Collarspace.com

37 yo professional male working in the city. Im confident, outgoing, well educated but also respectful, generous and you could probably peg me as a socialist. This isnt about mindless sex there are plenty of other apps for that. Im looking to build a deep and sensual psychological bond with an intelligent, witty and beautiful lady where submission feels natural and is based upon effective communication.

I have been into BDSM for over ten years now officially and Im not into the Extreme stuff unfortunately so apologies in advance. Im very much a regular guy in the real world and this is a part of my life which remains private so I do not have any photos here but happy to share once we start talking. You should know from the onset however that physical attraction is not my main motivation. You must be intelligent, open minded and able to hold a meaningful conversation and articulate your point if challenged. If you are thinking of sending me a message calling me babe and you think celebrity love island is current affairs then we are most likely incompatible. Stimulate my mind and you will get my attention.

Things we will explore together include
Anal play
Anal intercourse
Body worship
Climax control
Hair pulling
Humiliation (verbal)
Neck play
Nipple play
Restraint
Rough and hard intercourse
Sensory deprivation
Slapping
king
Torture (not just with pain but with pleasure also)

This list is not complete and subject to change depending on the individual.

If you would like to know more or drop me a message.

Discretion is expected and assured.
Bashfulkitten
 
 Age: 39
 St. Louis, Illinois