Great Doms are not born; they are developed through years of experience and practice, and because of this, He is to be celebrated, appreciated and joyfully admired. He doesnt raise his voice, threaten or demand. a true Dom claims obedience through trust, tone and deservedness. He has the intellect, understanding and wisdom of a prophet and the finesse and skill of a virtuoso, slowly and patiently bringing me up, wearing me out and bringing me back down again when I have nothing left to give. He folds me in his arms while I fall asleep. Any dominant male might possess the flicker or the flame, but a true Dom is forged with patience over time.

 How to tell if you have a good submissive

1. She says, "thank you,".... A lot.

2. She wants your approval so much that she'll do the weird thing that was a hard limit.... Because you want it so much.

3. She ignores your Doritos breath.

4. She is responsive and let's you know how turned on she is.

5. She doesn't complain when her legs cramp up and her hands fall asleep.

6. She falls into your eyes.

7. She doesn't point out that she told you about that limit five times, even though you are just now getting the point.

8. She is lighthearted and fun... And she lightens your mood.

9. She doesn't top from the bottom... And if she does, you don't even realize what she's done.

10. She takes care of herself, takes care of you, and let's you take care of her.

11. She looks good with jism in her hair.

12. She tells you how sexy you are, even when you're not.

13. She attacks every challenge with enthusiasm and stout heart.

14. She doesn't correct your grammar or your outfit.

15. She can make you feel sexy when you're sitting on the toilet.

16. She doesn't tell her friend what you did to her the night before.

17. She'll eat your cooking  and tells you how good it is.... No matter how bad it is.

18. She has bought into the fact that once you cum, you are, for all intents and purposes, worthless and wanting to talk about football. Or work. Or what's for dinner.

19. She can correct a problem in a scene without you or anyone else noticing she is correcting it.

20.  She is clear about her wants, needs, hopes and dreams.

How to piss off a submissive (by darling kit kat)

1. Ask for a picture, then complain about the one you got.

2. Try to be sexy by speaking in such a gravelly voice that you aren't understandable

(huh?? is not an attractive response from a sub)

3. Forget to bring your flogger....but remember your riding crop.

4. Finish an exhausting scene, cover up subbie, pat her, and go check your email while she recovers.

5. Clip one nipple.

6. Smoke and discuss football while watching a sub do a public scene.

7. Insist on IM over phone or email when courting.

8. Brag.

9.Chatter in your subs ear when you force her to cum to "turn her on".

10. Demand feedback while she is in sub space.

11. Answer your phone while sceneing.

12. Leave bruises so regularly that her doctor calls social services.

13. Leave your sense of humor somewhere else.

14. Ask her to count strokes.

15. Forget that it's difficult to concentrate when hands and feet are numb from over-enthusiastic restraints.

 16. Use foul language (unless that's her turn on)

17. Hit the same spot over and over and over again... Especially on her kidneys.

18. dress like a slob because, "we weren't going out anyway".

 19. Believe that "harder is better".

                         ~more to come, and all in good fun!~