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a.? Yes I am married, my wife chooses not to explore BDSM anymore.
Yes, she knows I am looking to find ONE exploration partner.
I have over 20 years knowledge and experience in BDSM.? l have learned that you capture the mind, the body follows.
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Some rules to follow for submissive women.
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You are not "worthless", you are strong, intelligent, and need to be respected, any "Dom" claiming something else, or degrading you isn't safe or a smart Dom.?
Use common sense, don't go to the airport dressed in a full length jacket to meet the "dom" of your dreams.? Communicate often, and get to know the potential partner, after all the games, toys, etc, communication is what keeps the partnership alive.
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Most of the submissive women I have met have been intelligent, funny, and very exciting, they have come from all walks of life (nurse, teacher, lawyer, Judge, Military, Cops, and housewives).
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Know what you want to explore, ask questions, if you don't get the answers, move on to someone that will communicate with you in a smart, sane, and sensual manner.
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Most Submissive Women I meet have one or more of the following desires, do you have any?
1. Being told what to do? To lose control to someone else, To follow someone in sensual and sexual activities that you may not do for/by yourself.
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2. Pain and Pleasure, being spanked, having your nipples twisted, enjoying that as part of sexual play for pleasure.
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3. Being a fuck toy, enjoying the constant activity of being used in a SSC manner.
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4.? Being a Geisha or "little girl" as a fantasy to serve, follow, and accept.
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These are just some, but they hit most of the women I have met in this lifestyle.
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If you don't like something I have written, that is your choice, keep it to yourself.
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I thought about what I have done, and or been a part of in my 20 some odd years, so I thought I would write them down, and see what ones excite you, and which ones are a complete No on.?
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These are said in the event where I am giving:?
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Spankings
Whip usage
Nipple clamps
blindfolds
vibrators
Wax Play
Edge Play
Play rape
Telling you what to wear
Telling you what to do
Face or breast slapping
bondage (rope)
Forced Sex
Tying down to bed and being fucked any way I want
Fucking your pussy, your ass, and / or your mouth
biting
Peeing on you (golden showers)
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These are things I have done, and have enjoyed in the right scenario, where by the submissive was also interested.? Again, for me, the excitement is mental, with the above activities being physical to interact with the mental.
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