Aww, you have may have missed this.

No Pants Friday

Been away for awhile. Coming back to see how my CollarMe friends are doing. 

For the few that have not subscribe to my blog, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/, my birthday just passed. It was on May 1st. I have been celebrating since April 26th. My blog has been consistently growing, I get at least one new subscriber a day.

Once again, I am aimed on moving to New York or at least closer. I had considered staying in Philly and just commuting to New York for work...the travel is murder. Well, I should say I am aimed at Northeast New Jersey. I have been looking at both Jersey City and West New York. I am still making the proper moves to move and just had an epiphany about something I am missing or flat out overlooking. Lol.

I still have my Niteflirt

and that is where all of my online and long distance Lifestyle interaction is taking place. The New Goody Bag

feature has really taken off.

Yes, I am still a Findom. I love when a slave or sub spends their money just to bring a smile on my face. I accept finsub/slaves that do this because they gain pleasure from making a woman happy with their gifts to her or they have made her plate just that much lighter. I am not looking for ones that do it just because they think that will get them sex with her. If my acknowledgement and praise is not enough, I don't what to tell you.

I am also still very active as a Lifestyle Dom. I don't have any dynamics right now, because of my planned move I am just allowing myself to be courted by possible s-types. I do have a few play partners but they are actual friends.

I can not say much has changed with what I am into, but my tolerance level for mess is totally gone. I have too much on my plate to entertain mess. Still not a fan of someone that can not express themselves via words. I know many on here are no more serious about serving than any apology Sterling could give. For many it is just the fantasy of talking and having someone show them attention. That is what Niteflirt

is for. 

So if you are not trying to show me a good time out or ensure I am able to have one via you, then no I don't have time to top/dominate you. I will barely have time to talk to you. Notice I did not say anything about sex, my orgasm is still none of your dayum business.

I used to give everyone a chance to be on the path of a dynamic with me, but my protocol proved to be too much for most. So until, I meet a sub/slave that I feel is strong enough I will not offer. Subs/slaves barely know how to petition for a dynamic. They seem much more willing to just open their wallets then do any real work or service. SEX IS NOT SERVICE!!!!!

Call me crazy, but I get off a hell of a lot more from a sub/slave washing my windows from the outside then one offering me money to walk around in panties before me. Although, depending on what the tribute is for...I will not be turning anything down but my collar. Lol

My Goody Bag

• 
  
  Just Me Ego Tripping 
  
  
• Ass Worship Sanctuary
  
  
  
• You Love My Breast
  
  
  
• Humiliation
  
  
  

Greetings A/all,

WARNING: No permission is granted to any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, to use any content, text or images posted by Me in My profile, any form or forum both past, current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of My privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. I am not your free case study.

IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN BEING CONSIDERED BY ME, IT STARTS WITH AN INTRODUCTION OF YOURSELF TO ME FIRST.

IF YOU VISIT, SAY HELLO. THAT IS THE POLITE THING TO DO. IF YOU JUST PEEK AT ME, I WILL NOT ASSUME YOU ARE INTERESTED.

I am a proud 41 year old Stone Dominant Sadist. I have been in the Lifestyle since 1999. I view vanilla relationship and dynamic as two different things and I am only offering D/s dynamic.

While I am not a fan of labels, I respect their use. I am a Non-Gender Specific Lover. I choose to use Non-Gender Specific Lover, because in my vanilla dating I am 60% attracted to women and 40% everyone else.

Now when it comes to being in service to me sex, size and race have no importance or concern. It is all about how one presents themselves. Just a few quick notes:

Take Note Number 1

There will be no interaction where you are allowed to penetrate me or be placed inside of me.

Take Note Number 2

I have pay sites, etc. So no I will not and do not post a host of free pics. Personal pics in my photo album are and will be for friends only.

YOU MUST SEND ME A NOTE INTRODUCING YOURSELF D-TYPE or s-type, OTHERWISE YOUR REQUEST WILL BE IGNORED.

Take Note Number 3

My Dominance is no more for sale than my sex. Your tribute to me as your Dominant is part of your service to me. I am not here for you to put me to work for you.

Take Note Number 4

Stupidity (whether pretend or real) has no place in my house of Dominance.

Take Note Number 5

Petition for Consideration is required to be in my service.
The petition acts in the same manner as a cover letter for a résumé. In a petition a submissive will make their plea to the Dominant and may outline why they are seeking to be in service to the Dominant. Generally not used with a relationship that existed prior to the contract, however, for a submissive who is in search of a Dominant, this feature helps to show professionalism and attention to detail. The petition should go into detail of your request, why you wish to be in service, your goals, and why you've chosen this Dominant specifically.

Take Note Number 6

Just because I like a comment or picture is not a show of interest in you.

Take Note Number 7

If your idea of being in slavery, is being 'forced' to sexual satisfy me...exit stage right. You are not a slave, you are a sex toy and of no use to me. My orgasm is none of your business.

http://www.niteflirt.com/Kirashan

 
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http://www.findoms.com/BBBWDominaK/

 
http://www.fetishvideos4u.com/0000797/index.

 
http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/

 
http://twitter.com/DominaSupreme/bbw-femdoms

 
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Kink, Fetish and/or Lifestyle

I am not that type of person….

Some guys just need a reminder…

Quote of the day

http://youtu.be/trsDd75Ti-E

New Blog Entries:

Is being a tease, bad karma?

Another lesson in what does not turn me on.

I love a man that does his homework.

A thought

It is not my kink, accept it!

New Blog Entries:

Moving, AGAIN!

Good Greetings

New Blog Entries:

Put a Pin in This

New Sub

I Just Can’t

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Sometimes…

Sometimes…

New Blog Entries:

Me and Poly: Walking the Fine Line

I am a Dominant but I am a Girl, too.

How ‘NOT’ to get a reply from me…

Sunday, October 6, 2013

My Favorite Service

I so loathe, receiving a general note. If you want to have a personal involvement with me than send me an original and personalized note. 

Profiles are supposed to be general, but not a note. I don't like being treated like I am on a supermarket shelf.

It shows a lack of respect for the person you are contacting. Then the stupid thing is sending the same message to women who are friends. Dumbass, we talk.

If I want to see what your profile says then I will go to your profile to read it, copying and pasting your profile to send me as a note is not a good look. It already shows you are lazy, disrespectful and not worth my special time and attention.

SMH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It will never change. The world of 'no crime in fair trade' will never come back. What a shame. 

I know most are thinking I am talking about money and most of you want something for nothing.

Why should you offering your sexual favor as service be enough? There is not a woman walking or laying - dead or alive that can not get sex. 

I offer an array of opportunities for an s-type to earn what they want. Most do will prove just what type of person they are. SMH.

About to kick a bunch a people off my admirer list. Why call yourself an admirer and not speak?

2013 UNITY MUNCH

Thick Chick Entertainment is BACK! in Philly.

New Blog Entries:

What am I missing?

This is a RANT

Thursday, September 19, 2013

New Blog Entries:

Some of My Fetishes Are…

Just A Thought

The BWA’s

Sometimes Vanilla Subjects Have There Place

So I Don’t Deserve Closure…

New Blog Entries:

• My Sunday
  
  

  Just A Little Note…
  
  

  Me and Poly: The Weight of Being a Hinge
  
  

New Blog Entries:

• Me, Intimacy and the s-type
  
  
• 24/7 VS Live It When I Can
  
  
• My Consideration Period
  
  

New Blog Entry

Dominant Burnout

http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/

There are number of ways to engage in sessions with ME.

By Telephone:

• I have a NiteFlirt Line
  
   with six different lines.

 Come Play in My Sanctuary


Comfort Me with Your WALLET


Domina Kirashan's Room for Foot and Shoe Worship


Domina Kirashan's Secret FemDom Diaries


Have You Worship A BBW's Breasts Today?


Obedience Through Discipline

, my most popular line. I provide strict training through assignments.

By Text:

• I have a Phone profile on ExtraLunchMoney.Com
  
  .

At the moment, text messaging cost .1 credit per text.

In Person:

• Now there is a serious protocol for all newbie and non-newbie alike. If you are interested in a in person session, you must contact me via Niteflirt or ExtraLunchMoney first. If you can not afford that, then you can not afford a session in person. There is one exception, if you come via a referral of a Dominant I know.

Available for sessions in Manhattan today.

I am on the line, what is on your mind?

My lady friends are coming back with some new faces. All those with a fetish for seeing beautiful curves in motion, this will be the show for you. These ladies put on a REAL SHOW. There are ladies from NY, NJ, MD, the ATL and of course

There is street parking as well as paid private parking available in the area. For those out of towners, there are reasonably rated hotel rooms for those that want to stay in Philly overnight. After this show you just might need the recoup time, before hitting the road home.

Some details:
Lap Dances, Wall dances, Girl on Girl Shows, Stage Shows and much more!

Special Performance by Blackstarr.....

Special Guest Trixie Matias and Out da Box Radio

$15 Early Bird Tickets (Aug-Sept)
$20 Advance Tickets
$25 at the Door

$3 Drink Specials

21 and over, ID is a must!
Security will be tight!

Some of the names in Performing:

• AVA MONROE
• LIL MS POUNDCAKE
• HONEY LOVE
• MZ LOLLI CON JOUR
• MARYLAND'S OWN - TSUNAMI (You ain't ready for her)
• SPECIAL GUEST - DIAMOND LUCIANO
• as well as the Lovely Legendary Ladies of TCE like Venus Patrone, China, Pussy Pop and of course Charmin Brown aka TrueBlackGoddess
• AND THE QUEEN-BEE OF THICK CHIC ENTERTAINMENT - BOSS LADY WILL BE IN THE BUILDING.

That is not even half the list...

My lady friends have not come together for TWO YEARS. This reunion is well overdue. I will certainly be in the house, watching these ladies do their thing.

FOR TICKETS GO TO HTTP://WWW.THICKCHICKENTERTAINMENT.COM AND GET YOUR EARLY BIRD TICKETS NOW!

I am on the line, what is on your mind?

Assignment for Consideration

I have decided to list assignment available for s-types that want to be in my service to volunteer to show their worthiness of consideration.

Preparing Laundry for Donation

I have about twenty bags of clothing that needs to be washed and sorted in order for the Salvation Army to pick them up.

Interested s-type will be required to wash, dry and fold under my supervisor. The cost to wash and dry each bag is about twenty dollars. This includes the cost of soap, fabric softener, dryer sheets, washing machine and dryer.

An interested s-type can do the whole assignment or chose one bag. Of course, the more you do the more I will have to judge you on.

None of the laundry includes underwear. Who donates used underwear? Ugh.

For more information, inbox me.

I have decided to amend this assignment a bit, due to some interest.

Even if you are not interested in serving me, but would like to build your reputation has a s-type. Should you complete the assignment properly, I will post a public recommendation based on your execution in my Journal. You will be able to reference it to other D-types you might be interested in serving down the road.

Think you are interested in Domina Kirashan?

New Entry

Me and Poly - Doms and/or Switches?, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/me-and-poly-doms-andor-switches/

Greetings,

I am always thinking of ways for s-types to prove their sincerity to serve ME.

I don't hide that I have a Niteflirt and talksugar listing and I have decided to allow a slave to earn their tribute to ME via a listing on these sites.

I think this will work well for those who want to serve ME from a distance. Also as apart of the consideration process. This has many possibilities to work for MY benefit.

Let's see if any s-types are ready to put their voice where the money is for ME.

Domina Kirashan's Secret FemDom Diaries

While listening to My FemDom Diaries experience on goings in My Sanctuary. Listen to Me speak about my slaves and subs. Enjoy hearing the fantasies of other nameless slaves that wish to worship before Me. Hear testimonies from actually slaves and subs. Experience humiliation and also get assignments for training. On any given day, get a different experience.

New Niteflirt Line

Limit Time Special Tribute

Special for the Foot and Shoe Slaves

'Comprehension is not a prerequisite for Cooperation' - The Matrix Reloaded

This is my realm of Dominance. If you want to make sure our interactions are all about you, then requesting a session is what you want...not to be in a D/s Dynamic with me. 'S-types' need to be clear on what they are looking for and even more clear on what they have to do to get it.

This I don't understand or get anything out of doing service is crazy. A Dynamic with me is not all about physical submission and it certainly is not about you putting me to work to satisfy your needs. 

Maybe I have it wrong. Maybe I should just tell you all put the my on the wood or shut up. To many of you claim to want a Dynamic and to serve and have not the slightest idea what that truly means.

I see so many of you on here complaining about ProDommes and FinDommes. Yet, when given the chance to prove your worthiness via service, you can not do that either.

Yet, just because you want your flesh used in some way that should be enough, NOT IN MY REALM.

In my realm, feeding My Dominance consistently and independent of your desires comes first. Me satisfying your desires is a reward for your service to and for me. 

This telling me how long a consideration process I will give or can give, IS TOPPING FROM THE BOTTOM.

'Comprehension is not a prerequisite for Cooperation' - The Matrix Reloaded

Not Local 'Serve Me' via Niteflirt

These are my most recently ways to tribute me, all tribute buttons come with photos or video clips:

• Housewarming Gift
  
   - I recently moved to a new home, well new to me. Lol

• Financial Domination
  
   - This is my main button. This button pushers you to worshipper via my Niteflirt. With this gift, I take care of my hair. My hair is very very dear to me.

• Shoe Allowance
  
   - What woman does not like buying new shoes.

• New Socks Allowance
  
   - Personal Fetish

• Pedicure & Foot Care Allowance
  
  

• Under Consideration Tribute
  
   - For those unable to physically do consideration request assignments.
• Cucks, you wish you were man enough, 
  
  
• Something for the Nipple Lovers, 
  
  

I am on daily, Domina Kirashan

.

I have been in the Lifestyle formally since 1999. I have wore many labels in the Lifestyle as a Dominant, Sadist, ProDomme and FinDomme to name a few. I am a blogger as well. I label myself a Stone Dominant Sadist.

My ideal slave is a gentleman in the streets and masochistic s-type that is not video shy (I do accept the wearing of hoods) when appropriate. I also prefer REAL TIME SERVITUDE.

Before you approach me, do your homework about me first.

I don't accept stupidity on any level. Slave and stupidity do not go hand and hand. One has nothing to do with the other in My Realm.

I am very stern about my protocols. I also don't give me dominance willy nilly. I will not dominate you just because you are an s-type. You must BELONG TO ME for My Dominance. You must also prove yourself worthy.

Let's deal with this now, NO SLAVE IS ALLOWED TO PENETRATE ME OR PUT THEIR MOUTH ON ME. So if your idea of servitude is oral service, we will not workout. No Harm No Foul.

Take Note Number 1

There will be no interaction where you are allowed to penetrate me or be placed inside of me.

Take Note Number 2

I have pay sites, etc. So no I will not and do not post a host of free pics. Personal pics in my photo album are and will be for friends only. YOU MUST SEND ME A NOTE INTRODUCING YOURSELF D-TYPE or s-type, OTHERWISE YOUR REQUEST WILL BE IGNORED.

Take Note Number 3

My Dominance is no more for sale than my sex. Your tribute to me as your Dominant is part of your service to me. I am not here for you to put me to work for you.

Take Note Number 4

Stupidity (whether pretend or real) has no place in my house of Dominance.

Take Note Number 5

Petition for Consideration is required to be in my service.
The petition acts in the same manner as a cover letter for a résumé. In a petition a submissive will make their plea to the Dominant and may outline why they are seeking to be in service to the Dominant. Generally not used with a relationship that existed prior to the contract, however, for a submissive who is in search of a Dominant, this feature helps to show professionalism and attention to detail. The petition should go into detail of your request, why you wish to be in service, your goals, and why you've chosen this Dominant specifically.

Take Note Number 6

If your idea of being in slavery, is being 'forced' to sexual satisfy me...exit stage right. You are not a slave, you are a sex toy and of no use to me. My orgasm is none of your business.

Take Note Number 7

Take Note Number 8

If there is nothing significant about you in your 'ABOUT ME' section, I will not respond to you. Especially, if you send me a note with nothing about you in it.

Websites 

• http://www.niteflirt.com/Kirashan
  
  
• http://twitter.com/domina.supreme
  
  
• http://www.DOMINASUPREME.C4SLive.com
  
  
• http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sanctumofdominasupreme/
  
  
• http://amzn.com/w/3V7IZW0OMIUKC
  
  
• http://www.findoms.com/BBBWDominaK/
  
  
• http://www.fetishvideos4u.com/0000797/index.
  
  
• http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/
  
  
• http://twitter.com/DominaSupreme/bbw-femdoms
  
  
• http://telly.com/DominaSupreme
  
  
• http://www.zazzle.com/dominakirashan*
  
  

Greetings, 

I took a little break. Now I feel like playing again. I am only interested in masochist. Have masochistic tendencies is not the same thing.

Have a Glorious Day

Okay this was way too funny, I had to share it. - TWO FOR ONE

This was sent to me via another bdsm 'social' site.

From: ____sub
Dated: 1/31/13 12:56 AM
Yes, I went back to read your profile. You must be a gay man-hater. Only a man-hater would require some much to be done to be considered. You think way too much of yourself. OLD FAT BITCH.

Okay, here is his initial note:

From: ____sub
Dated: 1/29/13 10:25 PM
A true Black Queen. There is nothing sexier than a big black woman. your curves are gorgeous. You are so mature, so strong. I love to bow at your feet. What must I do to be considered by your majesty.

Where to start with this lost soul? By the way, he block me...lmao.

________ner 35M
Chester, Pennsylvania
written about 4 hours ago:
____n from Philly subs - hello- you are beautiful, very sensual and sexy -white guy here -into chocolate love only

Ms_Kirashan 40F
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
written about 2 hours ago:
Good Afternoon,

Did you examine my entire profile?

Domina Kirashan

________ner 35M
Chester, Pennsylvania
written about 2 hours ago:
Yes - you are still good looking even if not interested in men - thank you

Ms_Kirashan 40F
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
written about 2 hours ago:
Thank you. My profile does not say I am not interested in men, though. Have a great evening.

Domina Kirashan

________ner 35M
Chester, Pennsylvania
written about 2 hours ago:
Good - because I am awhite male interested in grogeous chocolate women like yourself. It says you are queer ; therefore I assumed. Sorry - I would like to get to know you - please

Ms_Kirashan 40F
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
written about 2 hours ago:
This is why I asked if you read my profile. I have a set protocol those interested in a D/s dynamic with me. I checked out your fetishes, I may not be the Domina for you.

________ner 35M
Chester, Pennsylvania
written about 1 hour ago:
I am loking for a woman to take my ass virginity and to teach me the ways of submissiveness

Ms_Kirashan 40F
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
written 16 minutes ago:
Well, present your submission as requested and we can go from there.

________ner 35M
Chester, Pennsylvania
written 12 minutes ago:
How do I present my submission - should I strip naked and prepare my ass for you

Ms_Kirashan 40F
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
written 6 minutes ago:
The directions are available via my profile, there is a link in my 'About Me' section.

________ner 35M
Chester, Pennsylvania
new message
written 2 minutes ago:
To me, that crap is all bullshit as apparently you are - you would have to look like Serena Williams to have that kind of control over me

Available for sessions.

Turn-off Question:

How can I get to serve you?

Why is that question a turn-off?

It means you did not take the time to READ the load of information I have on my profile, in my journal and my blog on how to present your submission to me. If you can not take the time to education yourself about ME, why should I take the time to consider you?

A foot and shoe slave for my Sanctuary of Service

Another Pit Stop in Pittsburgh

AVANT~GARDES BDSM/FETISH Play Party, "THE SLAVE AUCTION" DATE/LOCATION CHANGE SUN. Jan. 20th NYC

“ "A BDSM/FETISH Play event DEVOID Of The Mainstream"”

"In one way or another I've always suffered. I didn't know why exactly. But I do know that I'm not so scared of suffering now. I feel more than I've ever felt and I've found someone to feel with. To play with. To love in a way that feels right for me. I hope he knows that I can see that he suffers too. And that I want to love him."
-Lee in Secretary (2002)

"I only hurt you because I love the way you scream my name."

"A man who has not passed through the inferno of his passions has not overcome them." - Carl Jung

My kink is better than your kink? Never! It is just our way of doing things. What we all need to remember is my kink and your kink is, in the end, OUR kink and we really need to learn to stand together and respect one another for our individuality as well as our collective identity.
~ miria hunter

"For me, the goal of any of the BDSM activities is to break barriers and boundaries, sending me into a more primal, raw connection...to erase the civilized conventions and attain that connection, space, where there is no skin, no outer layers, but simply raw primal emotion." - Stacey

Subspace is my perfect paradise vacation from busy-mind... blessed be to the Dominant who can stamp my ticket there.
~ Elizabeth

The path to slavery is so narrow that two cannot walk upon it at the same time, hence why the slave must crawl behind. -- Unknown

Anyone know of any bdsm friendly time shares? This means there will be a dungeon room already housed.

Age and Service

Arousal is a miracle... Don't try to hide it. [It is] an unsolicited endorsement, a standing ovation, a spontaneous demonstration -- Playboy

“It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel.”
― Cherise Sinclair, Dark Citadel

“He needed the hand on his shoulder, the kiss to his temple and the hot, ragged breath of his Master over his face.”
― Casey K. Cox

An Unexpected Interruption, Thank You Sir

“It felt like he’d been dragged through the nine circles of hell — by his testicles.”
― Kay Berrisford, Bound for the Forest

My Brother and My Protector

One of the slaves in my service is at the stage where I believe it will be enjoyable to watch it get topped and humiliated by other men. Now, to search for an interested and available few. Must be Philadelphia, PA LOCAL. Does not matter if they are doms, switches or submissives, slaves are welcome as well.

New Blog Entries

Never fails. When I test someones seriousness with a put your money on the wood option, this is always the result. I already knew he was full of shit. I mean who sends random notes like that to people. Then you want someone to take you seriously, lol. I have never even heard of the VIP GFE, lol. Smdh. I hope he finds just what he is looking. I love the silence of my block button.

From:
sensoryflash
Dated:
1/5/13 12:19 AM
i am wondering if would you consider VIP GFE?
GFE is Girl Friend Experience online. Basically, i am looking for real interaction, normal conversation and discourse etc. No lingo or hype. You would be my primary relationship eventhough obviously for you it is just business. Obviously all your time is paid whether it be chat, voice, cam etc as and obviously i pay for emotional benefits received as you my gf that illicit feelings of well being that a gf normally provides implicitly. For example i send you a gift or gifts something i would enjoy and get satisfaction obviously that is captured and paid typically 50-250% cash value of the gift etc.

KiraShan on 1/5/13 at 2:17 AM:
Good Morning,

If you want to seriously explore this, than you will need to call my niteflirt line and we can go from there.

Domina Kirashan

From:
sensoryflash
Dated:
1/5/13 12:31 PM
i'm not calling some whore line to discuss something serious like this. You may have just told me all i need to know.

KiraShan on 1/5/13 at 1:11 PM:
You are not calling because you are not serious. How can you offer to pay someone for their attention then get bent out of shape about calling niteflirt? Lmao, if you had taking the time to even read my profile you would have known not to even waste time sending me that first note.

Maitresse Dominante Philadelphia January Event
“ Yyour Lifemate is not going to knock on your door”

AVANT~GARDES BDSM/FETISH Play Party, "THE SLAVE AUCTION" DATE/LOCATION CHANGE SUN. Jan. 20th NYC

“ "A BDSM/FETISH Play event DEVOID Of The Mainstream"”

Date & Time:
in 16 days
Sunday, January 20, 2013 ·10:00 PM – 4:00 AM
Location:
THE LOFT
WEST 36th STREET bet 5th & 6th Ave's. @ map
Cost: LADIES $10 b4 11pm, Men $20 ... regular entry fee's apply after 11pm
Dress code: Fetish Attire, Elaborate, Neat all Black attire ... TASTEFUL NUDITY is acceptable

Description:
DATE CHANGED TO SUN. JAN. 20TH. THE 21ST. IS ...
A national Holiday DAMIT! I'm sure most of you could come play.

"THE AVANT~GARDE SLAVE AUCTION"

LADIES $10 b4 11 p.m, Men $20 ...

regular entry fee's apply after 11 p.m
18 & over to attend
KinKy Birthday Celebration fOr...

THE LADY FREEDAN
So bring your toy bags, bring the fun personal devices of torture that you enjoy to indulge your FETISH/BDSM play fantasies in.

Only those kinksters Being of high spirits & cheer need apply.
THE SLAVE AUCTION:
~Your Mistress Of Ceremonies & Auctioneer~...

+MS Crimson+

SLAVE AUCTION RULES

+Play station/s bY+...
+GENTLEMAN JOKER+

Will be multi-tasking ... U.V Wand Demo's & more.
+SHERMIE+

Demonstrating the loving warm embrace Of the flame.
"Our Vendor"
TiNY_BlACK_FiST 'T"s
A brief synopsis Of what iT means

The Tiny Black Fist is powerful. Though small, this fist carries a powerful punch, because behind this fist lies the Woman's true Power of Faith, Intelligence, Strength and Truth. For Woman oF "ALL" Race's, there is NO DIVIDE!

For now, for this beginning ...

F- Faith

I- Intelligence

S- Strength 

T-Truth
+"Avant~Garde is an All Inclusive Event"

FREE Unlimited Beverages, all night
FREE Buffet, snacks & healthy energy platters
FREE mixers & ice available at your leisure
"Novice are Welcome"
If you're single or looking for a play partner(s), or a couple looking for a couple/3rd person, come join us. In addition to having a great time, you just may meet your play or life partner.

If you are new to the lifestyle, A.G events are a perfect way to begin, or be introduced to it all, in a friendly personal & non pressured environment.

(respect of/for others no matter their status)

FUN, SAFE, CONSENSUAL PLAY SPACE
NO IMAGES OF FELLOW KINKSTERS AT PLAY (ask first)
NO LOUD MUSIC (There is no DJ booth)
(ambiance/background music is provided to set the mood)
AVANT~GARDE PLAY SPACE RULES
+Dress Code+

My definition of "Elaborate attire" ... Masks, Fetish attire, Scantily clad, Leather, Latex, PVC, Business Suits, Corsets, Goth, Steam Punk/Cyber Punk/Punk, & yes Neat all Black attire are all acceptable.
TASTEFUL NUDITY is always an acceptable option & kink.
(this is not a swingers event, but "some" intimacy during play is fine)

~Mask/s are welcome @ every event~

iT's 1 HUGE KINKY PLAYGROUND!

WE HAVE VARIOUS PLAY STATIONS
ALL BDSM EQUIPMENT is available for general use
"Remove yourself from Mainstream Play"

"BE SANCTIONED!"
fOr more info. or direct contact...

sanctuaryeventsnyc@yahoo.com

I am taking calls.

New Blog Entries in My Sanctuary

Happy New Year A/all

I sorely miss having a local errand boi. I could really use one today. Too many places I need to be at one time. Not to mention, it is cold outside. Sigh, a woman's work is never done.

“ NYC: this Fri Dec 28th-Eyes Wide Shut Masquerade Ball & slave Auction”

Date & Time:
in 2 days
Friday, December 28, 2012 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM
Location:
Paddles
250 W 26th Street, NYC, NY (lower level-far right side door) @ map
Cost: See description
Dress code: Suggested-Sexy, kinky, fetish or all black. This is a holiday party, please look the part

Description:
DSF presents: Eyes Wide Shut Masquerade Ball & slave Auction

Friday, December 28th at Paddles
Time: 9:00 PM - 3:00 AM
Address: 250 West 26th Street, NYC (Bet: 7th/8th Ave)
18+ years old to attend
On street parking + 2 garages on the block.
Event Link: https://.com/events/130604

.........Upon entrance, everyone will be given a Fashionable mask to wear, specifically bought for this party. If you have your own mask, you are welcome to wear it.

Cum satisfy your inner deepest desires of Pain and Pleasure in our constantly improving 4,000+ SF multi-level venue w/nearly 40 play areas. Allow yourself to explore your darkest and inner pleasures to the utmost among kindred spirits.

Our Dungeon Master will be "Father Payne."
.....The party will have sexy mistresses (Mistress Iridal, Mistress Eve, Mistress Lin) and hostesses to assure your experience will be an enjoyable one to the utmost.

The party will also have all the standard yummy trimmings that folks have come to expect from DSF:

A sumptuous hot and cold buffet with delicious pastries, dessert, and snacks. Yum, yum, yum.
The exotic and beautiful Minnie d'Moocha will be doing a sexy burlesque performance at 11 PM.

Her website is: http://www.MinnieDmoocha.com
=========================================
We're not done yet....

The always popular-Arabian play auction-will run from approximately 11:15 PM to 11:35 PM (including inspection of volunteers).
Our play auctions are done in fun, and always translate into excitement. Imagine having a group of people bidding on you, while your heart is beating at record pace from not knowing who will win the bid. Tick tac, tick tac, tick tac...Ah, the unknown is exciting, isn't it?....
These auctions are a great way to meet new people! "The Sheik" along with "Osama Bin Doming" usually auctions off around 10 subs and sometimes dominants as well.

Everyone who attends the party, will receive auction credits to bid on submissives or Doms. (Yes, Doms can enter too).
If you enter the auction (or enter your sub), you'll receive extra auction credits to use for the auction to bid on others. E-mail us at: DomSubFriends@aol.com to find out how the auction works if you never seen one.

=========================================

Price:

DSF/Affiliate members: Males: $30 Females:$20
Non Members Males: $35... Females: $25
DSF parties rule and people always have fun; some even met long term partners. For those who never been to our parties before, the management of DSF always tries to match people up. So, if you're single looking for a play partner(s), or a couple looking for a couple/3rd person, come on down. In addition to having a good time, you just may meet your play or life partner.

DSF parties offer the truest form of SM atmosphere. If you are new to the Ds scene, this is a perfect way to get introduced to it all; in a friendly non pressure situation. In addition to having a great time, you can find playmates and potential partners at all of our parties.

If you are an experienced player, our parties have strict guidelines pertaining to leaving "energy" room for you to enjoy, and most of all, not have your scene(s) interrupted.

As always, DJ DOMinatus will have awesome music (ambiance, electronic Synthpop, techno, gothic, industrial, new age, funky trip hop, and more) for everyone to enjoy.

We are in our 14th year hosting events and parties. Because we are constantly evolving with the times, we bring to you the very best BDSM has to offer.
Please know, that we'll always listen for feedback. So if you have a suggestion or advice to make us better, please tell it to our management team. If it takes drastic changes to enhance your experience with us, we will do our very best to bring these changes to you.

Lastly, if you like our parties, please tell a friend or two.

DSF email: DomSubFriends@aol.com
DSF website: http://DomSubFriends.com
DS: https://.com/groups/2505

“ Celebrating It's service to it's Domina”

Date & Time:
in 29 days
Saturday, January 12, 2013 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM 
Location:
It is a secret
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 
Cost: $15.00 in advance and $20.00 at the door
Dress code: Vanilla/you choice once inside.
Description: 
To make me happy pig will be offering itself for total humiliation by Tops.

It's fetishes include receiving:

Anal Domination; Bisexuality; Black Men; Blow Jobs; Rimming; Bukkake; Chasity Device; Cock Worship; Cross Dressing; Cuckoldry; cum; Enema Play; Degradation; Face Fucking; Gagging/Choked by Cock; Gangbangs; Golden Showers; pegging; Rimming; sexual objectification; Strap-ons; Spitting.

Safe , Sane and Consensual rules always apply. All limits are respected. To pay in advance. www.paypal.com, ms_shanny1@hotmail.com. Any questions domina.supreme@yahoo.com put 'Humiliate Pig' in the subject.

Pig in action and nude

This Monday, December 24, 2012 at 12:00 am will be the end of the Season's Greetings Sale. 

• All call listings are $1.00 a minute;
• All buy now buttons are 50% percent off, price is already reflected;
• All calls over 20 minutes will receive 5 minutes free.

This is the last weekend to enjoy this.

My Sanctuary, Week in Review

Open My Pain


I Do Not CARE, This is My Realm You Want to Enter…


To Be Considered For My Realm


One of my New Fetishes


Tuesday, December 18, 2012


This is why I am NOT a fan of labels…


Why Do You Have Sex?


You ‘Saw’ But Did Not ‘Read’

I am still accepting submissions to appear during the Winter/Spring Blog Tour Calendar

Open My Pain

Why compliment me on how strict I look then ask me to be lenient with your laziness?

To Be Considered For My Realm

New Blog Entries in My Sanctuary

This Monday, December 24, 2012 at 12:00 am will be the end of the Season's Greetings Sale. 

• All call listings are $1.00 a minute;
• All buy now buttons are 50% percent off, price is already reflected;
• All calls over 20 minutes will receive 5 minutes free.

This is the last weekend to enjoy this.

I really don't get the point of asking me if I will consider you, when all those things are posted on my profile. I post the things on my profile because I am not interested in pointless imaginary conversation. I see the rise of the block button is coming again.

One of my New Fetishes

“ Celebrating It's service to it's Domina”

Date & Time:
in 29 days
Saturday, January 12, 2013 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM 
Location:
It is a secret
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 
Cost: $15.00 in advance and $20.00 at the door
Dress code: Vanilla/you choice once inside.
Description: 
To make me happy pig will be offering itself for total humiliation by Tops.

It's fetishes include receiving:

Anal Domination; Bisexuality; Black Men; Blow Jobs; Rimming; Bukkake; Chasity Device; Cock Worship; Cross Dressing; Cuckoldry; cum; Enema Play; Degradation; Face Fucking; Gagging/Choked by Cock; Gangbangs; Golden Showers; pegging; Rimming; sexual objectification; Strap-ons; Spitting.

Safe , Sane and Consensual rules always apply. All limits are respected. To pay in advance. www.paypal.com, ms_shanny1@hotmail.com. Any questions domina.supreme@yahoo.com put 'Humiliate Pig' in the subject.

Pig in action and nude

 Call Domina Supreme Kirashan for phone sex on Niteflirt.com and get 5 free minute offer after every 20 minute call.

It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure.
~ Marquis de Sade

“ Celebrating It's service to it's Domina”

Date & Time:
in 29 days
Saturday, January 12, 2013 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM 
Location:
It is a secret
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 
Cost: $15.00 in advance and $20.00 at the door
Dress code: Vanilla/you choice once inside.
Description: 
To make me happy pig will be offering itself for total humiliation by Tops.

It's fetishes include receiving:

Anal Domination; Bisexuality; Black Men; Blow Jobs; Rimming; Bukkake; Chasity Device; Cock Worship; Cross Dressing; Cuckoldry; cum; Enema Play; Degradation; Face Fucking; Gagging/Choked by Cock; Gangbangs; Golden Showers; pegging; Rimming; sexual objectification; Strap-ons; Spitting.

Safe , Sane and Consensual rules always apply. All limits are respected. To pay in advance. www.paypal.com, ms_shanny1@hotmail.com. Any questions domina.supreme@yahoo.com put 'Humiliate Pig' in the subject.

Pig in action and nude

New Blog Entries in My Sanctuary

 Call Domina Supreme Kirashan for phone sex on Niteflirt.com and get 5 free minute offer after every 20 minute call.

I love how my profile is set up. I can always tell who has READ it as opposed to just LOOKED at it. 

A masochist under my consideration sent this

to me. Although the reason for this is unacceptable, the actual action did arouse my Sadist.

 Call Domina Supreme Kirashan for phone sex on Niteflirt.com and get 5 free minute offer after every 20 minute call.

“ Celebrating It's service to it's Domina”

Date & Time:
in 29 days
Saturday, January 12, 2013 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM 
Location:
It is a secret
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 
Cost: $15.00 in advance and $20.00 at the door
Dress code: Vanilla/you choice once inside.
Description: 
To make me happy pig will be offering itself for total humiliation by Tops.

It's fetishes include receiving:

Anal Domination; Bisexuality; Black Men; Blow Jobs; Rimming; Bukkake; Chasity Device; Cock Worship; Cross Dressing; Cuckoldry; cum; Enema Play; Degradation; Face Fucking; Gagging/Choked by Cock; Gangbangs; Golden Showers; pegging; Rimming; sexual objectification; Strap-ons; Spitting.

Safe , Sane and Consensual rules always apply. All limits are respected. To pay in advance. www.paypal.com, ms_shanny1@hotmail.com. Any questions domina.supreme@yahoo.com put 'Humiliate Pig' in the subject.

Pig in action and nude

Why Do You Have Sex?

New Blog Entries in My Sanctuary

I am not available for your free thrill. You WILL one way or the other serve before play in My Realm. If you don't have time to READ verses LOOK, then we have ABSOLUTELY nothing to discuss. 

Join my twitter group, BBW Femdoms

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“ Celebrating It's service to it's Domina”

Date & Time:
in 29 days
Saturday, January 12, 2013 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM 
Location:
It is a secret
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 
Cost: $15.00 in advance and $20.00 at the door
Dress code: Vanilla/you choice once inside.
Description: 
To make me happy pig will be offering itself for total humiliation by Tops.

It's fetishes include receiving:

Anal Domination; Bisexuality; Black Men; Blow Jobs; Rimming; Bukkake; Chasity Device; Cock Worship; Cross Dressing; Cuckoldry; cum; Enema Play; Degradation; Face Fucking; Gagging/Choked by Cock; Gangbangs; Golden Showers; pegging; Rimming; sexual objectification; Strap-ons; Spitting.
Safe , Sane and Consensual rules always apply. All limits are respected. To pay in advance. www.paypal.com, ms_shanny1@hotmail.com. Any questions domina.supreme@yahoo.com put 'Humiliate Pig' in the subject.

Pig in action and nude

 Call Domina Supreme Kirashan for phone sex on Niteflirt.com and get 5 free minute offer after every 20 minute call.

“ Celebrating It's service to it's Domina”

Date & Time:
in 29 days
Saturday, January 12, 2013 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM
Location:
It is a secret
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania @ map
Cost: $15.00 in advance and $20.00 at the door
Dress code: Vanilla/you choice once inside.
Description:
To make me happy pig will be offering itself for total humiliation by Tops.

It's fetishes include receiving:

Anal Domination; Bisexuality; Black Men; Blow Jobs; Rimming; Bukkake; Chasity Device; Cock Worship; Cross Dressing; Cuckoldry; cum; Enema Play; Degradation; Face Fucking; Gagging/Choked by Cock; Gangbangs; Golden Showers; pegging; Rimming; sexual objectification; Strap-ons; Spitting.
Safe , Sane and Consensual rules always apply. All limits are respected. To pay in advance. www.paypal.com, ms_shanny1@hotmail.com. Any questions domina.supreme@yahoo.com put 'Humiliate Pig' in the subject.

http://telly.com/767SP

http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/76542/details.htm

 Call Domina Supreme Kirashan for phone sex on Niteflirt.com and get 5 free minute offer after every 20 minute call.

My Sanctuary Blog The Week in Review

• Disappearing Acts, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/disappearing-acts/
• Friday, December 7, 2012, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/friday-december-7-2012-2/
• Last Night, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/last-night/
• The Sadist is in love..., http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/the-sadist-is-in-love/
• Monday, December 10, 2012, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/monday-december-10-2012/
• 'Taking Care of Daddy While I Am Gone',  http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/taking-care-of…hile-i-am-gone/
• Blog Tour Guest Calendar, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/blog-tour-guest-calendar/
• Wednesday, December 12, 2012, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/wednesday-december-12-2012-3/
• Burning Man 2013, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/burning-man-2013/
• Under My Consideration, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/under-my-consideration/
• Sometimes My Ego Is A Mess, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/some-times-my-ego-is-a-mess/
• Run Along Silly Chile And Play with Your Little Toys,  http://wp.me/p2XvSU-1N
• Nothing Beats Intimacy, http://dominakirashan.kinky-blogging.com/nothing-beats-intimacy

New Blog Entries in My Sanctuary

 Call Domina Supreme Kirashan for phone sex on Niteflirt.com and get 5 free minute offer after every 20 minute call.

Is it selfish that I just want him to stand there naked, bound and blindfolded while I please myself and then send him home when I am done with myself?

Do you have a virtual tour?

New Blog Entries

I am taking calls

New Blog Entry

Feature in Sanctuary of Pleasure through Pain

Rules:

• 1. All entries must be made by contestants who will be (21) Twenty-one years old by January 1, 2013;

• 2. All contestants must live in MY tri-state area or be able to visit once a month;

• 3. All entries must be originals, created by the contestant;

• 4. One entry per s-type;

• 5. No bestiality or pedophilia;

• 6. All entries are to posted via inbox;

• 7. You will need to sign a model release form;

• 8. By sending an entry you pledge that this is your original work and it's full use is released to ME.

You will need to copy and paste the questionnaire to answer it properly.

Place a check next to each box which you can relate to the most. If confused, go to the next one, and come back when finished with the rest. Answer each question honestly.

Where it says "Yes/No" = means whether you've experienced that type of activity before. Put "Y" for yes or "N" for no.

Rating scale for checklist:

0 = Don't ever ask me to do this.

1 = I don't want to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of me.

2 = I'm willing to do this activity, but it has no real appeal for me.

3 = I usually like doing this activity, at least on an occasional basis.

4 = I love doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 = I love this activity it makes me "hot", and would like it as often as possible.

Note 1. Some of these may fall under a few categories (example: Blindfolds can be Humiliation & mental bondage)

Note 2. Some of these could be used for health reasons too (example forced exercising)

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Belts

__ [ ] Bruises

__ [ ] Cane (leather)

__ [ ] Cane (plastic)

__ [ ] Flogger (braided)

__ [ ] Flogger (no knots)

__ [ ] Crop

__ [ ] Leather Paddle

__ [ ] Paddle

__ [ ] Spanking

__ [ ] Whip

__ [ ] Wooden Hair Brush

__ [ ] Wooden Paddle

ROLE PLAY

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Act as objects (cars, furniture, etc)

__ [ ] Arrested

__ [ ] Baby

__ [ ] Burglar Attack

__ [ ] Call Girl/Gigolo

__ [ ] Cowgirl/Cowboy

__ [ ] Interrogation Scene

__ [ ] Kidnap Scene

__ [ ] Little girl/little boy

__ [ ] Maid/Butler

__ [ ] Medical Scene

__ [ ] Nun/Priest

__ [ ] Pet Roles

__ [ ] Pony Girl/Pony Boy

__ [ ] Secretary (M OR F)

__ [ ] Student

__ [ ] Teenager

__ [ ] Torture Victim

HUMILIATION

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Act as objects (furniture, etc)

__ [ ] Bathroom use control

__ [ ] Bathroom use in front of others

__ [ ] Blindfolds

__ [ ] Boot worship

__ [ ] Chauffeuring

__ [ ] Crawl on 4's

__ [ ] Cross Dressing

__ [ ] Curse words (Whore, Slut, etc.)

__ [ ] Curtsy in public

__ [ ] Dominant chooses food

__ [ ] Dominant chooses cloths

__ [ ] Enema

__ [ ] Eye contact restrictions

__ [ ] Foot worship

__ [ ] Forced Cross dressing

__ [ ] Forced dressing

__ [ ] Forced exercising

__ [ ] Forced nudity

__ [ ] Forced masturbation

__ [ ] Forced prostitution (pretend)

__ [ ] Forced slave auction

__ [ ] Forced to wear a leash

__ [ ] Forced to wear see thru clothes

__ [ ] Golden shower

__ [ ] Harem--serving w/other(s)

__ [ ] Hood

__ [ ] Kneeling

__ [ ] Maid/Butler services

__ [ ] Mask

__ [ ] Pet roles (act like a dog, cat, etc)

__ [ ] Scat Play

__ [ ] Scolding

__ [ ] Spitting in face

__ [ ] Serve as ashtray

__ [ ] Serve as toilet

__ [ ] Serve as waitress

__ [ ] Serve others (supervised)

__ [ ] Serve others (unsupervised)

__ [ ] Shave head

__ [ ] Shave body hair

__ [ ] Shave pubic hair

__ [ ] Slap face

__ [ ] Spanking (public)

__ [ ] Speech restriction

__ [ ] Stand in corner

__ [ ] Suck pacifier

__ [ ] Swallow urine

__ [ ] Take Pictures

__ [ ] Take Video

__ [ ] Verbal Abuse

__ [ ] Wear Collar everywhere

__ [ ] Wear Diapers

__ [ ] Write on Body (slut, sissy, worthless, etc.)

BONDAGE

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Arm Sleeves

__ [ ] Blindfolds

__ [ ] Breasts

__ [ ] Gag

__ [ ] Cage

__ [ ] Chain

__ [ ] Chastity Belts

__ [ ] Genital

__ [ ] Harness

__ [ ] Hoods

__ [ ] Immobilization (short time)

__ [ ] Immobilization (long time)

__ [ ] Inside a closet

__ [ ] Inside a coffin

__ [ ] Katherine wheel

__ [ ] Leather cuffs

__ [ ] Leather restraints

__ [ ] Leg Sleeves

__ [ ] Mask

__ [ ] Mind

__ [ ] Mortuary bag

__ [ ] Mouth bits

__ [ ] Nipple Clamps

__ [ ] Rack

__ [ ] Rope

__ [ ] Saran wrapping

__ [ ] Scarves

__ [ ] Shackles

__ [ ] Sleeping bag

__ [ ] Sling

__ [ ] Spread bar

__ [ ] Steel cuffs

__ [ ] Steel restraints

__ [ ] Stock

__ [ ] Straight jacket

__ [ ] Suspension (regular)

__ [ ] Suspension (up-side down)

__ [ ] Suspension (horizontal)

__ [ ] Tied to a cross

__ [ ] Wrestling

EDGE/MIND PLAY

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Abrasion

__ [ ] Asphyxia

__ [ ] Branding

__ [ ] CBT

__ [ ] Choking

__ [ ] Cloth Pins

__ [ ] Cutting

__ [ ] Electric (violet wand)

__ [ ] Electric (muscle stimulant unit)

__ [ ] Face slapping

__ [ ] Flesh Hooks

__ [ ] Genital (weights)

__ [ ] Genital (cloth pins)

__ [ ] Genital (pins/needles)

__ [ ] Genital (rope)

__ [ ] Genital (vise)

__ [ ] Genital whipping

__ [ ] Hair Pulling

__ [ ] Hot wax

__ [ ] Ice

__ [ ] Fire and Ice (same time)

__ [ ] Knife play

__ [ ] Medical scenes

__ [ ] Needles

__ [ ] Piercing

__ [ ] Pinching

__ [ ] Slap Face

__ [ ] Sleep deprivation

__ [ ] Cell Popping

__ [ ] TENS units

__ [ ] Tickling

__ [ ] Nipple (weights)

__ [ ] Nipple (cloth pins)

__ [ ] Nipple (pins/needles)

__ [ ] Nipple (rope)

__ [ ] Nipple (vise)

__ [ ] Torture rack

__ [ ] Water torture

FETISH WEAR

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Corsets

__ [ ] French maid

__ [ ] Child/Baby

__ [ ] High Heels

__ [ ] Leather

__ [ ] Lingerie

__ [ ] PVC

__ [ ] Rubber

__ [ ] Slutty

__ [ ] Spandex

__ [ ] Uniforms

__ [ ] Victorian

SEXUAL D/S

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Anal

__ [ ] Anal beads

__ [ ] Anal plugs (small)

__ [ ] Anal plugs (large)

__ [ ] Anal fisting

__ [ ] Anal (vibrator/dildo)

__ [ ] Ben-wa balls

__ [ ] Bi-sexuality

__ [ ] Chastity Belt

__ [ ] Cock Worship

__ [ ] Forced bi-sexuality

__ [ ] Hand jobs (giving)

__ [ ] Masturbation

__ [ ] Same-Sex Orgy (more then 3)

__ [ ] Oral sex (giving)

__ [ ] Orgasm Control

__ [ ] Orgasm Denial

__ [ ] Phone sex (voluntary)

__ [ ] Phone sex (forced to have it with others)

__ [ ] Sexual denial (short term)

__ [ ] Sexual denial (long term)

__ [ ] Sexual Double Penetration

__ [ ] Swallow semen

__ [ ] Swapping

__ [ ] Voyeurism (watching Domina play w/others)

__ [ ] Voyeurism (watching other play)

WRITTEN INFORMATION:

• Write down any other role play activities not mentioned above, which you may be interested to try:

• At this stage, what do you feel are your absolute limits:

• Do you have any medical conditions and emotional concerns that I should know about? (if yes explain below) :

• Why and when did you get into the scene:

• What do you seek from your Dominant:

• What do you offer as a submissive (emotionally and spiritually)

Your Entry:

To write and submit a story based on one of the following subjects:

• Our First Date;
• Courting Me;
• Why I Am the Perfect Sub/Slave for Domina Supreme Kirashan

Be mindful of grammar and spelling, it will be counted.

Your service as MY video slave will serve as your tribute to ME.

“ Yyour Lifemate is not going to knock on your door”

Date & Time:
in about 1 month
Saturday, January 26, 2013 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM
Location:
Mistress BlaqVelvet's Meeting Place
RSVP ONLY @ map
Cost: $20 in advance, $25 at the door
Dress code: Female Tops, whatever you like. subs , female subs, nice pretty undies.male subs, briefs or thongs (no white)or sissy attire.
Description:
These events are for the sole purpose of Female Tops and bottoms to find each other as well as to get to know each other better. Bottoms even though you pay to get in you must serve the Ladies food and beverages as well as bring a botlle of Cognac or Dry Wine for the Ladies. you get to partakle of all home cooked food and beverages . Also you must be assesible to the Ladies needs. Such as a foot rubs or a spanking or wax play . Safe , Sane and Consensual rules always apply. All limits are respected. As always half the proceeds go to Lupus ( Mistress Oriette). To pay in advance. www.paypal.com / blaqvelvet@comcast.net . If you want to just donate to Lupus let me know. Any questions BlaqVelvet54@comcast.net put FemDom in the caption

The Sanctuary of Domina Supreme Kirashan

http://www.fetishvideos4u.com/0000797/index.

In celebration of my new store and upcoming new clips, all clips are $ 3.99 or less. This is a Limited-Time Introductory Price.

Still accepting petitions for consideration for video slaves. Your service as a video slaves covers your tribute to me.

Lmao, I really appreciate the inboxes about my desire for a special rag doll this year, but I need to clarify some things:

1. I mean an actual doll, not a person;
2. I am not into incest play;
3. No, I will not be engaging in sexual or D/s play with the doll;
4. No, I will not use the doll in sexual or D/s play and sale it to you or someone else.

Some the inquires I received were very disturbing, in response to something I thought was an innocent post. I was attempting to give a general answer to some individual responses, lol. I did not think answering what do I want for the Holidays would turn into this, lol.

Side note, last Saturday I had a chance to strength my Spanko arms...I think I might want to do that again this week or weekend. Hmmmmmmm.

My Special December Wish

What I want most of all is a Home Made Rag Doll. I love rag dolls and teddy bears. I had a sub give me a very sweet one, he brought in a thrift store we went to some years ago. I still have it. I am going to post a picture, later. I have to unpack it.

Had an extraordinary time with some fellow Femdoms Saturday night. Had a chance to strength out my spanking hands and arms. Looking for forward to hanging out with the ladies and those select s-types.

Another two subs bite the dust and fail consideration. Even release a sub this week. Wow.

Dec 1, 2012 @ 3 am est calls will be 1.00 a min, all 20 min calls receive free min offer towards next call. 1-800-863-5478 ext: 9526663

Looking for My New Video Slave

Feature in Sanctuary of Pleasure through Pain

Rules:

• 1. All entries must be made by contestants who will be (21) Twenty-one years old by January 1, 2013;

• 2. All contestants must live in MY tri-state area or be able to visit once a month;

• 3. All entries must be originals, created by the contestant;

• 4. One entry per s-type;

• 5. No bestiality or pedophilia;

• 6. All entries are to posted via inbox;

• 7. You will need to sign a model release form;

• 8. By sending an entry you pledge that this is your original work and it's full use is released to ME.
• 9. Showing your face is not mandatory, my viewers are more interested in seeing my face than yours anyway.

You will need to copy and paste the questionnaire to answer it properly.

Place a check next to each box which you can relate to the most. If confused, go to the next one, and come back when finished with the rest. Answer each question honestly.

Where it says "Yes/No" = means whether you've experienced that type of activity before. Put "Y" for yes or "N" for no.

Rating scale for checklist:

0 = Don't ever ask me to do this.

1 = I don't want to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of me.

2 = I'm willing to do this activity, but it has no real appeal for me.

3 = I usually like doing this activity, at least on an occasional basis.

4 = I love doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 = I love this activity it makes me "hot", and would like it as often as possible.

Note 1. Some of these may fall under a few categories (example: Blindfolds can be Humiliation & mental bondage)

Note 2. Some of these could be used for health reasons too (example forced exercising)

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Belts

__ [ ] Bruises

__ [ ] Cane (leather)

__ [ ] Cane (plastic)

__ [ ] Flogger (braided)

__ [ ] Flogger (no knots)

__ [ ] Crop

__ [ ] Leather Paddle

__ [ ] Paddle

__ [ ] Spanking

__ [ ] Whip

__ [ ] Wooden Hair Brush

__ [ ] Wooden Paddle

ROLE PLAY

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Act as objects (cars, furniture, etc)

__ [ ] Arrested

__ [ ] Baby

__ [ ] Burglar Attack

__ [ ] Call Girl/Gigolo

__ [ ] Cowgirl/Cowboy

__ [ ] Interrogation Scene

__ [ ] Kidnap Scene

__ [ ] Little girl/little boy

__ [ ] Maid/Butler

__ [ ] Medical Scene

__ [ ] Nun/Priest

__ [ ] Pet Roles

__ [ ] Pony Girl/Pony Boy

__ [ ] Secretary (M OR F)

__ [ ] Student

__ [ ] Teenager

__ [ ] Torture Victim

HUMILIATION

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Act as objects (furniture, etc)

__ [ ] Bathroom use control

__ [ ] Bathroom use in front of others

__ [ ] Blindfolds

__ [ ] Boot worship

__ [ ] Chauffeuring

__ [ ] Crawl on 4's

__ [ ] Cross Dressing

__ [ ] Curse words (Whore, Slut, etc.)

__ [ ] Curtsy in public

__ [ ] Dominant chooses food

__ [ ] Dominant chooses cloths

__ [ ] Enema

__ [ ] Eye contact restrictions

__ [ ] Foot worship

__ [ ] Forced Cross dressing

__ [ ] Forced dressing

__ [ ] Forced exercising

__ [ ] Forced nudity

__ [ ] Forced masturbation

__ [ ] Forced prostitution (pretend)

__ [ ] Forced slave auction

__ [ ] Forced to wear a leash

__ [ ] Forced to wear see thru clothes

__ [ ] Golden shower

__ [ ] Harem--serving w/other(s)

__ [ ] Hood

__ [ ] Kneeling

__ [ ] Maid/Butler services

__ [ ] Mask

__ [ ] Pet roles (act like a dog, cat, etc)

__ [ ] Scat Play

__ [ ] Scolding

__ [ ] Spitting in face

__ [ ] Serve as ashtray

__ [ ] Serve as toilet

__ [ ] Serve as waitress

__ [ ] Serve others (supervised)

__ [ ] Serve others (unsupervised)

__ [ ] Shave head

__ [ ] Shave body hair

__ [ ] Shave pubic hair

__ [ ] Slap face

__ [ ] Spanking (public)

__ [ ] Speech restriction

__ [ ] Stand in corner

__ [ ] Suck pacifier

__ [ ] Swallow urine

__ [ ] Take Pictures

__ [ ] Take Video

__ [ ] Verbal Abuse

__ [ ] Wear Collar everywhere

__ [ ] Wear Diapers

__ [ ] Write on Body (slut, sissy, worthless, etc.)

BONDAGE

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Arm Sleeves

__ [ ] Blindfolds

__ [ ] Breasts

__ [ ] Gag

__ [ ] Cage

__ [ ] Chain

__ [ ] Chastity Belts

__ [ ] Genital

__ [ ] Harness

__ [ ] Hoods

__ [ ] Immobilization (short time)

__ [ ] Immobilization (long time)

__ [ ] Inside a closet

__ [ ] Inside a coffin

__ [ ] Katherine wheel

__ [ ] Leather cuffs

__ [ ] Leather restraints

__ [ ] Leg Sleeves

__ [ ] Mask

__ [ ] Mind

__ [ ] Mortuary bag

__ [ ] Mouth bits

__ [ ] Nipple Clamps

__ [ ] Rack

__ [ ] Rope

__ [ ] Saran wrapping

__ [ ] Scarves

__ [ ] Shackles

__ [ ] Sleeping bag

__ [ ] Sling

__ [ ] Spread bar

__ [ ] Steel cuffs

__ [ ] Steel restraints

__ [ ] Stock

__ [ ] Straight jacket

__ [ ] Suspension (regular)

__ [ ] Suspension (up-side down)

__ [ ] Suspension (horizontal)

__ [ ] Tied to a cross

__ [ ] Wrestling

EDGE/MIND PLAY

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Abrasion

__ [ ] Asphyxia

__ [ ] Branding

__ [ ] CBT

__ [ ] Choking

__ [ ] Cloth Pins

__ [ ] Cutting

__ [ ] Electric (violet wand)

__ [ ] Electric (muscle stimulant unit)

__ [ ] Face slapping

__ [ ] Flesh Hooks

__ [ ] Genital (weights)

__ [ ] Genital (cloth pins)

__ [ ] Genital (pins/needles)

__ [ ] Genital (rope)

__ [ ] Genital (vise)

__ [ ] Genital whipping

__ [ ] Hair Pulling

__ [ ] Hot wax

__ [ ] Ice

__ [ ] Fire and Ice (same time)

__ [ ] Knife play

__ [ ] Medical scenes

__ [ ] Needles

__ [ ] Piercing

__ [ ] Pinching

__ [ ] Slap Face

__ [ ] Sleep deprivation

__ [ ] Cell Popping

__ [ ] TENS units

__ [ ] Tickling

__ [ ] Nipple (weights)

__ [ ] Nipple (cloth pins)

__ [ ] Nipple (pins/needles)

__ [ ] Nipple (rope)

__ [ ] Nipple (vise)

__ [ ] Torture rack

__ [ ] Water torture

FETISH WEAR

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Corsets

__ [ ] French maid

__ [ ] Child/Baby

__ [ ] High Heels

__ [ ] Leather

__ [ ] Lingerie

__ [ ] PVC

__ [ ] Rubber

__ [ ] Slutty

__ [ ] Spandex

__ [ ] Uniforms

__ [ ] Victorian

SEXUAL D/S

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Anal

__ [ ] Anal beads

__ [ ] Anal plugs (small)

__ [ ] Anal plugs (large)

__ [ ] Anal fisting

__ [ ] Anal (vibrator/dildo)

__ [ ] Ben-wa balls

__ [ ] Bi-sexuality

__ [ ] Chastity Belt

__ [ ] Cock Worship

__ [ ] Forced bi-sexuality

__ [ ] Hand jobs (giving)

__ [ ] Masturbation

__ [ ] Same-Sex Orgy (more then 3)

__ [ ] Oral sex (giving)

__ [ ] Orgasm Control

__ [ ] Orgasm Denial

__ [ ] Phone sex (voluntary)

__ [ ] Phone sex (forced to have it with others)

__ [ ] Sexual denial (short term)

__ [ ] Sexual denial (long term)

__ [ ] Sexual Double Penetration

__ [ ] Swallow semen

__ [ ] Swapping

__ [ ] Voyeurism (watching Domina play w/others)

__ [ ] Voyeurism (watching other play)

WRITTEN INFORMATION:

• Write down any other role play activities not mentioned above, which you may be interested to try:

• At this stage, what do you feel are your absolute limits:

• Do you have any medical conditions and emotional concerns that I should know about? (if yes explain below) :

• Why and when did you get into the scene:

• What do you seek from your Dominant:

• What do you offer as a submissive (emotionally and spiritually)

Your Entry:

To write and submit a story based on one of the following subjects:

• Our First Date;
• Courting Me;
• Why I Am the Perfect Sub/Slave for Domina Supreme Kirashan

Be mindful of grammar and spelling, it will be counted.

Your service as MY video slave will serve as your tribute to ME.

Cyber-Monday 50% of Sale - Starts Early

All of my Buy Now Button Items are 50% off, sale price is already posted on items. Free minute offers with every completed purchase.

In preparation of the arrival of my new clips, I am running a membership sale to my site

. All memberships are 12.95 a month. This reduced membership will run through December 31, 2012. Starting January, I will be posting new clips of me with those who serve me and a new look. I will be have a greater variety of subject matter. 24 clips for a little more than 1.00 each, some of these clips individually are more than 12.95.

Going to be in NY Friday

AVANT~GARDES "4th ANNUAL RIGGER-THON" NEW LOCATION! Fri. Nov. 30th NYC

"WE are DEVOID Of the MAINSTREAM"

Date & Time:
Friday, November 30, 2012 ·10:00 PM – 5:00 AM 
Location:
Sanctuary Loft
TBA with your confirmed "attending" rsvp 
Cost: LADIES $10 b4 11pm, Men $20 ... regular entry fee's apply after 11pm
Dress code: Fetish Attire, Elaborate, Neat all Black attire ... TASTEFUL NUDITY is acceptable

Description: 
Presenting our New Location...

"THE SANCTUARY LOFT"

The Sanctuary Loft. In the Financial District just 2 Blocks from Fulton Street Station fOr MTA users. Just a few Blocks from the Holland Tunnel fOr our Jersey Friends =^].

(FREE PARKING AVAILABLE!)
INTIMATE ...
COZY
DISCREET
THIS MULTI LEVEL SPACE HAS 2 FULL BATHROOMS. 2 BEVERAGE STATIONS, LARGE COAT CHECK AREA & AN OPEN AIR ROOF DECK

LADIES $10 b4 11pm, Men $20 ...

regular entry fee's apply after 11pm

This is the 4th Annual

"Rigger~Thon"...
A Riggers PeRv-TASIM, A Voyeuristic Pleasure sQuiRt 4U!
Of course their will be BDSM & FETISH Play as well

IMAGES WILL BE TAKEN OF "SELECT" RIGGERS WORK IF THEY ALLOW
Photographs by: Aeric Goujon

::ROPE/RIGGING DISPLAYS bY::
+Marcus likes it+

+EL Ramon+

+Blue Risk+

+MIKE WEST+
+& LXS+
SHOWING SOME SAN FRANCISCO ROPE RIGGING

____________________________________________________________________________________ We give you a night of Rigging & UNINHIBITED play, a night that Suspension and Bondage Riggers create & express their artistry in rigging. A kinky presentation of rope displays/weaving, creative rigging of canvas' and originality. Shibari/Predicament bondage is a plus! Prepare for a night of FUN, BDSM/FETISH KINK ...

RIGGER THON is BOUND in DECADENCE!
So bring your rope, toy bags, rope bottom or canvas', your fun personal devices of torture that you enjoy to indulge your play fantasies in. Your being in high spirits is a must. =^]

+"Avant~Garde is an All Inclusive Event"

FREE Unlimited Beverages, all night
FREE Buffet, snacks & healthy energy platters
FREE mixers, ice & corking available at your leisure if you BYOB
"Novice are Welcome"
If you're single or looking for a play partner(s), or a couple looking for a couple/3rd person, come join us. In addition to having a great time, you just may meet your play or life partner.

If you are new to the lifestyle, A.G events are a perfect way to begin, or be introduced to it all, in a friendly personal & non pressured environment.
(protocol and respect of, & for others no matter what their status)

FUN, SAFE, CONSENSUAL PLAY SPACE
NO IMAGES OF FELLOW KINKSTERS AT PLAY
NO LOUD MUSIC
NO OVER CROWDING
NO DANCE FLOOR
(ambiance, or background music is provided to set the mood)
+Dress Code

My definition of "Elaborate attire" ... Masks, Fetish attire, Scantily clad, Leather, Latex, PVC, Business Suits, Corsets, Goth, Steam Punk/Cyber Punk/Punk, & yes Neat all Black attire are all acceptable.
TASTEFUL NUDITY is always an acceptable option & kink.
(this is not a swingers event, but "some" intimacy during play is fine)
~Mask/s are welcome every event~

AVANT~GARDE PLAY SPACE RULES

WE HAVE VARIOUS PLAY STATIONS/ROOMS
Electro play station bY : ManyOoHs4U

ALL BDSM EQUIPMENT is available for general use
You may rsvp to this event by following the link provided
https://.com/events/135614

"remove yourself from mainstream play"

"BE SANCTIONED"
fOr more info. or direct contact...

sanctuaryeventsnyc@yahoo.com

Run Along Silly Chile And Play with Your Little Toys.

I recently had a conversation with someone swearing their life that they wanted to serve me. I gave him some options to formally presenting himself and apparently to hard for him to accomplish:

1. Write a Petition for Service;
1. He said he never heard of such and never had to do one before. Now mind you, he told me how he had studied my entire profile. Silly chile, the guidelines are on my profile that you claim to have studied, lol. 
2. 'I am not good at typing, is there something else I can do? Can I just call you?;
1. Also on my profile is my niteflirt line. Why in the hell would I give someone my personal number that has not earned it, Silly puhlease. I told him he could call there and I would go through the questionnaire that way. (Mind you, I am becoming greatly annoyed.)
3. Why do we have to do the questionnaire? Why can't we just talk on your regular phone?;
1. Because I said so. I am not submitting to you, you are submitting to me, Silly chile.
4. Can you host, I can not?;
1. I have a special place set aside, but those interested in service via that sanctuary must contribute to the cost.
5. Are you a ProDomme?;
1. (Officially annoyed) Why? Everything with you cost money. Silly chile, it is clear your submission is not good enough to earn my dominance. BLOCK BUTTON ENGAGED.

Now, I think I was quite fair. When he had the opportunity to just write his petition that was to much. 

As far as My Sanctuary, this is not the Good Will or Salvation Army. Rent and utilities cost money and why should I take away from what I earn for my family to help provide a place for you to live out your secret fantasy. If you can not afford your vice, find a free one. NO CRIME IN FAIR TRADE, RULES HERE.

Yes, the others that serve me and have served me, actually followed the protocol.

For those that are unsure about the difference in play and service:

• spanking > play;
• yard work > service;

Service is not about your pleasure, it is solely about mine. Sex is not service. It is a gift. That I offer to extremely few. My flower is special to me and not for everyone. So, if you are looking for a Dominant that you can penetrate in any way, I am not the Dominant for you. Also offering your oral sex skills means nothing to me. I dictate what the service is I will accept, period.

Sad thing is, all this information I provide so people don't waste their time or mine and they will not even read. So sad.

This is from a Co-Dom Profile I am a part of elsewhere:

The Daddy and The Sadist - 11-21-12 - Now you are an asshole.

Because of policy, WE can not reveal this person's id.

23M
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
written 20 minutes ago:

hello Ma'am I'm '?' I'm 23 y/o half Italian half Lebanese, i find your profile interesting and i would like to be a part of your life as your sub, hope you'll be interested

DaddynTheSadist 65
Trenton, New Jersey
written 13 minutes ago:

Good Evening Young Man,

To be apart of our lives you have to be willing to serve US both.

The Daddy and The Sadist

23M
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
written 10 minutes ago:

i dont want to sound like an asshole but may i ask what kind of service i have to do for a male? because i have no intentions at all in being bisexual not that i'm implying that there will be any sexual contacts in this relationship, no i know my place but i dont really feel comfortable around males

DaddynTheSadist 65
Trenton, New Jersey
written 7 minutes ago:

You don't sound like an asshole, WE just aren't the Dominants for you. Because either way, your service to The Sadist would not be you having sex with her. No harm no foul, good luck in your search young man.

The Daddy and The Sadist

23M
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
new message
written 4 minutes ago:

i was clear when i said i know my place in NOT!! having any sexual contacts if you read it you would know what i meant ! you twisted my words i made real CLEAR so you wont misunderstand but i guess you didnt bother to give me a shot

DaddynTheSadist 65
Trenton, New Jersey
new message
written less than a minute ago:

LMAO

23M
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
new message
written 5 minutes ago:
:D laughing at your dumbness arent you :D

You can't respond to this conversation because '?' has deactivated their account, you've blocked them, or they've blocked you.

Okay, let us study this for a moment.

• Number one, WE are a couple but you only address The Sadist - Strike
• Number two, WE inform the individual that he will be in service to both of us and he replies with not being comfortable around males - Strike
• Number three, WE reviewed his profile and came to the conclusion he was not a fit with US, The Sadist is not a fan of smokers - No harm No foul - Yet, still a Strike
• Number four, WE politely and respectfully share WE don't feel WE are a match and he then proves the suspicion - STRIKE
• Number five, Young man you are an asshole.

Feature in Sanctuary of Pleasure through Pain

Rules:

• 1. All entries must be made by contestants who will be (21) Twenty-one years old by January 1, 2013;

• 2. All contestants must live in MY tri-state area or be able to visit once a month;

• 3. All entries must be originals, created by the contestant;

• 4. One entry per s-type;

• 5. No bestiality or pedophilia;

• 6. All entries are to posted via inbox;

• 7. You will need to sign a model release form;

• 8. By sending an entry you pledge that this is your original work and it's full use is released to ME.

You will need to copy and paste the questionnaire to answer it properly.

Place a check next to each box which you can relate to the most. If confused, go to the next one, and come back when finished with the rest. Answer each question honestly.

Where it says "Yes/No" = means whether you've experienced that type of activity before. Put "Y" for yes or "N" for no.

Rating scale for checklist:

0 = Don't ever ask me to do this.

1 = I don't want to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of me.

2 = I'm willing to do this activity, but it has no real appeal for me.

3 = I usually like doing this activity, at least on an occasional basis.

4 = I love doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 = I love this activity it makes me "hot", and would like it as often as possible.

Note 1. Some of these may fall under a few categories (example: Blindfolds can be Humiliation & mental bondage)

Note 2. Some of these could be used for health reasons too (example forced exercising)

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Belts

__ [ ] Bruises

__ [ ] Cane (leather)

__ [ ] Cane (plastic)

__ [ ] Flogger (braided)

__ [ ] Flogger (no knots)

__ [ ] Crop

__ [ ] Leather Paddle

__ [ ] Paddle

__ [ ] Spanking

__ [ ] Whip

__ [ ] Wooden Hair Brush

__ [ ] Wooden Paddle

ROLE PLAY

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Act as objects (cars, furniture, etc)

__ [ ] Arrested

__ [ ] Baby

__ [ ] Burglar Attack

__ [ ] Call Girl/Gigolo

__ [ ] Cowgirl/Cowboy

__ [ ] Interrogation Scene

__ [ ] Kidnap Scene

__ [ ] Little girl/little boy

__ [ ] Maid/Butler

__ [ ] Medical Scene

__ [ ] Nun/Priest

__ [ ] Rape Scene (one)

__ [ ] Rape Scene (multiple)

__ [ ] Pet Roles

__ [ ] Pony Girl/Pony Boy

__ [ ] Secretary (M OR F)

__ [ ] Student

__ [ ] Teenager

__ [ ] Torture Victim

HUMILIATION

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Act as objects (furniture, etc)

__ [ ] Bathroom use control

__ [ ] Bathroom use in front of others

__ [ ] Blindfolds

__ [ ] Boot worship

__ [ ] Chauffeuring

__ [ ] Crawl on 4's

__ [ ] Cross Dressing

__ [ ] Curse words (Whore, Slut, etc.)

__ [ ] Curtsy in public

__ [ ] Dominant chooses food

__ [ ] Dominant chooses cloths

__ [ ] Enema

__ [ ] Eye contact restrictions

__ [ ] Foot worship

__ [ ] Forced Cross dressing

__ [ ] Forced dressing

__ [ ] Forced exercising

__ [ ] Forced nudity

__ [ ] Forced masturbation

__ [ ] Forced prostitution (pretend)

__ [ ] Forced slave auction

__ [ ] Forced to wear a leash

__ [ ] Forced to wear see thru clothes

__ [ ] Golden shower

__ [ ] Harem--serving w/other(s)

__ [ ] Hood

__ [ ] Kneeling

__ [ ] Maid/Butler services

__ [ ] Mask

__ [ ] Pet roles (act like a dog, cat, etc)

__ [ ] Scat Play

__ [ ] Scolding

__ [ ] Spitting in face

__ [ ] Serve as ashtray

__ [ ] Serve as toilet

__ [ ] Serve as waitress

__ [ ] Serve others (supervised)

__ [ ] Serve others (unsupervised)

__ [ ] Shave head

__ [ ] Shave body hair

__ [ ] Shave pubic hair

__ [ ] Slap face

__ [ ] Spanking (public)

__ [ ] Speech restriction

__ [ ] Stand in corner

__ [ ] Suck pacifier

__ [ ] Swallow urine

__ [ ] Take Pictures

__ [ ] Take Video

__ [ ] Verbal Abuse

__ [ ] Wear Collar everywhere

__ [ ] Wear Diapers

__ [ ] Write on Body (slut, sissy, worthless, etc.)

BONDAGE

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Arm Sleeves

__ [ ] Blindfolds

__ [ ] Breasts

__ [ ] Gag

__ [ ] Cage

__ [ ] Chain

__ [ ] Chastity Belts

__ [ ] Genital

__ [ ] Harness

__ [ ] Hoods

__ [ ] Immobilization (short time)

__ [ ] Immobilization (long time)

__ [ ] Inside a closet

__ [ ] Inside a coffin

__ [ ] Katherine wheel

__ [ ] Leather cuffs

__ [ ] Leather restraints

__ [ ] Leg Sleeves

__ [ ] Mask

__ [ ] Mind

__ [ ] Mortuary bag

__ [ ] Mouth bits

__ [ ] Nipple Clamps

__ [ ] Rack

__ [ ] Rope

__ [ ] Saran wrapping

__ [ ] Scarves

__ [ ] Shackles

__ [ ] Sleeping bag

__ [ ] Sling

__ [ ] Spread bar

__ [ ] Steel cuffs

__ [ ] Steel restraints

__ [ ] Stock

__ [ ] Straight jacket

__ [ ] Suspension (regular)

__ [ ] Suspension (up-side down)

__ [ ] Suspension (horizontal)

__ [ ] Tied to a cross

__ [ ] Wrestling

EDGE/MIND PLAY

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Abrasion

__ [ ] Asphyxia

__ [ ] Branding

__ [ ] CBT

__ [ ] Choking

__ [ ] Cloth Pins

__ [ ] Cutting

__ [ ] Electric (violet wand)

__ [ ] Electric (muscle stimulant unit)

__ [ ] Face slapping

__ [ ] Flesh Hooks

__ [ ] Gang Rape scenes

__ [ ] Genital (weights)

__ [ ] Genital (cloth pins)

__ [ ] Genital (pins/needles)

__ [ ] Genital (rope)

__ [ ] Genital (vise)

__ [ ] Genital whipping

__ [ ] Hair Pulling

__ [ ] Hot wax

__ [ ] Ice

__ [ ] Fire and Ice (same time)

__ [ ] Knife play

__ [ ] Medical scenes

__ [ ] Needles

__ [ ] Piercing

__ [ ] Pinching

__ [ ] Rape Fantasy

__ [ ] Slap Face

__ [ ] Sleep deprivation

__ [ ] Cell Popping

__ [ ] TENS units

__ [ ] Tickling

__ [ ] Nipple (weights)

__ [ ] Nipple (cloth pins)

__ [ ] Nipple (pins/needles)

__ [ ] Nipple (rope)

__ [ ] Nipple (vise)

__ [ ] Torture rack

__ [ ] Water torture

FETISH WEAR

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Corsets

__ [ ] French maid

__ [ ] Child/Baby

__ [ ] High Heels

__ [ ] Leather

__ [ ] Lingerie

__ [ ] PVC

__ [ ] Rubber

__ [ ] Slutty

__ [ ] Spandex

__ [ ] Uniforms

__ [ ] Victorian

SEXUAL D/S

Y/N # Activity

__ [ ] Anal

__ [ ] Anal beads

__ [ ] Anal plugs (small)

__ [ ] Anal plugs (large)

__ [ ] Anal fisting

__ [ ] Anal (vibrator/dildo)

__ [ ] Ben-wa balls

__ [ ] Bi-sexuality

__ [ ] Chastity Belt

__ [ ] Cock Worship

__ [ ] Forced bi-sexuality

__ [ ] Hand jobs (giving)

__ [ ] Masturbation

__ [ ] Same-Sex Orgy (more then 3)

__ [ ] Oral sex (giving)

__ [ ] Orgasm Control

__ [ ] Orgasm Denial

__ [ ] Phone sex (voluntary)

__ [ ] Phone sex (forced to have it with others)

__ [ ] Sexual denial (short term)

__ [ ] Sexual denial (long term)

__ [ ] Sexual Double Penetration

__ [ ] Swallow semen

__ [ ] Swapping

__ [ ] Voyeurism (watching Domina play w/others)

__ [ ] Voyeurism (watching other play)

WRITTEN INFORMATION:

• Write down any other role play activities not mentioned above, which you may be interested to try:

• At this stage, what do you feel are your absolute limits:

• Do you have any medical conditions and emotional concerns that I should know about? (if yes explain below) :

• Why and when did you get into the scene:

• What do you seek from your Dominant:

• What do you offer as a submissive (emotionally and spiritually)

Your Entry:

To write and submit a story based on one of the following subjects:

• Our First Date;
• Courting Me;
• Why I Am the Perfect Sub/Slave for Domina Supreme Kirashan

Be mindful of grammar and spelling, it will be counted.

Your service as MY video slave will serve as your tribute to ME.

Chile Bye, Sorry your penis is not that HUGE.

How and when I choose to share it, is on MY terms. If I tell you I am in a relationship and will not be doing something with you, don't have time to do something with you or even better I am bored with it and not interested in doing it (NO, I WOULD NEVER TELL SOMEONE SOMETHING LIKE THAT EVEN THOUGH IT IS THE TRUTH), don't be a child about it.

The point of an NSA is not to supersede a real relationship. I guess when one has let having a huge penis go to their head, makes the fall to reality hurt even more.I will say again having a big penis or even a huge penis does not make you a Dominant. Just means you are more likely to have intercourse then someone with a small penis. The sole size of a penis certainly will not sway my dominance that you can trust and believe.

If you wanted more from me, you had since 2009 to get it.

Being silly, because your presence came an EXTREMELY far second to a woman...awww. Let me get my violin, it only plays sad songs.

To even try to challenge my dominance by suggesting I have fallen submissive to another (ONCE AGAIN IF I DO THAT IS MY CHOICE, MAYBE YOU SHOULD TAKE SOME NOTES), in hopes I will have sex with you to prove you wrong. I am 40 years old, I left Double Dog Dare in elementary school on the schoolyard playground.

You want to be more than a tool, then treat yourself like you are more than a tool.

Truly starting to lose my patience with folk thinking they can say anything to me in any manner, while silence is my normal tool...I still know how to speak.

In the spirit of understand, I decided to sit down with you all and have a little chat.

'I am all those things you see, but first and foremost I am a human. Not some fantasy, superhero, etc., but A HUMAN BEING.' Just another line in a paragraph in the novel of this life I live, which I proudly call 'The Beautifully Imperfection that is ME.' ~ ME

I derive these lessons from on going relationships in my life. Some relationships are as old as I am and others are as new as this moment. I share my thoughts, lessons, experiences in order to improve all my relationships as well as anyone else's that should read it. No matter the type of relationship.

The above quote came from an extremely 'vanilla' conversation with someone that has recently found out about my love for women as well as men. Unfortunately, because I was not living as the person they imagined me to be that ended our relationship as friends. Yet, 'Relationships of like People, We are born, We Live, and We Die. Sometimes we let relationships die way to soon.'; And sometimes we leave relationships on life support way to long as well. (I apologize to those that are taken offense to the use of Life Support.)

The quote also works for my life experiences in the lifestyle. People forget at times they are dealing with human beings, yeah even we D-types are people. Amazing isn't it, lol. Way to often, I see s-types that attempt to use D-types solely as tools and vice versa. When I get a s-type that asks me, don't you get off on being apart of my fantasy. I can only share a fantasy in return and then ask them their own question. There answer is always NO, lol. Of course, I share my most Sadistic fantasies to make a point, lol. These dynamics we form in the lifestyle are not to be one sided in anyway, if they are to be successful. As humans being, we have a need for balance. So when I witness and/or hear about s-types talking about I want what I want, exactly how I want...I always suggest they may want to be engage in a session with a pro. Even then you have to give something for what you want. This is always why I make a big thing in my communications about understanding the difference between play and service. (I apologize to those that are to take offensive to the next quote) 'A man that does not work, does not eat.'

Something else about fantasy, our fantasies live in a box; we don't. Relationships confined in the box of a fantasy, will suffocate and die. Generally die in a violent manner. Have you ever seen how the body reacts to be suffocated? Not pretty.

Yes, I have an example. I live life, so of course I have examples...lmao.

I have been socializing online for quite sometime on different levels and circles. I started out on Blackplanet in 1998. Anyway, about three years ago, I conceded to meet someone that had been following my life online since 1998. Needless to say he was greatly disappointed when meeting the REAL LIFE 360 degree PERSON. He told me I was nothing like he imagined. He said I looked like a regular person. No, it did not upset me, even though I found it weird when he said he expected me to be bigger. insert side eye. As we continued to talk, because he was still hopefully to experience some part of his fantasy (you all are not stupid, you all know what his fantasy is) he had been reliving for so long, he admitted one day during a conversation he was glad he got to know me as a person. We were having a conversation about another relationship of his that had crashed and burned. While this could have been partly to get his experience, which will be a HELL NO FOREVER, he still learned a bit of a lesson about living in the box of his fantasy.
One the most common trait among all human beings is 'MISUNDERSTANDING'! I am misunderstood as much as I misunderstand all the time. Because of this I try give a huge learning curve when it comes to people in my life. I am human, so sometimes I fall short in that, lol.

For example:

Sometimes, I forget that someone will read something of mine and take it a lot more personal than intended. I can not stress enough how full life is and when I get a thought and share it; I don't always recount every conversation I have with everyone. The fact is while it may apply to you in some way, I honestly had not giving you as an individual a second thought when sharing it.
Now I added the bit about misunderstanding, because I have posted pre-apologies to anyone that may take offense to things I have shared. Call me lazy, call me insensitive...yet this will be the last post where I do that. Goodness. I lost my train of thought several times, re-reading and re-typing things so no one would take what I am saying as a personal attack. I think I will just deal with the inbox messages, 'are you talking about me?'

I think instead of people getting online when they are bored, go the hell to sleep. This way you are not sending people stupid emails, like:

From:
alexforvixen
Dated:
11/8/12 2:52 AM
i will need you to come and clean my bathroom

I still find it amazing how so many complain about the pros on here, but insist on presenting themselves as if they are clients. You don't want to pay someone to help you live out your fantasy and you don't want to fill out questionnaires either. You just want to say something stupid then toot your ass up or stick your tongue out. Not to mention, you want someone to make room in their lives for you. 

PLEASE FALL OFF THE EARTH WITH YOUR NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't give my dominance to just anyone, only those I feel I want the submission of. What does that mean? Don't look for me to start dominating you from the door. I meet you for lunch to get a feel for you in person, not to dominate you. If you want to be dominated on the first meeting, then you must be looking for a session.

Again, all of you on here knocking pros, calling them names, etc...GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!!

Why are you even taking time out of your busy life, to even knock them. Could it be you really wanted them, but can not afford them? Knocking them certainly is not going to get you a free session.

I can not say enough, if you want your submission taking seriously then present your submission seriously. Do not ask me what you can do to offer your submission, when I have that covered on my profile. READ DAYUM IT! I know it can be difficult to jerk and type, DEAL WITH IT!

There is something about a well spanked bottom that is extremely arousing.

Good Morning,

I should be focused on my present surroundings, but I needed a break from the drama. Some people are not happy unless they are disrupting other people's peacefulness.

Anyway, feeling a little discourage about my search for a true masochist for me. Either they are to far, really looking for a girlfriend or they have been so used to being clients they have a hard time wrapping they mind round being people first.

My friend's say I being greedy, because of the subs I already have. Each of them feed a different hungry. My Sadist is starving. Lowering my standards is not and option, so I guess My Sadist will continue to be fully feed.

Upside, I get to see my lil one this weekend. This will be first actually play time. I am so looking forward to taste of his experience. Plus, it has been a very very very long time since I have had a green newbie as well as a lil one. Littles allow me to mix my femininity with my dominance. He is so cute.

Well back to playing referee. I could home getting some sleep right now. Ugh.

Some folk never truly want someone until another has them. Stay in your lane and the next time someone good comes your way, ACT LIKE IT.

Why is it that people take the time to get so upset over someone else having confidence and love for themselves? I swear folk need some better hobbies. You have gotten your attention from a stranger, now run along and play with your little toys. This is good as it gets, I would be less than to get upset with a strangers point of view. Unlike you, I have left elementary schoolyard behavior in elementary school. I really hope there are not folk on here letting this internet bullies get the best of them. 

SMH, IT TAKES ALL TYPES TO MAKE THE WHOLE GO ROUND. LMAO.

Is it just me or does there seem to be more and more people creating dummy profiles to be cowards, assholes, weirdos, time wasters, etc. I really feel pity for folk like that. You can not really be happy in your own life. Life is truly filled with to much happiness, to go out of your way to spread your negativity. 

STAY IN YOUR LANE!

TAKING CARE OF DADDY WHILE I AM GONE

Every so often I get a vision and have not the slightest idea where the 'energy' came from. I hope someone enjoys this. Still working on this.

After being gone on six business trips back to back and having to come home each time to find Daddy's Princess and My cuck have behaved below My set standards ... Daddy promised Me a getaway. I had one more trip to go on and Daddy promised to send Me to our cabin for some Me-Time as long as the Princess and the cuck behaved. I told him I would make sure they got the picture before I left. Daddy, does not like pain, so after he left to visit with friends. He was not coming back until tomorrow evening. I got to work on them.

The first thing I did before anything else, I had them both strip naked. This did not take long since they rarely wear more the panties. They knew they were in trouble. Normally, I don't make them pay for infractions so soon and I always have a sit down to go over this they did wrong. They were truly not prepared for My Wrath and Rage. I tossed My cuck down the basement stairs, something about the thud of his body against the wood steps turns Me on. I led Daddy's Princess tightly with My hands around her throat down the stairs. I backhanded Daddy's Princess as her sign to go and restrain the cuck (her husband) to his ring and I then restrained Daddy' Princess to her ring. Their rings left their 5’0” and 5’7” thick /athletic frames dangling from the ceiling of the basement. I put on their sensory depo hoods and turned the sprayer hose that is hooked up to the hot water and began spraying them on high pulse. The water was so hot; it filled the basement with a thick swamp like fog of steam. The sting of the spraying hot water made them extremely red. It looked as if their bodies wear covered in little red dots.

With the basement still very full of steam, I reach for my bullwhip. I was in no mood for a real warm up. The first crack across their wet skin was indescribable. Each strike to follow resonated in a thunderous impact. The whip cleared a commanding path through the foggy steam that was not reclaimed by the remaining steam. It was as if the steam was attempting to stay out of dodge of the rage for My whip. As the steam clear to either side of the room after fifteen strikes, I could better admire their bruised bodies. The view tightens My nipples. I walked up to them and removed their masked. They were floating, but I was far from done with them. I untied My cuck and allowed him to fall to the floor. With a snap of my fingers, he rose to remove Daddy’s Princess and carry her upstairs.

In the living room, awaited their anal hooks and chained collars which I affixed to them. The chained allowed Me to shorten it length between the hook and the collar. With each infraction I read, they had to shorten the other’s chain. After I finished reading the infractions, I went to the kitchen cabinet. There was the home of My favorite tools for domestic discipline, Old Fashion Grits. They hate grits so much; it is a torture to even have them prepare grits. I slowed poured a nice amount of the uncooked grits in front of both of them. I snapped my fingers and both kneeled in them and whence at the same time. I always had to be careful not to leave any long term scars on Daddy’s Princess, so I would always make My cuck pay for that. I gave My cuck two sets of Yellow Pages to balance in the palms of his hands while he kneeled in the grits. Every time I sensed he was lowering his arms, I sprayed his back with fresh squeezed lemon juice. I made him squeeze the lemons by hand earlier. Daddy’s Princess received a smack to the palms of her hands with an old fashion wooden ruler. I remember when I gave her the assignment to go on the search for one, when they were going through training.

As this process went on, we reviewed the house rules they are to follow when I am away to take extra special of Daddy. ‘Okay, you two let’s review. Answer in unison or else! What time do you wake up?’

‘We are to wake up at four am, Dearest Ma’am,’ My cuck was a little. I sprayed him and smacked Daddy’s Princess on the hands.

‘What time do you wake up?’

‘We are to wake up at four am, Dearest Ma’am.’

‘When is breakfast to be ready?’

‘Breakfast is to be ready at seven am, Dearest Ma’am,’ I did not know Daddy told them seven am, which he did not tell me on purpose. He has a little Sadist of his own. I sprayed My cuck and smacked Daddy’s Princess on the hands and asked again.

This repeated until they asked in unison, ‘Dearest Ma’am, may we have some sugar?’ This was like a safe phrase.

‘Yes, you may,’ I replied.

‘Daddy said six am was too early to eat.’

‘How is that My problem or have anything to do with the rules I set forth?’ I sprayed him again and smacked her palms. ‘When is breakfast to be ready?’

‘Breakfast is to be ready at six am, Dearest Ma’am.’

‘What is Daddy’s Breakfast?’

‘Daddy’s breakfast is handmade butter corn biscuits, hot shrimp and grits, poached eggs, seasonal fresh cut fruit and hot black coffee, Dearest Ma’am.’

‘Who brings Daddy his coffee?’ I am not sure how they answered this wrong.

‘I do,’ they answered in unison and of course received the just punishment. My cuck’s arms were trembling, so I pulled out my cane and hit both biceps.

‘Who brings Daddy his coffee?’

This time only Daddy’s Princess answered, ‘I bring Daddy his coffee, Dearest Ma’am.’

‘What time do you bring Daddy his coffee?’ She paused; I popped both of them and asked again.

‘I bring Daddy his coffee at six am, Dearest Ma’am.’

‘How do you wake Daddy for his morning coffee?’

‘I wake Daddy with a blowjob for his morning coffee, Dearest Ma’am.’

‘What must happen before Daddy’s coffee gets cold?’

‘I must make Daddy cum before his coffee gets cold, Dearest Ma’am.’

‘Who prepares Daddy’s morning bath and bathe Daddy?’ Now I know her preferred his princess and would have her do it because he would have sex with her during. I wanted to see if they learned the lesson from earlier. My cuck did, but Daddy’s Princess did not.

‘I prepare Daddy’s morning bath and bathe Daddy, Dearest Ma’am,’ says My cuck. Daddy’s Princess asks, ‘Dearest Ma’am, may we have some sugar?’ What is the big deal you may think? It is mandatory they do things as a team. When they don’t they are punished. My cuck looked at his wife with angry and I smacked him across the face. He was angry, because he knew that meant they had to start all over in fresh uncooked grits. I surprised them both and just repeated the question. This time they answered correctly in unison.

‘Who is to shave Daddy in the morning?’

Daddy’s Princess answered, ‘I give Daddy his morning shave, Dearest Ma’am.’

I reviewed with them who dresses Daddy and cleans Daddy’s room and clothes. Also reviewed who was to prepare Daddy’s different meals. They got it together so it went quickly. I would pop them for GP, still. I reviewed bedtime rules. ‘Who prepares Daddy’s bedtime bath?’

Daddy’s Princess said, ‘I prepare Daddy’s bedtime bath, Dearest Ma’am.’

‘Who bathe Daddy before bedtime?’

‘I bathe Daddy before bedtime, Dearest Ma’am,’ answered My cuck.

‘Who bathe Daddy’s Princess before bedtime sex with Daddy?’

‘I bathe Daddy’s Princess before bedtime sex with Daddy, Dearest Ma’am,’ answered My cuck. Of course, My cuck was responsible for bathing himself.

‘Who must make sure Daddy’s sexual hungry is feed before bedtime?’

‘We must make sure Daddy’s sexual hungry is feed before bedtime, Dearest Ma’am.’

See if they make sure Daddy has the proper amount of orgasms, then when I come home I only have to top him. Daddy loves when I milk and peg him. I loved kissing him. Sexually, my girlfriend had my number. Daddy knows this, so as long as I make sure he is taking care of, he is okay with my relationship with my girlfriend and my lil one. If they don’t right I get a spanking and have to make up for the orgasms he did not have while I was gone.

So after about two hours of the review, I had them clean up the living room and told both of them to go clean up and get ready for early bed. Of course, I was not done with them.

I waited until they were relaxed in their twin beds. I burst into the room and tossed two toothbrushes and buckets. ‘It is time to clean house.’ I had them clean every inch of the house by hand, including the ceilings. They finished just before Daddy got home. I sent them to their room and they were good and ready.

I prepared Daddy’s lunch myself, just some fresh fruit. He loves for me to greet him nude with a big kiss, which I did. We never discuss what I do to the slaves. He is not a fan of pain. So until, they heal he will only see me. He was happy to see the house and everything in its place. He calls me his perfect house-wife, even though we are not married. We sat together and decided which time share he was going to send Me too. I was a happy Sadistic Babygirl.

to be continued

I like to read the journals, it let's me know who to block immediately.

Am I Supposed to swoon...Ugh.

30M
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Good Afternoon A/all,

I am really floating on the happiness of having MY Lil Timothy as MY own. He is very precious to me.

So, what else do I want?

A MASOCHIST!

I am a Sadist after all.

MY lil one gives me the outlet to feed the nurturing and protective Dominant hunger. I also hunger for A MASOCHIST. Something about the sweet taste from the offering of A MASOCHIST is undeniable.

Why not make MY lil one MY pain slut?

Because I don't want to.

My lil one is officially MINE.

My lil one, Lil Timothy aka lostlittleboy75, and I officially signed our agreement to start our journey together during the Unity Munch this past Saturday. I am extremely overjoyed to have him and yes honored that he has entrusted me with his walk into Real Time.

Sorry, I did not make an announcement at the munch. Just was not sold it was proper protocol.

Play at Paddles

Going to be in New York for a bit on Saturday. Of course, I will be letting my claws down at Paddles. I have a some room on my play card, drop me the proper note if interested.

s-types (slaves mostly) are not the only ones allowed hard limits (Yes, I am venting)

Hard limit
A hard limit is something that must not be done. Violating a hard limit is often considered just cause for ending a scene or even a relationship.

I am not sure if anyone else experiences this or if it is something only Female D-types encounter, but I have been dismissing more and more s-types (slaves mostly) because of violating my hard limits.

I constantly review how I present myself, to ensure I am not being misleading. I try to be careful about everything I post, especially publicly. Those of you that know me closely, know how 'anal' I can be about clear understanding of what I do in my dynamics. Yet and still, I encounter male s-types constantly trying to violate my hard limits. For me, evening attempting to discuss my hard limits past, 'what are they?', is a violation.

One major hard limit is SEX. I make it clear my body is not nor never a source of reward, entertainment, enjoyment, etc. I respect that for some this may vary well be a kink eharmony or fuckbook situation, DO YOU BABY. I respect that many will and/or can only offer their submission in combination with a sexual relationship and again DO YOU BABY.

Looking for SEX is not my story. I don't want it! I AM ON STRIKE!

Second major hard limit is fluid transfer. I will not give you mine and for darn sure don't want yours.

Third major hard limit is actual children. This will get you cussed out and outed. I know many of you don't like the word 'outed', but yes I will put you on front street.

Forth and not least major hard limit bestiality. Do make me call PETA.

Now I don't wear rose colored glasses, I know the combination of miss-education and no education are factors. I understand many of us come from difference walks of training. I even understand that some of us edit and reconstruct certain labels, because they may mostly define our position. For example, I use CFNM. Now, I know that some subscribe to it for the sexual fetish. I walk solely with the humiliation fetish of it and make that clear. (Sidebar! That is why I am not a fan of labels, they never truly define a person. Would be easier, if more understood they are not suppose to. But we are all taught to put things in their 'proper' group.)

I did not forget some are just freaking trolls, but I guess trolls need love, too. YOU WON'T GET ANY HERE, THOUGH. KEEP IT CRAWLING.

Okay, enough venting. I am going to refine my profile some more, lmao. This is why I am on vacation, lol.

When I say my hard limit is having SEX, why do people think that means it is a soft limit. I am not here looking for sex. 

Still decided what I want to do with my group, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sanctumofdominasupreme/

Looks like I am going to be a new Auntie. I has been years since I had a lil one in my service. He is a rather cute young man. He needs some behavioral training, but what lil one does not. ~wicked grin~ He really has been a lovely lil one.

Going to be in New York to visit friends in October. I always visit Paddles, anyone interested in meeting up for some playtime? Drop me a respectful note of interest. I will be in town the weekend of the 12th.

No, I will not go back to your place to have sex or  to play.

Viewing who has viewed me is always amusing. By the way, what the point of calling yourself someone's admirer and then never speaking?

I know I have said on many occasions that I could not see a LD-D/s-R, but the devotion and obedience shown I am obligated to give him a chance. 

So, sissyx is official under my consideration. I am a woman of word first and foremost.

The maturity level of some of these older s-types is sad. To lazy to read, comprehend and follow directions...yet and still these are also the first to criticize my ProDomme sisters, because they require payment for use of their time.

I mean really...what is so hard about reading, comprehending and following directions? 

I actually had an s-type say to me that I expect to much of the men on here. I give them to much credit that they are able to understand what they are reading. Now this was an s-type not a D-type. I told him I have the protocols I have in place to weed out the useless. 

I say constantly if you want to be seen as more than a client, present yourself as more than a client.

I get more respectful cooperation from those outside of the states. They understand protocol more in my experience. To many want to throw their ass in the air or their tongue  in my ass without protocol.

Let me not mention the protocol of courting, it is just sad.

The cheaters are the worst. I sympathize after all you did to get your wife to marry you that she is not willing to help you fulfill all of your desires, but how is that my problem. 

So let me get this straight:

• You don't want to follow the protocol of presenting a petition for service;
• You don't want to complete a questionnaire (which is to make easy for those that have no clue how to create a petition for service);
• You don't want to follow the protocol of courting;
• You don't have a clear photo, if a photo at all;
• Yet, I am supposed to swoon and share my precious time with you in fulfilling your fantasy.

BUT I AM CLUELESS, FALL OFF THE EARTH WITH THAT MESS.

Mistresse Dominante of Philaelphia Presents October FemDom Party

“ Yyour lifemate is no gonna come to you”

Date & Time: Saturday, October 27, 2012 · 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM
Location: Mistress BlaqVelvet's Meeting Place
RSVP ONLY @ map
Cost: $20 IN ADVANCE , $25 AT THE DOOR.
Dress code: Female Tops what ever you like. male subs, sissy attire or briefs or thongs ( no white).female subs sexy attire

Description:
Femdom party in South Philadelphia.
These events are for the sole purpose of Female Tops and bottoms to find each other as well as to get to know each other better. Bottoms even though you pay to get in you must serve the Ladies food and beverages as well as bring a botlle of Cognac or Dry Wine for the Ladies. you get to partakle of all home cooked food and beverages . Also you must be assesible to the Ladies needs. Such as a foot rubs or a spanking or wax play . Safe , Sane and Consensual rules always apply. All limits are respected. As always half the proceeds go to Lupus ( Mistress Oriette). To pay in advance. www.paypal.com / blaqvelvet@comcast.net . If you want to just donate to Lupus let me know. Any questions BlaqVelvet54@comcast.net put FemDom in the caption.

From My Old Webcamming Days - I love Purple

Petition

The petition acts in the same manner as a cover letter

 for a résumé

. In a petition a submissive will make their plea to the Dominant and may outline why they are seeking to be in service to the Dominant. Generally not used with a relationship that existed prior to the contract, however, for a submissive who is in search of a Dominant, this feature helps to show professionalism and attention to detail. The petition should go into detail of your request, why you wish to be in service, your goals, and why you've chosen this Dominant specifically.

Now if you take the time to understand this you will see you are asking for a position in someone's life. If you want me to take you more serious than the everyday client than treat yourself like you are more than that. 

Don't tell me be about how you are tired of pay dommes, etc., when all your conversation is like someone calling a pay domme. Contacting me with a bunch of fantasy conversation and not talking to me like you are a human being or like I am a human being. 

Now if you can not take the time to go through my protocol then why shouldn't you pay a tribute of cash, gift or deed. The fast track cost.

Okay, here is another put your money where your mouth is opportunity. You want me to take your approach seriously, since some of you don't know what to say out of your mouth, answer my partial questionnaire.

Medical History

1. List all illness/injuries you are being treated for. (Heart, asthma, blood sugar, blood pressure etc.)
2. List any medications both prescription and over the counter you take regularly, and what they are treating.
3. All allergies.
4. Physical limitations.
5. Do you exercise regularly?
6. What type of exercise do you get?
7. Anything else you feel might be important for Me to know.

Relationship History

1. Tell me about your past to present relationships (ie boy/girlfriends and spouses but not limited to sexual). A biography of your significant others.
2. What were the good and bad points in each relationship?
3. How long did each last?
4. Why did they end ?
5. What part did you play in each one as they began and ended