| The fear & suspense is part of your thrill.......the knowing is mine :-)
Don't EVER call me Mistress. Unless you become mine then I am not to be addressed in any stereotypical way. I am far more than just a 'Mistress'. I will tell my sub how to address me, and he is the only one allowed that honour. If you also struggle with the fact that first and foremost I'm a nilla woman with a kink aspect to me, then we won't get on. I have no desire to constantly be dominating someone - it gets tedious and I have a good nilla life which is the foundation to my happiness.
I won't play with anyone on a first meet, and if I think I'm being used just to satisfy your own cravings then I'll never play with you. As an ex sub once said 'you don't leave your personality at the door when playing' - I am me, I don't become a 'character' when I pick up a flogger, so if you don't like nilla me then you're not going to like kink me!
One of the best articles a sub can read..........
One of my favourite pieces of advice............
Never take someone for granted
Hold every person close to your heart
Cos you may wake up one day
And realise that you've lost a diamond
While you were too busy collecting stones!
To become a part of my life you need to be very special indeed!
You worshiping my body
Disciplining you with a cane
You massaging me
You kissing my feet
You servicing me with your mouth
Tying you up
Disciplining your private parts
Local BDSM Community
You being my domestic servant
You at the end of my leash
Placing you in masks
Medical fetish play
Treating you like an object
Complete control of your orgasms