life balanced.

Family, Friends, College, Work, my personal side business (photography), and Lifestyle stuff... Ah its always fun here :)

5/29/2014 5:09:11 PM

Well I quit one job because of the way I was treated when I was offered a better job... go figure right.

Anyways I've put in 30 hours in the past 3 days... feels good to be getting some work done and using my multiple skills and talents. 

Over the next week I'll be getting company shirts embroidered with logo, accounting stuff set up, procedures in place, and more cleaning... yes I am helping in the process of opening a new location. 

Also got all caught up on my school work so I have a couple of days leisure time there. 

As for play... havent gotten to do much sadly... will need to remedy that really soon.

5/21/2014 4:06:46 PM

5/21/14 6p

Noticed a large decline in the number of profile views and almost no messages. I dont mind chatting with people but I dont want fakes and those that just want the sex side of it all. I am in this for friendship, community, relationship, and play.

Things in the Vanilla world here have been crazy. College student, helping extended family open a new business, trying to get my little side business off the ground again, daily duties with my family, and of course a regular job too... Crazy... but I wouldnt know what to do otherwise...

5/13/2014 2:21:18 PM

5/13/14 4:15p Updated my about me profile section and it seems to have gotten rid of getting a lot of crap messages. Hoping now that I'll be able to connect with some new people soon.

5/10/2014 12:30:12 PM

5/10/14 2:30p

Gotten a lot of messages. However, I am getting frustrated at how many want to immediately move here and start "serving Me". Before getting to know Me and My situation. Also its been all males for the most part. Obviously many are ignoring that I said I am more leaning towards female due to current situation.

5/9/2014 6:30:12 PM

5/8/14 8:30p

Well Vanilla life has settled down for the night and I am enjoying some rare quiet time.Decided to create My profile on here in hopes of finding new people to converse with and perhaps in the long term find a submissive that is willing to deal with My craziness and everything around Me and also someone to truly love ME.
Chatted with a couple of people via messages but I have yet to see if they are fakes just wanting something. I am very guarded against that because every site I have been on I get a lot of fakes from the beginning and have to weed out the Reals.

Looking forward to this new adventure.  

mymilkshakes
 
 Age: 28
 Seattle, Washington