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Pan Female Mistress, 36,  85213, Arizona
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LadyAja - photo 1

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Update currently in a vanilla relationship but will consider some pro domme options in the Phoenix area.












 Dominant Female



 5' 6"

 165 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Switch Women

Switch Men


 Fine Dining



 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries


 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets

 Going to the Opera



 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)



 Bar Hopping

 Clubbing (Beginner)




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Journal Entries:
10/25/2012 3:13:28 PM

I am looking for a submissive to come help me pack and move house. I don't have a lot of stuff but someone who is good at organizing would be nice. He or they would be suitably rewarded once I was relocated in the new house with a session of his choosing. Please contact me if interested in helping out

6/13/2007 8:54:08 PM

Thank you for your interest but I do have an age limit. If you are in your 40's or older you are too old for me sorry.


6/11/2007 11:08:04 PM

So why can't a guy just say sorry I am not interested? Honestly men you want me to take you seriously and then when I do you either block me or just vanish. Have you lost the ability to say hey I changed my mind I am not interested in you?

Yes, I am friendly but no I am not going to chase anyone. I don't have a reason to. Still a little heads up would be nice.

Being submissive doesn't mean being a jerk or a coward. I don't like having to tell people if I am not interested but I do it out of respect.

Is that too much to ask?

10/29/2006 12:58:49 PM
Lady Aja requires an obedient and meticulous slave to clean for her. Do not think that if you do an adequate job of cleaning the Lady's manor this we result in her bestowing her glorious sexual favors upon you. If you do please the Lady, she may bestow upon you a proper flogging or whipping. As a slave, you will be required to bring your own whip, but the Lady will provide cleaning supplies. Please her well enough, and there may be future whippings for a job well done. The lady is not beholden to her slave and it is at the Lady's descretion if you may clean for her again.

8/8/2006 10:18:36 PM
Doormats need not apply.

I am a Domme and I am looking for the right sub however this does not mean I am looking for a doormat. While I understand that submitting is very freeing this does not mean that I am going to do your thinking for you. In many coversations  I have had with subs when I ask where their limits lie they state they have none. People think... about that carefully. Without limits and not thinking for yourself I could really push you far if I was that kind of person. However I am not. If you are looking for a Domme who is going to think for you I am not your girl.

8/4/2006 9:43:59 PM
Well here I am. Making the decison to look into my Dominant side has been one of the most freeing things I have ever done. While I am still learning how to voice my demands it is nice being with men who expect it rather than ones who think it is only a suggestion. One thing is my understanding about the lifestyle is that it is less about playtime and a lot of men I have been contacted on this site seem to think it is only about the sex. It is a great disappointment. What I want is an actual relationship that incorporates D/s lifestyle. 

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