Lets get the basics out of the way. I am a 31 year old submissive male with some slave like aspirations. I have experience in S&M relationships but have traditionally been in the role of introducing vanilla girlfriends to kink. I’d prefer to skip all of that and find someone who already knows what she likes.

I am a paramedic and I love my profession. I work multiple jobs and I keep my life pretty busy. I’d like to find someone who has their shit together, is spontaneous enough for last minute plans and independent enough not to take it personally if I pick up a 48 hour shift on a random weekend.

I put my likes and dislikes on the side of the page but I’m not looking just to fill my fetish bingo card. Giving up control to someone I trust and who I know cares for me, with the added perks of suffering, being humiliated and devoting myself to someone else’s pleasure is what I am after.

Outside of kink, I enjoy learning and improving myself. I’m a nerd and enjoy playing board games or video games when time allows. I love to cook.