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Below is a copy and paste from a regular dating site, a good enough way to explain part of who I am. I live in Port Colborne for now until I am finished renovating my other place in Ridgeway (Fort Erie technically which is 10 minutes south of Niagara Falls)
Vanilla me that the world sees:
Hey there! I'm looking for an intelligent gal who likes to explore what life has to offer and can hold a conversation. You have balance in life, the old cliche you work hard and play hard!
So, I'm university educated in the field of computer science and am well read with variety of intellectual interests. I used to do contract software development work and between lucrative software contracts I would dabble in construction contracts to keep busy. I did very well in life then a drunk driver took much of my world away a bit over 3 years ago.
I fought my way out of a wheelchair and am starting to ascertain a grand new direction and plan for my modified life. I suffered some brain injury so it seems software development is no longer a reality, it's been tough to come to terms with the fact I am not as brilliant as I once was although my friends insist my self-confidence has suffered no losses! The injury lawsuit is ongoing and I'm still finding my way in life now that I am no longer the uber IT specialist I once was. Thankfully I was well off before the loss and was extremely well insured.
I work every day to make myself a better person. I took a few 4th year computer science classes at Brock recently but my brain injury limitations manifested itself and I had my ego bruised. I work out nearly daily and I see specialists to help me become a better person. I guess since I have and continue to work so hard to get back what I once had/was I want a life partner to have ambition in life as well. Don't wait for somebody to motivate you to become the person you think you can become. Be that person now and you will find who you want, that's my hope anyway!
I can and have played harder than most people ever will, but that is easy. I also balanced that play with a very successful career and financial success. I have ambitions of travel and a very fine life and wish to share that with somebody who has drive and ambition in life but also balance.
What attracts me is intelligence. Funny little plays on words, making quips and having your partner understand and get them is important. Do you like to explore and challenge yourself? Are you looking for a partner who 'gets you'? Ideally you have a white collar career but have a bit of edginess in you you have or want to explore.
So, drop me a note and lets have a few email exchanges and get communicating. Share some experiences from this site (or any interesting story), lets compare notes!
Non-Vanilla Me
I'm pretty open minded but guys really don't do anything for me. I really really love exploring my partners kinks. I have my own but just get off knowing the mind of my partner, what makes her get all hot and wet. I enjoy when my partner has her own thoughts and fantasies for which I can extend.
I enjoy role playing but having to come up with my role and the other role and the settings etc can be a bit time consuming and perhaps I am not as creative as I would like. Whereas if my partner has a general idea and theme I can ad lib from that and work with her role.
I truly am an alpha male in real life but in the bedroom I like to switch it up and would enjoy the company of a strong female personality with her own desires and kinks to explore. A previous lover and I began to explore some bondage, toys, strap-ons, female domination and scenarios. I got off on it more than I expected. I enjoyed not having to have all the ideas. The fact she was doing EXACTLY what she wanted turned me on and allowed me to get into the role in a way that pleased her more. Part of my psyche is to please others it seems. I guess the difference in please by being a dom versus sub is knowing exactly what turns on your partner. You can hardly be a good dom and ask your partner "Is this working, do you like that". Whereas being submissive and having your partner take the lead....leads you directly into what they want and like. Part of it is lack of experience to be sure but I do get off on pleasing my partner. I like to hold back cumming to ensure my partner has a few and its usually when my partner has had a few that a final orgasm of hers drives me over the edge finally.
I just got a second house which is going to be a hobby farm, it has a few acres. I can imagine lots of interesting scenes taking place in the private seclusion of my property. I will have to post some pics of the out building for which I know there are some interesting scenarios to create and act out!
Several bedrooms ensures there will be guest rooms and a special room.....*evil grin*. I suppose with the right group a 'family' could develop in time but that's just one of many many possibilities.
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| Age: 46 |
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