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| I'm a grad student in love with my field, a nerd in love with board games, a road-tripper in love with the outdoors, and an organizer in love with my community. Most of all, I'm in love with life!
I identify somewhere between submissive and slave. While I love obeying orders, finding creative ways to make my partner smile brings me far more satisfaction. To me, every dynamic should constantly evolve as both members push themselves and each other to become their best selves. Intense? Maybe. But it's an amazing adventure.
I believe good submission requires just as much intelligence and empathy as dominance, and more self-discipline. The intelligence to find new and fun ways to serve, to identify areas for growth, and to constantly improve. The empathy to embrace suffering for your partner's pleasure, to anticipate what they'll enjoy, and to get satisfaction from their enjoyment. The self-discipline to obey even when you disagree, to improve, and to be vulnerable.
With a good Dominant, the reward for all of that is incredibly fulfilling.
My other kinks run from rough body play to obedience training to sadistic rope to humiliation to knife play to flogging. I'm fairly masochistic, both physically and emotionally, but I'm not interested in any of that unless I feel a connection with someone. I've got a smart mouth and I love challenges, which is probably why people tend to label me a brat until we know each other better.
I'm not looking for forever, although I won't mind if it comes along. I am looking for someone in their 20s or 30s, who loves life just as much as I do, who I mesh with outside of kink, and who enjoys BDSM without needing to take our clothes off. If you love challenges, adopt a "live and let live" attitude towards others, have a sense of humor about life, and are passionate about what you do, odds are we'll get along!
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