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RoamingCaptivelittleonyxNYBear
I am here to chat with friends and stay in-the-loop.

?I am married. She has no interest in the Lifestyle. I love chatting with intelligent, respectful ones about a variety of topics
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I am playful, even fiesty at times.? I enjoy chatting with others as it is a way for me to recreate and yes, even flirt (shamelessly some have said).

Favorite Quotes

"The purpose of life is to be happy."
- Dalai Lama -

"If you are?rude and condescending?it doesn't mean you are superior.? It means you are?rude and condescending."
- Me -

"If you're focused on what you have left behind, you will not be able to see what lies ahead."
- Chef Auguste Gusteau -

"I have wondered sometimes if a man to be a man must not master a woman and a if a woman to be a woman must not know herself mastered."
- John Norman -
? "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present."
- Master Oogway-


Quotes I Really Liked on Other's Profiles

"... submission is NOT a gift. You who insist on saying so are likely parroting the 'group think' of the current BDSM status quo."
(on laurieann's profile)

"Self-respect is the fruit of discipline, the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself."? Abraham J. Heschel
(on SubmissveDesire's profile)

"The lifestyle, terms, definitions and all the likes are like religion, its all in how you interperate it."?
(on KingandBeauty's profile)


"To say you have no limits is to say you have no value on life or yourself."?
(on temptedxdesires' profile)


"Know that the people who are the richest are not those wo have the most, but those that need the least.?That it is wiser not to expect, but to hope, for in expecting you ask for disappointment, whereas in hoping you invite surprise."?
(on dirtygirl19's profile)

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Woo Hoo. Finally?I got Hexxagon to:
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7/8/2017 5:26:17 PM
Respect vs Respectful I often see comments stating "respect is earned". Does this mean you will not show respect otherwise? Is that telling of their character ... or yours? Respectful behavior shows politeness or deference. I find it an attractive quality, especially when presented in response to a disrespectful approach.
1/15/2016 12:49:54 PM
Woot! This site is back up! New but similar name with all the goodness of before. Many thanks to those responsible!
10/2/2013 8:09:19 AM

I often hear and read about how many fakes there are here. Heck, I have come across more than my fair share.

 

Yesterday I was reading "SpotTheTrickster's" profile and came across something that is not only increadibly useful, but blew my mind when I tested it out.

 

I was already a fan of Google, so it didnt take much to get me to try it.

 

First, I found a random profile that looked legit. Profile pics were of a clothed person, description was simple and believable, profile had 4-5 "friends".

 

Next, I right clicked on one of the profile pics and saved it to my desktop.

 

Then, I opened another browser page to the address https://images.google.com

. This brought up a Google search page with a little camera icon in the right hand side of the search box.

 

I clicked on the camera icon which brought up more detailed search options.

 

I selected "Upload an image", then the Browse button.

 

From there I selected the picture I had saved to my desktop.

 

The page came up with, and Im not kidding, HUNDREDS of matches of that photo! Some were explicit. Others were profiles on other sites, all of which had different names and personal details.

 

HOLY CRAP!

 

Yes, I realize this could be the same person and actually be their photos, but ...

 

Anyway.

 

My point is, here is another useful tool to help you protect yourself from those who might do you harm, physically or emotionally.

9/5/2013 11:49:11 AM

Just to clarify, I am straight, not gay, not gay curious, not transgendered ... LOL

 

I dont have a problem with you if you are. I am just not wired that way.

 

Take care :)

Exposingbarbara
 
 Age: 27
  Texas