ldracos on Collarspace


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	I am discovering it takes a lot of effort to give a reasonable outline of one's self, let alone what one is looking for. So consider this a "placeholder profile" for now until I get time to write a better thought out one. I may add random bits here and there as time allows. Some scattered bits and pieces... I've skirted the edges of lifestyle for some years with occasional encounters and some involvement in poly relations. Finally decided it's time to be looking more seriously into it all. I've kept the darker side of me under control for many years and finally concede myself to be a Dom with some switch qualities. I lead a largely vanilla lifestyle but have found myself in recursive fashion seeking out more in the way of M/s D/s relations. Some switch qualities, you say? That mostly manifests in that I have spent the last couple of years learning an understanding of subs/slaves, the desires that drive them and their mindset overall. It has been in that journey, it occurs to me.. I am the hunter learning his prey. I know and understand the mental and physical processes that must be satisfied and it's time to put that to practice. Current demands on my time require my lifestyle remain mostly vanilla much to my own dismay. This likely will not be an instant transition should I find a suitable one here. If you have interest, please do inquire. All inquiries are expected to be serious, and as such, I will answer inquiries honestly but may give cautious answers until I get to know you. LD

2/26/2011 9:18:28 PM

After a considerable bit of searching and a few worthwhile contacts, I make the following observations thus far in regard to experiences of CM...

It would seem a great many of those here really are unsure of who they are. They start to define what they want and when that reality presents itself, they suddenly switch (no pun intended). This is particularly annoying when they post themselves as a slave.

Some get upset when you don't immediately bag and tag them in a way that reality would never sustain. Others, when provided something that is quite realistic, turn tail and run when they realize I am quite ...real.

I will persist though for those that may desire only online RP or perhaps something more substantial.

*chuckles* The hunt continues...