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The Bad boy Gentleman with the most unique mind!~
I like to find that one friend that just clicks, and maybe one day we wake up look in each other eyes and know we have more. So many want the payoff but not know and enjoy the journey! That being said... It all starts with a hello.
A high level of assertiveness meaning that I tend to be highly competitive, assertive, take-charge, thinks big, is risk oriented.
Also,very self reliant, dislikes rules, procedures and guidelines, is lax with details, and has little fear of failure.
OK so let me say to know me it is very easy, but to start with. I have to learn one new thing a day to feel alive. There is so much more to me the deepest part of me, the mind. My mind is constantly moving, growing and developing. I think that if my mind ever stops i will die, ever see the movie “Speed”? My mind is the bus, it cant stop.
As for activities, there is so much in the world that I have tried and done and enjoy but so many more I have not tried or accomplished. Some older couple say there is nothing to do anymore in their relationship and no more communication, if you are a believer that life gets old they we won’t click. Even when things are slow there are movies, there is new music, oh and I must throw this in. Friends and family I think are what keeps us all going
Not everything to enjoy in life costs money! I often hear “yeah well it costs money” There is so much in life that is free just need to find the one that has the balance of life to understand that. If you are stuck on the dollars please share.. lol.. Life is more than that. What you get out of life is what you put in it, are you one that gives gets life out giving.
I have been told that my warmth, compassion and heart are my greatest qualities, is now the time to share those? I have been a sports fan all of my life and like to attend many sporting events. A must in my life is faith, family, and laughter!
I am chivalrous in the way that i tend to try and make the one i am with feel above all else wanted, desired and needed. I watch today’s man and see that this old fashioned quality is lacking and some what of a dead art.
I am romantic and love the sexy environment of candle light dinners, cuddling on the couch watching movies, and the sensations of laying in bed (naked or otherwise) telling stories, memories and desires. This is has been a dying art and passion that is no longer a part of a real relationship in this drive through, fast paced world we live in.
I am funny, not in the way that two leather clad men are dancing in a bar swapping spit way, but in the humorous fun and will do most anything for a laugh way. I think that the old saying, Laughter is the best medicine is the most over looked saying and most true saying
there can be.It truly does take the mind to new and greater places. I do love to laugh, not at just everyone else but at myself, if you cant do that your missing out on half of life itself.
I tend to gravitate to a woman that is a perfect balance of class,style, witt, humor, adventure, and most of all HONEST. Now let me define the last one honest, i think a woman that is not only honest with me, but here self is very sexy. What i mean is one that can communicate, and is not afraid to of her desires, emotions, beliefs, thoughts and ideas. Someone that can stand on her own spiritual ideals and does not walk the ways of conforming and societies boundaries, is her own woman
I can list a hundred things of which I am and what I want but ultimately it is about understanding and communication. I am a man, a real man. I have in the past conformed to what a woman wanted and molded to be a certain type of person. Now, in all fairness, I cannot do that nor want my partner to do so. We should be real, honest and upfront. In the dating world we sometimes seem to send a “representative” in the initial dating. Saying and doing things we don’t like to make an impression, I will not do this. I am who I am
from the moment you read this until. . …
As mentioned I am a man, in being a man I have stereotypical traits. Some good, some bad, and some unique.
Good: I can
Fix things
Change a tire and oil
Repair
Camp
Build a fire
Cook
Clean
Iron
Wash
Have electronic skills
Sew
Drive (and never get lost)
Dance (best dancer you will find)
Shoot Pool
Throw Darts
Dress in jeans, or slacks
Have my own hair
Bad: I do
Think about sex A LOTTTT
Swear
Drink once a month or so
Need “me” time from time to time
Eat junk food
Have a past, that includes divorce
Like my sports
Can be too Honest at times (working on that)
Not wax anything
Not pluck anything
The Unique: I am
A romantic, deep down
A listener
A learner
A best Friend
A comic
Gutsy
Open minded
I enjoy:
Movies (once week, I try)
Live Music (all types)
The Theater
Hanging out at home
Weekend get-a-ways
Day trips
Kissing
Cuddling
LAUGHTER
And most of all COMMUNICATION
And most of all COMMUNICATION
I am an alpha male...Being an alpha male is all about attitude and projecting the image that you are fun to be with and the woman should want to be with you. Being the alpha male is self perpetuating. Women get their juices flowing when they are in the presence of a MAN who is living HIS ROLE. MAN is the dominant one, NOT woman. And deep down inside women KNOW this. This has NOTHING to do with being an asshole. This is about being a MAN who is NOT afraid which doesn't necessarily only have to mean the usual "TARZAN NOT AFRAID!!" macho stuff, but also not being afraid to be honest, sensitive and caring when the time is right.
I believe that there are two products of time and the mind. First if you capture the mind there is nothing in this world that can keep your body from following. If you take the time and truly learn about a person and not set limits then the body and physical activities follow. Everyone has different ways and ideas of this happening, however bottom line is the capturing of ones spirit and thoughts. See I am not about what you vocalize and what you feel today, I am all about what you have not yet thought or felt. It is bringing out that inside emotion, lets face you would not be here reading this if you had brought it out before. I am sure you can give your body to someone that brings out a certain something inside you, but have you ever even imagined how wonderful it would be if you never had to tell them about yourself, but they told, showed you who you were inside?.
So I wrote this a few years ago
It all starts with communication...All SHIPS, sail on an ocean, this ocean is deep, vast, never ending and sometimes rough, sometime calm. However the ocean is always there to rely on to keep the ships afloat. The ocean is COMMUNICATION…and the SHIPS are…. relationSHIPS, partnerSHIPS, and friendships. THERE MUST BE AN OCEAN OF COMMUNICATION...
What do you think?
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