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BBW dominant seeking D/s based relationship that encompasses BDSM.

About myself; I find these profile things lacking when it comes to gaining an idea of someone, so will keep it brief, instead, prefering to actually chat. I'm gregarious and easy going. Highly strung, and sensitive (hey...I'm a woman, I'm allowed to be contrary) ;) I cry at soppy movies, and get annoyed when you men leave the toilet seat up....shame on you. I'm chronically baffled by spiders, and am searching for a cure to the age old problem of 'two-socks-enter-the-tumble-dryer-one-sock-out'.... I'll let you know when I am done.

Seriously, I could list a ton of personal qualities, but it's my belief that we all posses most traits in differing quantities. I'm just your average happy-go-lucky, kinky dominant seeking her submissive counterpart. I enjoy reading, cycling, walking and other outdoorsy stuff.

For the pervy amongst you *waves*, my kinks are to your left, mind the step as you proceed.

As for what I seek; I don't have a type. All my previous submissives have been vastly different. I know the basics of what I seek, and what is compatible with my personality, hence why I am here seeking a submissive male. But I like to get to know people as opposed to stating a list of desirables; my spark is ignited by diversity and interaction. I'm definitely not seeking 'no strings' kinky encounters though. I don't *do* kink and I don't *do* BDSM without rounded D/s, if you think they are all one and the same I ain't the one for you.

I have just signed up, so I am sure I will add more here as time goes on. But, I like chatting to the amiable amongst you, so feel drop me a thoughtful line




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3/17/2009 6:41:19 AM

So, it seems some of you have missed the point in my last journal entry. At first, I got a trickle of emails about it, letting me know they were up for camming for me also, or that reading a book wasn't that kinky. At first, I thought it was irony, or people just playing along for reasons other than irony. But that trickle soon turned into a flood, oh my poor inbox! When I probed deeper into some of those that mailed petitioning to go on cam for me, or making bemused comments about the lack of excitement in reading a book, it seems the 'tongue-placed-firmly-in-cheek' stance of the last post, missed each and every one of them. Now, I am not a particularly subtle person, so I know it's not me! Lol.



I know that when some of you guys go on your horny-induced, spam-rampages that your brain is not necessarily engaged in the skull position, but c'mon guys! We Brits are renowned and justifiably revered for our non-literal humour. You're letting the side down!


2/25/2009 4:27:21 AM

If you send me a message saying that you will 'do anything', and that you are available to get on cam then I might just take you up on that offer. Especially if you have 'no limits'.


Like the other day, I received just such an email, well, I had received bucket loads of such emails, but this one stood out. Said he was a cross dresser, his girlfriend was out, and he would just love to get in her underwear on cam for me – and do 'anything'... said he really had “no limits”. Wahoo – it was my lucky day. I was in the mood for a no limits cam slut. I felt so special.... after about 5 emails exchanges, he finally read my profile, yippee!


Now, to all my potential cam sluts – you need to now just how kinky and perverted I am. I mean – it's shocking. I am sooooo twisted, that you really need to be able to do anything on cam for me. I will make you perform the most depraved and filthy acts, just as I made my new cam ho' do.....in fact, I made my aforementioned cam ho' do something so filthy that you might not want to read any further.....



Are you ready for the story of my hot, superbly kinky and twisted cam session, with my cross dressing cam ho'? Ok...... I had my cam ho' sit on the end of a bed AAAND............  Read. A. Book. That's right folks, at my 'orders' he sat on the end of a bed and read a book. Hot stuff, no?


Well, he said he would do anything! And 'anything' is what he got. 

2/8/2009 4:48:21 AM
 

If you are a sub guy and have decided to contact me, a friendly word of advice: Don't waste your time referring to me as 'Goddess', 'Queen', or other such titles in your introduction mail. All that is required at this point is general common courtesy, politeness and good manners. To refer to me with such familiarity and expectation would demonstrate a lack of the aforementioned requirements.





I am simply a dominant woman, with no pretence in regards to fantastical ethereal-monarch status, nor do I wish to be placed on an undue pedestal. I also don't play online games. I know that some 
women like to be referred to as a Queen or Goddess by strangers... good for them. I know that for most men that use these terms, it is meant as some sort of term of respect and reverence and they are just trying to be nice. But I find it almost creepy that some stranger would try to impose their fantasy based ideals and expectations upon me.





Use of these terms in your introductory mail to me will indicate that I have no need to reply. In my mind, respect is demonstrated by actions, not pretty words.



2/6/2009 8:16:29 AM

Since joining yesterday, I have chatted to a few men who say they believe in 'female supremacy', though they were bemused by my lack of belief in it as a woman. I also see a lot profiles from submissive men saying the same thing. So, I felt I should clarify what it is I mean by my lack of belief in 'female supremacy'.



I do not believe any gender is inherently superior; in fact, I think that supremacy is not something that can be claimed as any kind of birth right. I honestly find that concept quite daft.



I do believe that female supremacy (as well male supremacy) can work in an individual relationship, consensually, for those who feel spiritually or kinkily inclined to do so. It works on the small scale, but applied to the masses it fails. I can enjoy it with someone who also enjoys it, and often have, but it is always with the understanding that it's a private 'kink', not a truism.



I'm not knocking those who enjoy it, I enjoy it, live and let live I say. But 9 times out of 10, someone telling you that all woman (or men) are superior purely because they just so happen to be female (or male) is probably trying to sell you a book.


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MisterJDWsgirl
 
 Age: 21
 Lagos, United Kingdom