'It takes courage to push yourself to places that you have never been before... to test your limits... to break through barriers. And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.'-Anais Nin
About who I am: I am a proud and strong, I am a switch but lean a lot more towards the Dominate side. I am very much the Daddy type. I can be stern,and sadistic but have a soft and gentle side as well.
I am once again looking for a submissive/slave who would want to join a poly house hold.
If you are interested in serving me you MUST realize I am poly and that isn't going to change so do not think you are going to change me.
This means I will play with others and may even form relationships with them, but they will have to respect you and you them. I will not tolerate jealousy!
The ones who is collared to me will be first in my life (after my daughter of course..my daughter will always come first in my life).
However, please realize I have a life outside of the lifestyle, work, friends, etc.
I understand that the vanilla world intertwines and interferes sometimes I understand that and I expect any submissive/slave who serves me to understand this also.
I am a FtM transman who holds his family and friends very dear to his heart.
I feel that one must balance the sadistic with care, affection, understanding, and compassion. By no means is it a weakness it means you understand the one you are with and support them even on a bad day. I am a firm believer in life long learning and do so threw: reading, conversation with informative people, finding new ways to do different things, and all those who are in my life help me to achieve these goals and learn the lessons I need to learn day to day.
I believe in being creative in the things I do whether it be my art, writing or photography. I work as a semi-professional freelance Photographer (www.trinityhawkphotography.com), and Artist. I have two Associates degrees, one in Business and one in Liberal Studies; Consternating on Visual Arts and Psychology, I am now working on my Visual Arts and Cultural studies Bachelorette Degree. I also have designed and given workshops on many different subjects (ask if you are truly interested).
The six things I could never do without: Family and Friends to enrich my Heart, Books to read and enrich my mind, The 4 Elements to enrich my spirit, Animals to enrich my soul and last but defiantly not least;
Life! For I hold all life sacred and special.
What I am looking for in the special person:
Humor, obedience, strength to mention the top three things; ( It may seem like a contradiction but to me it is not I am not seeking a doormat I seek the one who obeys not because I make her but because she wants to). My next three things would be: They must be masochist and love being teased softly or beating with toys of MY choice, down to earth and not high maintenance, and last but lest some one that likes to have fun but yet can be happy with a night at home spending time cuddling watching a good movie.
A friend of mine wrote a poem so I am going to keep this up because I think it describes a submissive heart perfectly:
A Submissive's Song:
I can be that gentle hand, that soft voice, that whisper in the wind, that bending blade of grass below the oak tree so proud and strong. I am one that serves, the one that cares, a tender touch when needed that rose that brings delight to one's senses. I strive to for fill those needs, those desires with in, my joy comes from meeting your wants, I am that refreshing drink of spring water.
Tell me your desires, your passions, those things the please you that I may for fill them. My pleasure comes from yours, my growth from your guidance, my safety from your protection. I learn from your lessons, I respect you as you are, I care for your needs, wants, and desires what ever they may be.
I can be that gentle hand, that soft voice that whisper in the wind, that blade of grass below the oak tree so proud and strong. I am one that serves, the one who cares, a tender touch when needed that rose that brings delight to one's senses. I strive to for fill those needs, those desires with in, My joy comes from meeting your wants, I am that refreshing drink of spring water.
I am willing and strong, I am soft and of good heart, I am yours. I do your bidding as you tell me that your wishes can be met. I am caring and loving. I am of intelligence and wit. I am yours. I grow from your wisdom and knowledge for those things I do not know. I am of desires and fulfillment. I am respectful and trustful. I am yours. I strive to meet your challenges as you challenge me in way others have not.
I can be that gentle hand, that soft voice that whisper in the wind, that blade of grass below the oak tree so proud and strong. I am one that serves, the one who cares, a tender touch when needed that rose that brings delight to one's senses. I strive to for fill those needs, those desires with in, My joy comes from meeting your wants, I am that refreshing drink of spring water.
I am your submissive. I am your vessel. I am those things that you need. I am your sub as you are my Dom. Lead me in to your arms and let me for fill you. I am submissive this is my song I sing it from my soul for I know who I am. I am Submissive.
By kittenmm
I will guide you and teach you but you must be willing to trust Me that I know what you need and desire.
If you would like to chat with me on yahoo or aim you may do so but please let me know who you are when you contact me.
Yahoo: lifecoachtrinton and AIM: Trinityhawk69
11/18/2009 11:50:29 AM
I got the new job..I will working as an inbound call tech. Yup you got it I am a geek lol. After going through training I will actually get to wear a pair of kaki slacks, dress shoes and a black polo shirt that says Geek Squad LOL...yes I have told SexyPrincess I will have lil bobbins take a picture when I get my uniform on (glasses and all) to post for all to see me in my full Geekiness. lol
I am nervous, scared shitless (for lots of reasons)..
This is my first full time job since I transitions
I am still going to school full time and am behind in school right now (like way behind) - can I work and catch up in school?
I will lose my SSI (my secerity blanket)
I am terrified of being homeless again (been so three times already in my life).
BUT, I am excited..over joyed..I will have a job..a job which will provide me with a living (what living it will provide right now part time and only making a bit over what I make on SSI..but hey it is more). I can be more self sufficant. It is before Yule..perhaps I can actually afford some presents..I can afford to start paying off some bills, more then I have been. I can maybe afford to start getting some of my prints mounted and ready for showing ..then actually start submitting some of my work into local art shows!! I can acutlly be an artist again!
Down the road perhaps I can even get a car again..that would be nice.
So, yes I am scared out of my mind...but I am more excited and happy....I actually got hired and had less trouble with this interview then I have ever had in my life. I felt more confident, more assure of myself...It Felt GOOD!
11/14/2009 9:40:17 AM
I have decided I need someone who is good at research and writing papers to help me get caught up in school. I am so far behind it isn't even close to being funny. The more I work to get caught up the more far behind I fall. Is there any submissive out there who like doing research and writting papers who would like to help a Daddy Dominate out of a bind? If so let me know....
T
10/19/2009 7:41:55 PM
Wrote this tonight -- comments are welcomed:
Graceful Dance Of Sex:
Dipping and Swooping,
In and out of the clouds of sheets,
Gliding down your skin so softly,
Your eyes looking back at me,
Bursting forth with flames of passion,
Letting your senses settle a bit,
Then soaring high once again,
At my every burning touch of desire.
Dipping and Swooping,
As I guide your senses on a roller coaster ride,
Lightly stroking your soft skin,
Feeling my way through the world of wonder.
10/12/2009 10:11:37 AM
My
submissive is under consideration once again..she has had her collar
removed. This however does not mean I will tolerate any harassment of
her! I still care very much for her and hope to have a collar back
around her neck in the future, she is in training.
8/23/2009 6:50:34 PM
Alright, I am posting this from my phone since both my computers crashed, so please excuse any errors.
I just wanted to post to any who actually read my joural entries and follow my life journey that this time next week I should be in Buffalo,NY settling in and preparing to start the new leg of my new life .
I already have a wonderful girl who has agreed to wear my consideration collar , angelinneed. I couldn`t be more proud!
I also have been speacking to a possible new roomie and have bought a new futon. Plus my best friend in Buffalo has a friend who has put a TVbaside for me.
So, life is on its` way to changing around....lets see where this ride takes me!
I want to thank every one in Honor Dungon who has been so supportive through out all this and my mom`s sickness then her death. It is so greatly appreciative.
I also want to thank my girl angelinneed for being there for me even before wearing my collar at all times during the time and night during mom`s sickness and death then through this move. I am so proud u r my friend first then my submissive wearing my collar.
Thank you every one
8/17/2009 8:45:20 PM
"Distant Lullaby" By Trinityhawk
You lie, peacefully approaching sleep, I picture myself near, Not parted by time and space, Shyly whispering in your ear, As I pull you close. You smile in your dream, As I start to rReaching out my trembling hand Touching hair as soft as angel wings.
The images fade, Thoughts of you lie, I can't touch your soft hair, Can't watch your eyes.
But, I can send this lullaby, For we are apart, So, I dream of holding you tight, And, I send you my heart. Sleep well my love.
8/17/2009 8:44:43 PM
I WILL PAINT: by: TrinityHawk
I will Paint our soul to be true... Paint your eyes to sparkle like the stars... Paint your lips the color of a rose.. I will paint your hair the colors of fall... For this is how I see you within my soul... All the beauty of the world mixed together... In one little minx...
I will draw a hand to wipe away your tears... A look to calm your fears... I will draw you into my arms... To wipe away the past and future harms... And I'll paint your smile as bright as the sun...
I will paint me here next to you... Always to take care of you.
8/7/2009 10:44:56 PM
Whispers of the night shadows, Flow through the night like a cool summer breeze, Twisting and flowing through the whispering willows branches, Caressing the night with a feather light touch.
7/28/2009 9:20:11 PM
Ok I found that there is a monthly genderqueer/ women/ trans bdsm SWITCH party at Paddles in NYC and the next one is Aug 21st (information can be found at www.myspace.com/switch).
I am interested in attending this party as I am an FtM two spirted transman and I am hoping to find someone to go with me. I would be welling to pay the $10 door fee even if you wish.
I am not asking someone to go as my play partner. I mean if you want to play, we can discuss it, but I am just asking someone to go with me as a friend.
If you live in NYC, going to be in the area during that time, and are interested please let me know.
7/24/2009 7:16:48 PM
7-24-09 : going to Marchellas tonight with my daughters and some friends...if you are in or near Buffalo come on out and have some fun with us!
5/27/2009 6:10:24 AM
I am learning a long hard lesson that dreams come to us only to fade away into the dark and leave a bad taste in our mouth for years to come. So - is it better to dream and have it fade away? or never to dream at all?
5/11/2009 8:39:57 AM
A poem I just wrote a few days ago and then edited a few moments ago:
unicorn whispers are so soft, they sway through the winds, like the whispsy willow trees, as they pass your ears, like the spirits who pass, from this world into the next.
5/8/2009 11:53:45 AM
I am hoping to be writing for Modern Perv soon (a new kinky ezine)...I will be writing articles (hopefully) and an Q & A column...so:
Got a question about the world of slave hood any question, be it about male slaves, tranny slaves, female slaves, you name it? I probably have the answer! This is hawkboi’s unofficial world of slave questions and answers for anyone who might wish to get their questions answered by someone who has been both Dominate and submissive, but now has been living as a full time contracted slave for a year and a half. I also have schooling in psychology and cultural studies so if I don’t know the answer I will do my best to get you the answer! If you have a question for me send it to hawkboi at trinitysdesigns@hotmail.com or right here on Collar me.
4/28/2009 7:42:04 AM
For those who wants to see more of my work you may do so here:
tos/3482610207/in/set-72157594563663334/ (another photograph - taken through a window,
you can see if you look to the right corner two
ghostly apperations making themselves visable
in the glass.)
4/23/2009 7:50:49 AM
Been working on my mother's eulogy..here is what I have so far:
Thank you all -- for coming to remember my mother’s life.
I would like to share a little of who my mother was before the monster called Cancer took over her life, took over all our lives. Of course, nobody suffered more than my mother, but Cancer is a monster that leaves no one untouched.
I love to remember my mother when she was full of life, and cracking jokes. Like the time when I was 12 and we had gone for a walk in the rain to get slushies. As we were walking back I was chatting away, and wasn’t paying attention as usual, when a large SUV went zoom by and spraying a huge puddle right towards us. My mother ducked and just as she ducked she yelled watch out. So, as I turned to ask her why I got smacked with a large tidal wave of water. We both started to laugh and continued our walk home, with me swearing revenge someday, which never came.
My mother was born to Virgil and Ella in Sullivan, ILL, in 1938 and lived a very full filling life, even though she made many sacrifices, including working late into the nights and getting up early in the mornings to make sure she brought home enough money to pay the bills and get for her children what they needed. She taught us there is a difference between what we need and want.
I’m glad my sister Debbie and her son Curtis could make it here today, along with my two daughters who lived with and took care of my mom for five months before the monster got a hold of her. Dwayne my mother’s only sibling was unable to make it today, but I know the news of his sister’s death has hit him hard.
In the 50’s mom was part of a dance troop and loved rock and roll. The love for rock and roll never subsided. I was often the one telling my daughter or my mother to please turn the music down. She even passed on Monday night while listening to AC-DC one of her favorite rock and roll bands.
Perhaps the thing I’ll remember my mother most for, however, is how she loved unconditionally. She loved each one of her kids openly and honestly, but never turned one of them away when they showed up at her door. She would just welcome us in with a hug and food if we needed it. My mother was a very friendly and sweet lady who would open her door to anyone in need. She once told me “you rescue the “stray animals” and I will rescue the “stray people”.
This past couple of months I found myself facing the cycle of life with my mother. She even told me during her second stay in the hospital, that she had become the child and I the parent. I loved the ability to return to her some of what she did for me as I grew up. Yet, I was so afraid of doing something wrong or not making the right decisions. After all my mother is the one who was always there for me, as my best friend, and mentor to help me make those tough decisions, and now I found myself doing this for her.
She did so much for so many and tried so hard to remain positive about anything that came her way even the monster called Cancer. I have to ask myself what my mother would want for us right now. I think she’d want us to heal ourselves and move on. She’d want us to talk with our creator and deal with her death in our own way, but also put her death behind us and live a life that she would be proud of knowing she is with us still.
I would like to thank all of you for coming here today to help us, as a family, to heal, and to celebrate my mother’s life.
I’d like to leave you all with this quote by Helen Keller and a poem written by me about my mother, Heller Keller said, “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart”
IF, by the end of her life, my mother ended up touching all of your hearts ----then I ask you, what else can anyone ask for in this world, but to touch people’s hearts. Thank you, Mom, You will be missed beyond words.
4/23/2009 5:34:34 AM
My mom passed on 4-20 and her obit will be in our local paper today. This is what I wrote:
Marjorie Louise Raynor-Garrett, 70, of Dunkirk, NY, passed away at the Chautauqua County Home on Monday April 20, 2009 after a courageous battle with lung cancer.
Marjorie was born on July 11, 1938 in Sullivan, Illinois, to Ella and Virgil Cox. Marjorie was a published writer and worked for News Leader in Guthrie, Oklahoma and the Post-Journal in Jamestown, NY, among many other jobs since she was 15 years old.
She donated her time to such causes as the United Way and abused women's shelters. Marjorie was one to take in "stray people off the street" and give them a place to stay until they got back on their feet.
Marjorie was widowed by her husband and preceded in death by her mother and father. Marjorie was also preceded in death by her daughter Janella Garrett, son Kenneth Wallace, and one unborn child.
Marjorie is survived by her son, Trinton Garrett; daughter, Deborah Brown, and six grandchildren, AnnLouise Fuller, Kimberly Brown, Curtis Brown, Jared Wallace, Adam Wallace, and Catt Cosme, plus many
friends who loved her dearly. Marjorie will be missed beyond words.
There will be no prior visitation. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 25, 2009 at 10:00 AM in St. Elizabeth Ann Seton RC Church Dunkirk, At 1:00 PM, in Grace Evangelical Lutheran Church, West 6th St. Dunkirk, her family will be
hosting a pot luck celebration of her life. All whose life has been touched by Marjorie are encouraged to attend and share your remembrances of Marjorie and help us celebrate her life. Arrangements are entrusted to the Gardinier-Colletti Memorial Home, Dunkirk. To send an e-condolence log onto www.clingerfuneralhomes.co
4/23/2009 5:34:23 AM
My mom passed on 4-20 and her obit will be in our local paper today. This is what I wrote:
Marjorie Louise Raynor-Garrett, 70, of Dunkirk, NY, passed away at the Chautauqua County Home on Monday April 20, 2009 after a courageous battle with lung cancer.
Marjorie was born on July 11, 1938 in Sullivan, Illinois, to Ella and Virgil Cox. Marjorie was a published writer and worked for News Leader in Guthrie, Oklahoma and the Post-Journal in Jamestown, NY, among many other jobs since she was 15 years old.
She donated her time to such causes as the United Way and abused women's shelters. Marjorie was one to take in "stray people off the street" and give them a place to stay until they got back on their feet.
Marjorie was widowed by her husband and preceded in death by her mother and father. Marjorie was also preceded in death by her daughter Janella Garrett, son Kenneth Wallace, and one unborn child.
Marjorie is survived by her son, Trinton Garrett; daughter, Deborah Brown, and six grandchildren, AnnLouise Fuller, Kimberly Brown, Curtis Brown, Jared Wallace, Adam Wallace, and Catt Cosme, plus many
friends who loved her dearly. Marjorie will be missed beyond words.
There will be no prior visitation. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 25, 2009 at 10:00 AM in St. Elizabeth Ann Seton RC Church Dunkirk, At 1:00 PM, in Grace Evangelical Lutheran Church, West 6th St. Dunkirk, her family will be
hosting a pot luck celebration of her life. All whose life has been touched by Marjorie are encouraged to attend and share your remembrances of Marjorie and help us celebrate her life. Arrangements are entrusted to the Gardinier-Colletti Memorial Home, Dunkirk. To send an e-condolence log onto www.clingerfuneralhomes.co
4/21/2009 4:46:11 AM
RIP: Marjorie Raynor....1938 - 2009...You went out listening to AC/DC just the way you wanted it! You will be missed beyond words!!!!
4/21/2009 4:45:30 AM
RIP: Marjorie Raynor....1938 - 2009...You went out listening to AC/DC just the way you wanted it! You will be missed beyond words!!!!
4/20/2009 8:40:29 PM
I am consumed by fire nightly, My soul being torn apart, Screaming from moutian high, Throwing my head back, Singing to the man in the moon,
As I watch you laying there, Eyes black and pain filled, Reaching out to me once the child, Now the fear filled protector,
Hades' hot silky laugh envades my dreams, Awakened by an onslaught of sweat drenched fears, To attack my life at every turn, Your dream song ending, Into a pain-embedded sacrificed wish.
4/11/2009 3:05:03 PM
I have spent the last two days at my mom's side and decided to write this while she held my hand and slept today.
As I sit here and watch you sleep, you look like my mother from years past, sadness deep inside, yet always strong, I can almost forget that the woman laying there is dying of Cancer. That you are being eaten from your lungs to your brain by such a horrible monster that you forget from time to time who I am, and struggle for your words.I miss my mother, the one who was my greatest mentor. Yet, even now you mentor me and teach me how to face death with dignity and as a warrior.You may struggle to think clearly and to remember who these people are that come to visit but you keep your strength obvious and determined to fight this monster until the very end.You are my hero!
4/7/2009 4:45:48 PM
Was sitting and thinking (what else..these days I do to much of this) and was thinking about my mother and what it will be like when she passes...my soul began to scream out..and this is what came of that scream:
I am consumed by fire nightly, My soul being torn apart, Screaming from moutian high, Throwing my head back, Singing to the man in the moon,
As I watch you laying there, Eyes black and pain filled, Reaching out to me once the child, Now the fear filled protector,
Hades' hot silky laugh envades my dreams, Awakened by an onslaught of sweat drenched fears, To attack my life at every turn, Your dream song ending, Into a pain-embedded sacrificed wish.
3/30/2009 5:56:38 AM
I am posting this because I need to rant, I have had some really bigoted conversations with classmates and because I had an argument recently with my girlfriend about transgenderism and if it was a "choice" compared to being gay or not. She says compared to gay (which we all know is not a choice you are born straight, gay, bisexual) transgender you "choose" to make the switch in gender, you choose to take the hormones and have the surgeries to become the gender of your "choice".
NO! It is NOT a choice! You are BORN in the wrong body you HAVE to do those things to make your outside fit the inside or you go crazy. The only choice there is in this decision is LIVE OR DIE. If I hand not of transitioned, then I would have gone insane and my only choice then would of to live my life crazy or to die and hope I would come back with mind and body the same.
Being Transgender is no more a choice then being gay. I can see how some people might think that taking the hormones or having the surgery is a choice. I mean I am "choosing" not to have bottom surgery because it is so risky right now for FtM to have it (it just isn't perfected enough). But, I live every day, every hour, every minute feeling incomplete, and like I don't belong in my OWN body.
Sure I CHOOSE to live my days in a body that doesn't belong to me, I CHOOSE to live in a body that betrays me every month and makes me so fucking sick that I feel like I am dying, I CHOOSE to live like a freak - somewhere in between but no where complete and not good enough to love totally by anyone.
Sure I have people who say they love me totally but there are parts of me they are uncomfortable with and it is obvious.
Who in their right fucking mind would CHOOSE to live their life like this? So, if you ever are with a transgender person, or at least friends with one, remember - It ISN"T a choice to be transgender!!!!!
3/26/2009 5:23:06 PM
Truly unbelievable!
I am taking a Food and Drink Culture class and I was reading some of the posts for one of the team projects. We are researching how food and drink products that are genetically modified affects us...in this one project group they started making statements about Soy being bad for us (ok if there is proof I can see this because it is one of the most genetically modified products out there), but they went on to say it is one of the highest causes of pre mature development in our children and also the cause of the increased number of homosexuals, cause it is one of the causes of gayness.
Then another one posted back “I agreed, the information was so scary, especially since I feed my children soy milk as babies, but a lot of what you are saying makes soo much sense! In my opinion, the reason for our newest generation of children's obesity and oversized children is from the steroids and antibiotics shop up into the animal’s products and meat we consume, so with having said that, it makes sense when you think of the increased population of gays. Now is it because of the freedom and rights they now have more available to them? That, we don’t know. But what i can personally vouch for is that I see lots of teen and even preteen groups who are gay, especially from the lesbian community. I see very young girls who are free and "out the closet" holding hands and kissing in the streets. Everything has changed soo much in the world…..” she went on to talk about a lecture she went to and how the information neither contradicted this information or confirmed it, and switching to more expensive organic foods.
I generally don’t reply to these posts since I am not apart of this project (I am working alone not in a team in this class) but I couldn’t pass this conversation up. So, my post went something like this; “Ok I have been holding my tongue on these posts but this one really has me to the point I have to say something. I find this post to be ignorant and offensive. Certainly you can't believe that Soy causes gayness. Being gay is with in one's genes (and yes this has been proven). It isn't caused by what we eat. The fact that you see so many more gays and lesbians is not because more are being "produced", but because society is becoming more accepting and they are feeling less threatened. I hope I misinterpreted your post and that was not what you were trying to say”.
What I would have said face to face and in my personal life I couldn’t because it is a class and I have to put on a very professional demeanor.But, I can’t believe such ignorance could truly be spewed still. I mean being homosexual is not a choice anymore then eating soy can cause one to be gay, and does anyone in this day and age TRULY believe this still? One is BORN gay, lesbian, bisexual, or straight, they don’t come out of their mother’s womb eat soy and !POOF! they are gay.… ok..sorry went off on a rant.I will get off my soap box know.
3/5/2009 5:08:53 AM
'It takes courage to push yourself to places that you have never been before... to test your limits... to break through barriers. And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.'-Anais Nin
All the signs are there in my life right now that a big change is coming. I don't think the fire is out yet, I am still going to be walking through it, I am still going to need the courage to push myself through and face the barriers that are placed before me and know that I will be changing inside (and already am, I can feel it), it is the unknowing, the waiting for the shoe to drop so to speak that spooks me.
I just have to remind myself...breath by beath, step by step, moment by moment, hour by hour, day by day so shall I make it through the fire.
2/23/2009 6:34:50 AM
back in Brooklyn, breathing a big breath of air, and digging right in to clean this apartment, put things away that we brought back with us, get some shopping done (there is no food in the house) and then try and get caught up on homework.
Mom is still in the county home back in the buffalo area, but I have people watching over here in my place and who will call me at a drop of the hat if anything doesn't seem right and who I can call to let me know what the doctors say and who can go to her doctors apointments with her. There is no telling when the other shoe is going to drop and I am going to get a call saying I am needed or mom has passed and I have to return. But, until that happens I will continue my life here getting things done and getting my business gigs up and running again.
I have a doctors appointment the 27th, which I will be managing to go to by myself. Perhaps, I will also be meeting some of you (you know who you are) soon too, we will see. *smile*
Oh look for new pictures soon.
2/4/2009 8:23:18 AM
Whipped
My soul empty,
Like that of a,
Darken empty window,
Reaching out to someone,
Anyone...
How can I explain this to,
Those who do not understand,
To those who feel not the sting of release,
The agony of pain of lust,
But have their minds closed,
Their eyes set to see,
The purest agony of the deepest pain.
How can I explain that my soul,
Reaches for that sting,
Like the leafless limbs,
Of a winter bare tree,
Begging for release,
That only a whip can bring to me.
Knighthavvk
2/2/2009 9:05:13 PM
On the Edge: by Knighthavvk
On the edge,
Tittering oh so close.
The darkness threatening,
Hovering ready to swallow me up.
I want to reach out,
Yet uncertain and scared,
To walk through the fire,
Unsure as to my ending,
Or beginning.
2/2/2009 4:40:56 AM
Ode To My Mistress:
I gave you my submission upon my knees,
I gave you my love openly and willing,
Yet my soul has became yours unknowingly.
As our relationship has grown stronger,
And a whole year has come to pass,
I Notice how bonded I have become.
My desire to kneel at your side,
My desire to offer my service,
My desire to be the reason you smile,
All continues to grow ten folds.
I give you my submission upon my knees,
I give you my love openly and willing,
Yet my soul has become yours unknowingly.
1/19/2009 7:19:48 AM
Just wanted to let my friends know if I am not around a lot for now it is because my mother is in the hospital. They found a tumor on her lungs and enlarged veins in her lungs. She will be going through a Flexiable Bronshoscpy today (1-19-09) early this morning and they will be taking some tissue samples. Depending on what the results are from these tissue samples will depend on what the long term decisions are we will make.
1/15/2009 2:42:05 PM
Between my GLBTQ In American Culture Class and a CMail I just sent out to a lady I got to thinking about my next journal entry..
I really love having deep philosophical discussions about different subjects and today I was preparing for a discussion we are going to be have in class (my class mentioned above) by reading the assigned lecture and articles. Then came online and ran into a profile by a lady who says she likes to have lifestyle discussions and is looking for friends, not hook-ups (so to speak, not her exact words).
Well I decided to post on this subject.
In my class we are preparing for a discussion on how the world sees alternative lifestyles has it really become more excepting or not? I am looking forward to discussion but am hoping to some how bring BDSM into this discussion as part of the alternative lifestyles as it has not been thought of or mentioned.
I think that perhaps GLB community has become more accepted in some areas of the world because it is seen more. It is a case of desensitizing, people might not understand it still or even accept it deep down, but at a surface level they accept it because it is more visible and have become more desensitized to the GLB community. However, the Trans community and the BDSM community are still not as accepted even at a surface level because they aren’t as visible and the “world” haven’t been desensitized to them. The Trans community is becoming more visible; however, it is difficult to be “visible” and stealth at the same time. One who wants to switch genders and live as the opposite gender has a hard time being visible in order to desensitize and educate the world. They have to choose either to live stealth and be comfortable in their own “new” skin or to be visible and educate the “world” which sacrifices their ability to live 100% in their desired gender.
Such as I have chosen not to be stealth, which means I am more visible because I do workshops and write articles on what it is to be Trans, etc.This way I work on educate the “world” on Trans issues and hopefully help make the Trans community more accepted in the world and the world more desensitized to the world of the Trans community. But in doing this I forfeit a lot of invisibility and my ability to live 100% in my desired gender of male, because I am constantly “outing” myself as FtM or born female.
So, what do you think? Has GLBTQ or BDSM as an alternative lifestyle become more excepting in today's society or not?
Been real busy this past week and haven't had a chance to come online. So, I thought I would stop buy quickly and wish everyone a blessed New Year - 2009. See you all soon hopefully, things here are a bit crazy right now.
12/24/2008 7:07:43 AM
Just a quick entry to say Happy Holiday to all my friends and to all those out there reading my profile/journal. May everyone have a wonderful Holday season filled with much laughter, peace, and blessings!
12/15/2008 4:27:34 AM
I was reading one of my photography newsletters today and I loved the quote which just happen to be by one of my favorite psychologist/art therapist and some might say philosophers-
"The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves."
~Carl Jung~
I am not sure why this hit me so deep inside. It could be broke up into parts -
"The creation of something new is not accomplished by intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity."
In many cases people react in life on that instinct, that “inner necessity” alone and we survive what life has to throw at us, sometimes learning the lessons we need to learn, sometimes not.
But, either way the creation of that “something new”, which is that being which helps us to move on and continue through life learning about ourselves (which face it is really the most important key to growth) but also helps us learn about the world around us.
Other times we rely on intellect and study the signs, logical paths etc. We don’t trust the “non-logical” paths which are pure instinctual path which seems to be right in front of us beckoning us. So, we read everything we can get our hands on, ask questions, and do everything we can to logically make sense about what ever it is we are trying to make sense of or what we are trying to “create” in life.
“The creative mind plays with the objects it loves” This line I had to chuckle at because to me, and who I am, it can have so many different connotations. From those of us who are artist tend to over think what it is we are going to create and are our worst critics.To the world of BDSM and a sadistic Dom’s creative mind coming up with a scene and loves to be drawn out and play with a submissive (the object it loves) or loves to cause to squirm, beg, and lose all control *smile*.
But, it could also mean that we that love life and learning the lessons it has to teach, can be creative about learning those lessons and tend to “play with these objects” (the lessons) and toss them around looking at them from all angles until we have learned the lesson from every angle possible.
11/20/2008 4:22:35 AM
One can not have growth without first walking through the fire and knowing beyond knowing that life and death are happening simultaneously, that we will continue on until we reach the ultimate knowledge.
Many lives are lived for a moment of enlightenment which will lighten the dark, yet if you embrace the darkness and learn to live within it and except it as part of you, true enlightenment comes through you.
11/13/2008 4:26:27 AM
This is a story that was posted on CBS site. I am a psyi-vampire and my daughter is a Sang-vimpire, and I have friends who are vampires, so I know they are real. It is intresting that the "real" vampires and the lifestyle is actually getting coverage now. Perhaps people will learn to understand this isn't about myths and something to be scared of!
Real-Life Vampires: Who Are They? Around the World, Subcultures Coalesce Around the Vampire Image By KI MAE HEUSSNER Oct. 31, 2008
With their cloaks aflutter and their fangs flickering in the moonlight, thousands of vampires will take to the streets tonight.
Shade as she's initiated into House Lost Haven, a close-knit, semiformal organization for vampires...
Shade as she's initiated into House Lost Haven, a close-knit, semiformal organization for vampires and other individuals who believe their souls are connected to nonhuman creatures. She is exploring the vampire identity, her boyfriend, Anshar Seraphim, told ABCNews.com. Seraphim identifies with the vampire community and is also a member of House Lost Haven.
Masquerading witches and warlocks, they'll knock on doors, nosh away at bite-size candy bars or guzzle a beer or two at a friend's party.
But Anshar Seraphim, 28, doesn't have any special Halloween plans and has no intention of throwing on a plastic Dracula suit.
Maybe it's because dressing like a vampire one day a year isn't anything special when it's who you believe you are for all 365 of them.
"My personal belief: Vampirism is an inexplicable part of science that we don't understand yet," Seraphim said. "I don't know if the things that cause it to exist are chemical. When we associate ourselves with the word 'vampire,' we're describing the relationship that we have with the people around us."
As fictional or mythological characters -- from Bram Stoker's count "Dracula" to Anne Rice's Louis to HBO's new cast of bewitching "True Blood" suckers -- society accepts and sometimes celebrates the vampire. But for many people, such as Seraphim, vampirism isn't just a literary genre. It's an identity and a lifestyle. Yes, blood-drinking and all.
And though it may sound incredulous, some experts say that there's a little bit of a vampire in all of us.
"The vampire image is sexy because it's a trespass," said Katherine Ramsland, a forensic psychologist and author of "Science of Vampires."
"It's not just kissing, it's biting ... the vampire has the ability to make you want it, even though you're frightened of it."
Cultures all over the world, she said, in some way or another, recognize the life force-sucking character. The "vampire metaphor" most common in the United States is derived from the Romanian Dracula, she said. But in other cultures, vampires are only female or only go after children. Others emerge only after a suicide, rather than after a vampire's bite.
Despite the different ways the metaphor is manifested, certain elements undergird it, regardless of where it appears, she said.
"Whatever comes and depletes you is a vampiric image," Ramsland said. "It's not always blood. It's a human metaphor, a representation of a human dread that's both frightening and exciting."
Attracted to this powerful and sexy image, she said, legions of people around the world have formed subcultures that reflect various parts of the vampire identity.
But there is a continuum of responses to the vampire metaphor that draws in members of this subculture, she said.
For some, it's merely an outlet for creativity and having fun. For others, it seeds a belief that they need the blood or energy of another person or animal to subsist. Unfortunately, in very rare cases, she said, it gives structure to paranoia and delusion.
Regardless of how it's manifested, however, it's a very powerful metaphor, she said.
"People can participate in whatever way they want to," Ramsland said. "Some of us are more the blood drinkers or the victim or the hunter. All of us participate in the metaphor in some manner. ... It allows for so much elasticity."
If you want to read more of this article go here: http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/Story?id=6154446&page=2
11/10/2008 9:38:56 AM
my Owner has requested that I read a book titled "Finding Flow, The Psychology of Engagement with Everyday Life". It is a very interesting book, even though I am only part way through the first chapter, it has me thinking and my mind wondering with each sentence that I read, not only as a person, but as a submissive and Dom in the BDSM lifestyle.
The quote that starts the book out is: "If we really wan to live, we'd better start at once to try; If we don't, it doesn't matter, but we'd better start to die." - W. H. Auden
This along with a couple friends of mine who have given up finding their "perfect" Dom or ever being collared due to not finding one or having a couple leaving their lives, or other people telling them they are not a slave, not a submissive, etc. I too have been told many times over that I can not be a "true" slave to Jamie if I am a switch and Dom other submissives, that I might be submissive but not a slave. Or that I can not be a "TRUE" Dom for any submissive if I am collared and owned as a slave to another. This has made me want to do some introspection my own life and that which I was taught in this lifestyle.
I do believe that the BdSm lifestyle is very much a "lifestyle" not just something we do every so often but part of who we are daily, just like my spirituality is part of who I am, not just something I practice on a day to day basis. With this in mind how come one person can't be BOTH slave and Dom? If the relationship between the people involved is consensual, each person involved understands where they stand in said relationship.
The book also talks about how some people feel they are pre-determined to their "destiny", or that their "destiny" and who they "are" is "fixed because of where they were raised, in what race, culture, the community we were raised in, along with many other factors in life. But the truth is we each have a matter called individuality and free well. We control who we are, where we are going in life, even slaves have this ability unless they are being treated as a doormat (which I have seen this type of relationship before).
If we look out of a window during Winter, we might see thousands of snowflakes which appear to be identical to each other, yet if you take a magnify glass and study them, each one is very individual and no two snow flakes are alike, in fact, each had a shape that no other flake will or can duplicate exactly. We each one is very much like this analogy because we are individuals; our future is NOT set in stone. Yes I believe in one's destiny and in a Great entity who created us and perhaps created us for a purpose BUT, s/he also created us with free well and individuality which gives us the ability to change our future as we see fit.
Each decision we make effects not only us but many other people in our past, present and future, as does what other's decided (random chance), and because each one of us have a mind of our own with which s/he can either decided to squander his/her opportunities, or conversely overcome some of the disadvantages we feel we have to face. We just need to continue living our lives the best we know how, figure out who WE ARE as individuals, and be proud of any decisions you make in life - don't regret them because with out each decisions we can not be who we are in life, and might as well begin to die (as the quote says).
With this in mind, I was born into a mixed ethnicity house with 4 brothers and sisters who were older then me, our house hold was taught many of our ancestry beliefs and I was raised as a Two Spirited person (No one gender role was forced on me. I was allowed to be who I felt I was inside, despite what doctors said at birth). Until my mother and father divorced then I was raised and beaten every time I acted masculine and was trained as a slave (with out the sex). So, one could say that my being a slave was predetermined by the atmosphere I was raised. However, I do not believe this in any form! I would not go back and change any of the things that wad done to me because YES it did make me who I am today, BUT it also did not lay my destiny out in front of me. I believe that due to the fact that I have a mind of my own and the flexibility of the human consciousness I have my own ability to decide where I want my life to go and who I am inside.
As much as know I am two spirit , I also I KNOW that inside I lean more towards being Dom and love a submissive or slave to kneel at my feet and be obedient to me and my set protocols, along with other reasons, but I also love being a submissive/slave to the right Domme. I can and have been both at the same time - just because I am a collared slave to Jamie doesn't mean I can shut off part of who I am (being Dom) and just because I am Dom to someone doesn't mean I can shut off my ability and desire to submit to another. This is why the word switch was "invented" in this lifestyle for those of us like me who can ride both sides of the fence so to speak. Yes I know some who can't be both, but that is where individuality comes into play. I can and have been both at the same time.
So, just because you might be told something by someone or you think you know that person well enough to tell them “you can’t be that” or “you can’t do that”. Think twice and realize that you might not be able to do these things, but it doesn’t mean this person is destined to be the same as you because we can’t be exactly the same as anyone else, as we ARE individuals who are not exactly the same in anyway. But instead listen and acknowledge their individuality , show them respect for their ability to KNOW who they are or are trying to figure that out with out criticism and forcing your own beliefs on the lifestyle on to them. Yes there might be old guard and new guard “rules and regulations” beliefs etc, but remember this lifestyle is as individual between the people involved as each of us are.
Instead of pushing your ways and thoughts on another INDIVIDUAL and possibly effecting their inner self worth about themselves and/or confusing the shit out of them, how about taking the opportunity to learn their individual thoughts and ways, you might find that you can take parts of what they feel, believe, etc on to yourself and your life, as they can your thoughts and beliefs if THEY so CHOOSE. After all we are the only ones who can make our decisions on who we are, and truly know that answer inside, as well as, make the decision as to how we want to live our lives.
10/31/2008 6:21:20 AM
Modern Day Ravens:
With Hades’ hot silky laugh,
I am consumed by fire nightly,
My soul singing to the man in the moon,
Awakening an onslaught of modern day ravens,
To attack my life at every turn,
Turning my dream song,
Into a pain-embedded sacrificed wish.
Until I found you high on the cliffs of solitude,
You awoke my denied desires gently,
Filling my days with animalistic lust,
And my nights with satisfied sighs.
10/31/2008 5:54:23 AM
This is just a shout out to all the people who read my journal - HAPPY HALLOWEEN and if you celebrate it - HAPPY SAMHAIM!!
BLESSED BE TO ALL MY FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES!
10/23/2008 3:59:24 AM
Who am I:
by: TrinityHawk (c) 2008
I may not be the most beautiful,
I know am not perfect,
But...
I love total,
I give my all,
I show my love,
With a snap of a whip,
Then a gentle touch,
But…
Always there to protect.
I speak my love,
With words of truth.
I have no secrets,
I tell no lies,
I play no games,
I am who I am.
I well hold your hand,
I might even bind them.
But…
I won't chain your soul.
I well walk with you,
Holding your leash,
But... I won't hold you back.
This is what I have to offer,
This is what I have to give,
I hope you will take my hand,
I hope you will accept my collar,
and…
Let me be your Master.
10/21/2008 8:56:51 AM
Cut To Fit
Twenty and one murdered in a year,
One lit up the air waves like the star she was,
Twenty ignored and hushed away,
Like someone’s dirty laundry.
Some say it’s not that simple.
They lied and deceived us all!
At such a basic level as their gender,
How can we call it murder?
You may think that question is simple.
Are you a boy or a girl?
Sometimes with a single letter. A/S/L?
You ask as if I knew any more than you do!
You ask as if my answer where not,
A life or death decision.
You ask as if I could answer you,
As I believe myself to be.
We’re told we’re girls or boys,
From the days that we are born,
But what if someone got it wrong?
What if someone outright lied?
What most don’t seem to realize,
Is that not long ago doctors rarely asked. They whisk the newborn away and claimed, There is a problem with this baby.
Judged with tiny rulers and cut to fit a box. Some of us were not allowed,
Just wanted to take a moment and say Happy 4th of July to everyone who stops by my profile and reads my journals. Hope you all have a wonderful, (or did have a wonderful), day!
I can't wait until this evening! We have invited friends up to celebrate with us and have plans to walk down to the dock and see what all the activites are, after having a cook out, and then watch the fireworks, which I will be taking pictures of. Fun times for all to be have!
6/25/2008 7:40:57 AM
I have updated my profile and my pictures, as well as, uploaded a picture of my birthday tattoo (06-25-08). So, as soon as it is approved you will be able to see what it looks like. It represents the fact that I am a switch and my spiritual path also (it has a Tiger's face which is one of my totems). I am in LOVE with this tattoo and show it off when ever I am able.
I am working on a book and have several photoshoots in the works so I am a busy guy but I still would like to hear from some of you wonderful people so hit me up sometime!
6/6/2008 4:53:18 PM
WHOO HOO! Pride weekend is upon us and tomorrow evening we have a birthday party to go to, then Sunday we get to go enjoy the parties after Temptress is out of work Sunday. (this will be the first Pride weekend that I will miss the parade in the past 5 years but what can you do when work schedules you right?).
Plus, June 18th I get the first part of my new full arm sleeve tattoo!! Temptress is going to pay for this tattoo as a birthday present (my birthday is the 20th! - It is going to be my ode to the BDSM lifestyle I live as a switch. I will post a picture after I get it done.
I can't wait - right now I am down right POOPED from this very busy day I have had but this weekend is going to be a blast and the idea of my next tattoo has me pumped.
4/15/2008 10:29:01 AM
Your Owl Perches:
Your owl perches - Just behind your eyes - Viewing out - Silent and waiting. My tiger paces -
Restless and wanting. Your owl dove down - Claws bared - Beak snapping - Driving my tiger back.
Your owl calls out to my hawk- Diving and soaring together - As our passion grows hot and fiery - Like the tails of my hawk fiery in the sunlight -
Overtaking our senses - Connecting our hearts - Two fiery predators mate - Love and passion turning the sky red - Hoping not to shred each other apart.
4/14/2008 11:20:11 AM
Thought I would share a short story I wrote:
Having prepared the room, making sure it is cleaned, everything is put away, and the dog is put in another room, I sat and waited for minx to get off work.Minx knows when she arrives she is to take a moment to say hello to my mother downstairs in her apartment then come upstairs to mine and take her appropriate position and wait for instructions.
I hear her car enter the drive and smile. I give one more glance around noticing the tools of pleasure and pain are already set out on the trunk at the end of the bed, music playing in the background, I nod and return to my book that I am reading and wait.
As I hear my pet enter the house and greet my mother at the door, I hear her voice shake a bit and I know she is jumpy and nervous as to what to expect tonight in her Master's lair.She is trying so hard to sound normal as she talks to my mother and be cordial. Finally she heads up the stairs to my apartment and a side way smile crosses my face as I pretend to read my book.
My pet enters my lair and takes her position waiting for her orders. I glance over to her out of the corner of my eyes and smile as her eyes are downcast and I can see her breathing is rather uneven. I let her wait in anticipation a bit longer, and then swing my feet over the side of the bed. I walked over to my little minx and leaned over her whispering very close to her ear; “stand and take your cloths off NOW”!
“Yes Master” was her only reply, as she quickly started to disrobe and I closed the door to my lair and locked it, so that we would not be disturbed this evening. It was at this moment that minxes’ eyes caught sight of my weight set in the corner of the room noticing that it was set up with ropes and a dildo on the thigh press. Her eyes darted back to me; I gave an evil chuckle but said not more, except to growl; “Take your position slut”!
Minx quickly dropped to her knees and her eyes lowered with out even a word. I smiled and whispered good kitten as I petted her head.With out warning I grabbed the back of her hair and bent her head back wards with a jerk so that she is looking up at me. I lean down claiming her lips as mine hard and demanding, our tongues dancing the tango.Still holding on to her hair I release her mouth and say; “release my cock slut and make your Master cum”!
As I held a handful of her hair minx unzipped my pants and reached inside working her hands slowly up and down my cock watching her Masters face as she worked her hand all along the shaft of my cock and over the tip of the head again and again. I released a low growl from my throat and leaned into her hand, I pulled her hair a bit more and growled “open your mouth slut”!
As she opened her mouth I placed the head of my cock in her mouth and started to work it slowly in and out of her mouth, minx knowing instantly to start to suck and lick my cock as I worked it in and out fucking her face.With out warning I pushed the full length of my cock all the way in to the back of her throat and held it there for the count of 4, watching as she gagged on the length of my cock and then pulled it back and started pumping again. Smiling saying in a soft voice good slut, you know Master likes it when you gag on his cock as he fucks the back of your throat. I continued to fuck my slutty minxes’mouth for awhile longer making her gag ever so often until I came and then I had her lick my cock clean and return it back into my pants.
I stood back looking at her smiling, “you were very good pet, now it is your turn for some pleasure and some pain”; I said with an evil chuckle.Minx looked at me with a gulp in her throat.
“Stand and go over to the weight set and face outwards minx”!
Minx obeyed even though I could see she was very nervous about doing so and uncertain as to what was about to happen.I walked over to her and told her to place her hands above her head and grab the over head cross bar. “Do not move or I will use the cable ties and make SURE you do not move”!I also told her to spread her feet and move back ward so that she was straddling the thigh press and sit down as if in a squat.Minxes’ eyes got really big and stood still.
I growled and grabbed for the single tail whip laying one single stinging lash across her right thigh “SNAP”!
“I SAID BACK UP AND SQUAT OVER THE THIGH PRESS NOW”!
Minx whimpered but started to back up and squat down and as she did the dildo that was placed there entered her already very wet pussy.I reached down and stated pinching and twisting minxes’ clit as I leaned in and kissed her deeply on the lips capturing her lower lips between my teeth and biting it. Letting her know this evening was about my sadistic desires as much as her need for release and pleasure or more so.Still pinching and twisting her clit and feeling her twisting and squirming I release her lower lip and growl “STOP SQUARMING OR YOU WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE FOR YOURSELF”!
“Yes Master, I will Try Master”; was her soft reply.
I moved my mouth down to her neck and started to kiss and bite at her neck just above the collar. As I captured one of her ear lobes in my teeth and bit, I also captured her nipples in my fingers and twisted them hard and she let out a muffled scream.I stepped back and looked at her with a glare in my eyes, “Do I have to gag you minx, or perhaps I should just release you and stop all together”?
She was quick to answer; “No Master, please do not gag me or stop! I promise,I will not scream again, I will only moan for my Master”!
I stepped back up to her and grabbed another handful of her hair on the back of her head and leaned in close to her ear and said in a low evil voice; “if you scream one more time, you will not be allowed to orgasm all week, but you will be beat ever chance I get with the cane, the redeemer, and the single tail whip, is this clear young lady!”With a hard gulp, my minx said; “Yes Master, I understand and will not scream again tonight”.
With that I leaned in and bit her ear again trailing off by sucking the ear lobe, claiming it as mine and her too. I whispered in her ear before moving on to her neck, “Who owns you and can do what ever He wants to your body”?
A soft whimper of a reply came from minx “You Master, you own me; you own all of me, body is yours to do with as you wish”!
I leaned in and claimed her right nipple with my lips, tongue and teeth moving to the left spending the next several minutes devouring her body with my mouth, my hands, and my eyes knowing that minx is uncomfortable being in the open in front of anyone nude.
I told my minx to start bouncing up and down as if she was riding my cock and fuck the dildo that I wanted to see her ram herself with the dildo.She did as she was told and as she did I reached underneath her and started to vibrate her clit with my fingers. My minx started to moan and breath heavy almost instantly, but she was good and never let go of the cross bar and never screamed.But, after several minutes of this she started begging to cum.I told her she was not allowed to cum yet, but to continue riding the cock. It was a few moments longer when I felt her legs starting to tense up, her belly was tensing and she started to beg in earnest and she cried; “Please Master, PLEASE. I have to cum! I can’t hold it back any longer! PLEASE!!!”
I told her, “Cum now minx, CUM NOW”At this my minx exploded and ejaculated all over my hand, the weight set and left a puddle of cum all over my floor. I smiled and she blushed.
It was then I noticing my minxes’ legs have begun to shake from standing in the horse stance and ramming the dildo in and out of her sweet pussy for so long. I quickly helped her stand up right and move forward so that her legs were straightened out and whispered for her to let go of the cross bar.Helping her to the bed I lay her down on the bed.
I went to my kitchen and got my minx some water and at the same time got a bowl of ice.When I entered the bedroom I shut the door and locked it once again. Placing the ice on the end table I helped my minx to drink some of the water, took a sip of it myself then placed it next to the ice.I told my minx she was a very good girl and for her to lie on the bed and rest for a moment because now was the time for her beating and I let her pick which toy she wanted to experience first.I was almost certain which she would pick, and I was right, she picked the soft leather flogger.
After she rested and I checked her over to make sure her hip was ok, and nothing was damaged or that play should be stopped for the night. I gave her orders to lay head board to foot on the bed so I had access to her legs, ass and back.I began with a slow crazy 8 covering the whole area of back, ass, and legs but quickly started to pick up in speed and strength.After a good 15 minutes of the flogger and watching her sweet pearly white skin turn red I returned it to the trunk and picked up my light weight cat of nine tails and started making switching movement over her legs, ass, and back leaving nice red strip marks on top of the already red skin.My minx lay twitching and squirming but not screaming only moaning and making soft whimpering sounds which she knows drives her Master crazy.
The next hour was spent beating my minx with each of the toys and teasing her in between each beating toy with a teasing toy such as a feather tickler, nylon tickling flogger, and even slight kamasutra massage in all the sensitive areas with out touching in of the erotic areas, just enough to send my minx into sub space and have her moaning and begging; “OH Master, fuck me, fuck me hard master please”!
I smile to myself and put the toys away rolling her over on her back..I climb on to the bed between my beautiful, sexy minxes’ legs and begin to continue the torture of Kamasutra massage for a bit longer until my little slut is literally out of her mind and on the verge of orgasming with out me touching her and me having to put my hand over her mouth to keep her from screaming her pleas to whom ever will listen.I spread her legs and place her feet on my shoulders placing the head of my cock at the very tip of her sweet pussy still teasing her as I tickle the opening with the head of my cock.
“OH GAWD, MASTER DON’T TEASE ME ANY LONGER PLEASE”! I pull back all together and move away from her not touching at all.Her sweet eyes grew huge and tears started to run down her face.“Why Master, why did you stop, don’t stop, please, please don’t stop”!
I looked at her; “Are you suppose to order me to not to stop teasing you? Am I not the Master? I tease you for as long as I want do I not?You are the Slut here right? I am the Master”!
“OH YES MASTER, YOU ARE IN CHARGE, I AM JUST YOUR SLUT. I AM SORRY! I DIDN’T MEAN TO ORDER YOU TO STOP, YOU CAN TEASE ME AS MUCH AS YOU WANT MASTER I AM JUST YOUR SLUT AND YOUR SLUT IS SOOOOOOOOO HORNEY FOR YOUR COCK TO BE INSIDE OF ME!”
I smiled and with out warming moved closer and rammed my cock all the way inside her with one push and left it there.My sweet minx gasped and then let out a large sigh “OH thank you Master!”
She started to try and move her hips against me and fuck herself against my cock and I slapped the side of her hips hard with my bare hand catching her off guard.“I didn’t say fuck my cock did I”?
“No Master, you didn’t” she replied sadly
I moved in a bit closer and pushed in a bit harder as I pushed her knees to her chest and then slowly started pumping in small hard pumps so that my cock was making real small hard pumps inside her pussy, just enough to caress her g-spot.
As I felt her starting to tense I switched my technique and started to cork screw my hips and started to move the cock around inside her as a cork screw and pulling back so the head almost comes out and then goes all the way back in past the g-spot caressing it every time it came out and went back in.
Her tenseness lessened ever time I changed maneuver but came back stronger and faster each time too.
Finally I could feel myself reaching my point of ejaculation and she was tensing once again and started to beg for release.I pushed all the way in and groaned; “Cum for your Master slut”!
4/7/2008 7:03:52 AM
Not sure why so many Dom and sumbmissive men are checking me out or contacting me, my profile specifically state I am looking for Domme and submissive females.
If it is because I have transgender marked, well there are other transgender people in the world then men! I am FtM two spirited native american. I was born female and live my life as a male. All my documents say I am male, I have facial hair, body hair etc. I AM A MALE!
Yes I have a very dominat side and am a very good Master to my submissives. (ask the one I train *wink*).
However, I also am a switch and am a very well trained submissive to the correct Domme. But - that takes trust! I don't just flip for anyone!
So, if you are bi-sexual and interested in having the best of both worlds *chuckle* (as I have been told) or are a straight woman who wants a strong man, or even a very well trained submissive boy please feel free to contact me, and lets talk.
I won't make any promises or attachments because I am in a relationship and am only looking for friends or play dates.