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I am looking for Vanilla not just submissive(s)


I am Lady of Sensual Sadism and what I am looking for is a primary Vanilla relationship with a sadistic/masochistic sex life. I have been involved in levels of D/s and kink for over 15 years but am new to 'the scene'. I have immensely enjoyed the people I've met thus far and I am looking to meet the masochistic, submissive(s) that fit's just right with my kink. I am quite vanilla in the vanilla world and nicely twisted on the inside... I enjoy people (like myself) who function fine in everyday settings but have a dark demented side about them. Because I enjoy relationships that are more than just play.

When I am in just the right mood with just the right person I would call myself a Sensual Sadist. I am clever and creative, skilled and intuitive. I love to spend my time exploring the multitude of sensations that can be lavished upon the human body wile finding your pain threshold and pushing it even further. I find pleasure in inflicting pain and do not give spankings as punishment. I do not tolerate topping from the bottom, pouting or bratty behavior.

I enjoy what I do and how it makes me feel so humiliation is also not a part of my play. I know what I like and what I don't like and have no problem sharing that with my partner. Depending on how I want to play with you, you could be in for bondage, rope, needle play, spanking, wax play, tickle torture, scratching, biting, pinching, punching, leather, giving me full body massages, ritual worship, electrotorture, sensual play, service submission and so much more. And or you must be open to me having other play partners.

3/16/2011 9:29:23 PM

I am looking for a fulfilling Vanilla relationship not just a sub.

I do not like the back and forth email thing.  I prefer to have coffee or dinner and just find out if there is something between us or not.  We can arrange to meet in Pasadena because I have to like you to drive more than 15 minutes.

The man I am looking for is:

  • Intellectually well rounded and stimulating
  • Good grooming and hygiene
  • Sexual attraction and Passionate connection
  • Likes to date
  • Someone I want to spend time with outside of bed
  • Interests in art, a verity of music, culture, science and travel
  • Baggage that I can deal with
  • Open to trying new things
  • Appreciates me and lets me know it
  • Cares for me... even when I am not strong
  • Genuinely loves me, wants to be with me and please me
  • Able to teach me something without being condescending
  • compatible sex drive
  • Financially stable and at least living a comfortable middle class life
  • Spiritual in similar ways
  • Kinky in similar ways to me (and I am open to trying new things)
  • Open to me being polyandrous (at least to me playing with others)
  • You will pay for dates, travel, coffee, est. when we are together
  • A switch man that can also be aggressive in bed because I am a masochist as well as a sadist
  • Someone I am not just a Dom with but who I can be a real woman who has needs and emotions

If you think this is reasonable let's set up a date and time.

philsub4
 
 Age: 32
 CAPE TOWN, South Africa