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Well, another year gone. I've never been big on birthdays and they don't bother me now that I'm old.
That's right, I am old. I'm not able to do some things like I used to years ago but that doesn't bother me. As Harry Callahan said in the movie 'Magnum Force', "A man's got to know his limitations". I know mine and adjusted my pace accordingly.
While age takes away some things, if we pay attention it gives us so much more. True wisdom is only gained through time, if we decide to accept it. Over the years I've learned that leverage is a much better tact than brute force, for example.
I guess age has brought something else to me that I noticed in those who traveled this path before me. Years ago, I never would have sat here and droned on about life and experience. It must be true that with gray hair comes the desire pass on wisdom gained... even if there is none.
Ok, enough... I'm tired now and need to set back in my rocking chair, covered in my shawl and snoozing while my tea goes cold. Feed the cat on your way out and remember to check on me from time to time.
;)
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I've come to the conclusion that I'm either really ugly and/or really scary! I see there are people that look at my profile all the time but never make contact.
I'm a friendly guy and enjoy making friends. I don't hit on every sub girl I see or talk with. And I'm told I'm only big and scary in person.
Oh well, I just hope I haven't scarred anyone for life by them peeking at my profile!!! Hehehe
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It seems there are a number of professional models here on Collarme. It's good they can feel comfy enough to put their pics up. Good thing for them that they have pro's taking their pics, too!
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Being lost isn't so bad... at least it's a change of scenery...
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A word to the wise about a lesson just learned. Please choose your words carefully when you type, be it profile or journal. It's just way too easy to to hurt or offend and that happens when you least intend it.
Maybe it's even best to write something in a word processing program and read it a few times. Then save it and wait a day. Go back and reread it to make sure it's really what you want to say and then post it.
It just might be worth the extra effort to make sure you say what you really are trying to say. Sure it's a bit more work but but weigh that against losing someone important to you.
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Have never seen a sub that has these words in her profile:
Fuck my body and my mind will follow!
Hehehe
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Just a thought...
A profile pic of a face with a big, old smile... That's what I'm talking about.
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Looking back at past entries, I wish I knew the trick to making the paragraphs enter properly. I hate when an entry turns into one big paragraph. I bet nobody reads them when they do that!!!
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Ah control... I wish I had it. I've found that currently I have no real control over my life. So many subs have written in their profiles "How can a Dom control me when he has no control in his own life?". Well, many things in our lives are out of our control and there are times when those very things overshadow all the other aspects in our lives.
There are things I can control and do control them very well. I've found that when I have a willing submissive, I can control her and the situation quite well for the few hours spent playing. I can lead her on a very enjoyable journey that will leave her drained and full of desire to please me. I will choose the path the journey takes, the length of the journey and even the reactions she will have during the journey. And when it's over, She will know that I had control.
I guess the question is do I want control over someone outside of those situations. Do I want to take away my partner's personality and make her what I want her to be? My choice is no. I would have been drawn to who she is in the first place. Why would I then want to change that?
Some would say I'm not a real Dominant for not wanting to take control in all aspects of a submisse's life. Ok, if that's the yardstick used to measure a true Dominant, then I guess I don't measure up. So call me a Top and let me get back to doing what I do best. At least I realize my true skills and don't live in a fantasy. ;)
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Everybody sing...
"Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens..." Ahhhhh, screw it! I just wanna spank some behind!!!
Hehehe
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Just a couple of thoughts...
Some people need to realize that it's not what you're saying that's causing such negative reaction, it's how you say it!!!
I have often wondered why some feel the need to go into negotiation in their comments on their profile.
That's all for now! I'm not deep enough to have more than two thoughts at any one time. Hehehe
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I just want to say that sometimes things happen that shake a guy's confidence. I know some wonderful people that I've met here and on ALT. Sometimes you meet someone that you really think you would be very comfortable with and they basically turn on a dime and walk away.
I know pain is a part of all this but I thought the pain was just for the subs. Well, what doesn't kill you makes you suffer... long and slow! ;)
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Well, I did it! I changed my main profile pic. It was time for a change. I will miss all the interest in the pic because it generated some wonderful messages from some nice subs.
I hope the interaction I developed with folks wasn't only because of my pic.
To the dear girl who was so scared by my profile pic, I hope this one is better. If this one scares you as much as the last one, I'll be very sad.
I just hope the new pic pops up soon. I think alot of folks pass by my profile when it has no pic!!!
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I hope everyone is having a safe and sane Memorial Day. Please, if you haven't already, take a moment to remember those who have given their lives for our freedom... past and present. [insert favorite diety or non-diety here] bless each and every one of them! And remember, DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE!!!
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I guess I'm doomed! I have had the good fortune of making contact with some really wonderful subs here on Collarme. The only problem is that the subs who really seem to be a good match, or even want to accept contact, are all far from me! I'd cry but it's not very Domly! LOL
And to all those subs who delete my messages unread, not one of those messages contained any attempt to meet up, control you, or any other dumb stuff that seems so prevalent here. I may have complimented your pics, opinions or insight but that's it. That's the kind of stuff that makes me think that many of the subs here are as bad as many of the so-called Doms here seem to be. Sorry but I'm just a bit angry at the fact that no one here wants to network or make friends. They just think they're going to find the ultimate person and not even speak to anyone else!
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Well, I met the beautiful Mystique567 from collarme yesterday. We spent a wonderful afternoon and evening chatting and laughing. She is an incredible, intelligent and sexy woman.
We had some dinner, lots of conversation and then I helped her navigate the huge airport here to find her friend who flew into town. I was sad to see Mystique's lovely friend arrive because it meant they would be leaving. Before I knew it, I was waving goodbye.
Thank you dear Mystique for being such great company. I will remember our conversation and look back on those few hours we spent talking very fondly. You are a wonderful person and a hot piece of arm candy. (Oh, I'm gonna get in trouble for that comment! LOL)
I hope to meet up again soon, dear. I'm sure we'll have lots more to talk about.
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