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I have over 20 years experience in lifestyle. I'm a custom leather crafter as well. I'm a non-smoker, light drinker, and DD free.

Daddy is looking for a new girl. I'm seeking a serious fetish loving leather/bondage doll. I like creative, adventurous alternative type girls who really want to learn and become a part of this lifestyle. This position is not a live in position at first, but could become such, so for now you need to have your own residence and own job. If you're not looking for a live in position but are still interested in what I have to offer, message Me anyway. I'm not looking for a sex partner, girlfriend or wife. I'm looking for someone to train who will be My sub/slave taking care of some light domestic chores, modeling and helping with My leather craft, serving at social functions as well as attending the occasional fetish function with Me.

I lean heavy towards bondage, leather, deprivation training, cosplay, flogging and so much more. I'm even beginning to dabble in Kigurumi which you can google or look up on youtube.

I'm very serious and I don't rush into things. I won't 'play' at first meeting, I don't do motel meetings and I will not move you here and support you. I'm sorry, it's just not within My means. If you're looking for a sugar daddy keep looking. If you're looking for someone who will invest alot of time in your training and education and who has your well being in mind, then send Me a message and lets talk.

M
8/20/2009 4:09:20 PM
    Ok..how about some ranting. I've done very little of that in the last day or two lol.
    I've had few enough messages from those interested in My ad. And I guarantee all but maybe one of them failed to actually read My profile. Several were out of state saying they were going to be 'passing through' the area. And probably more than half of them were simply bait for pay sites. Not sure when those started getting through CM screening? But they're becoming quite a pain. Anyway..I can't say that I've had any 'Real' contacts in many many months. Which in itself is no surprise and nothing I can't handle. I've been keeping busy setting up My spare room as a workshop/playroom, getting ideas for new toys to make etc. And of course there's all the mundane business that keeps Me almost busy.
    It's been quite a long time though since I've actually sat down with someone In or interested in, the Lifestyle and had a serious conversation. I can't say that I really miss the big group meetings of the local social scene. But I could handle a smaller circle or just the company of someone with similar interests. That's the problem with being a bit reclusive, it can get to be a little boring after awhile.

Ah well. life goes on.

Safe Sane and Consensual everyone,

M

8/12/2009 10:11:27 AM
     I've been looking at some new pony gear ideas as well as other 'pet transformation' gear. Tails, ears, harnesses, etc. I really need to find a new pet so I'll have a good reason to make some of this stuff and have someone to model it for Me.

    It's long past time I had a new apprentice or devoted pet. It's just so difficult to find the right one.

M
7/8/2009 2:23:10 PM
Days like today are perfect for staying in the air conditioning and doing some marathon session training. My personal choice would be to focus on Deprivation and Sensation. Using the shower (i have some nasty tricks for that) or using ice would be perfect on a hot day like today. I don't have to tell My fellow Dominants this of course, I'm just musing.

Unfortunately I'm not currently working with a sub to use such techniques on. Ah well.

Have fun, play safe.

M
6/29/2009 8:21:07 AM
    Beginning to wonder if there are any serious sub/slaves out there. I know you're there. Unfortunately the only ones I ever get any response from are those who are using the lifestyle to find a boyfriend or husband. Or who want their bdsm experience totally centered on sex and are looking for Mr Handsome with a huge...well you know. lol.
   I still believe there is someone out there who isn't so superficial, and who is seeking to truly serve a creative Master. I want a sub, a playmate and an assistant. I'm not looking for a girlfriend or wife. I want someone I can teach, nurture and help evolve into this lifestyle. And I'll keep searching until I find you.

M
6/9/2009 10:07:18 AM
I'm getting settled into my new apartment and all is going reasonably well. I have alot more room and the space is very comfortable. I keep looking around though and thinking that something is missing. I rearrange furniture, unpack more boxes and still  something's just not right. Then I realize what it is. There's no smiling girl, collar about her neck, dressed in something revealing or just in a harness of leather. No girl helping me set things up, her hands trembling as she helps unpack training gear that may very soon be used upon her willing flesh.

It's not like purchasing a new couch or table. Finding the right sub/slave is a quest that can take time and One must be patient. I'm trying to be patient.

M
5/26/2009 1:56:11 PM
Just wanted to let friends know, I'm doing well.

I'm moving into a new place next week. Here in town, and all to Myself. I'll be setting up a leather craft room/playroom again and I'm looking forward to getting back to work. I'm still not very active in the local circles, right now most of My leather work is for actual dog training. I haven't had a sub to work with in awhile, so no real reason to make any new gear right now. Maybe soon though. Still looking for the right sub/slave to serve Me and help in My projects.

Hope everyone is having a great summer so far.

M
3/24/2009 4:06:45 PM
Spring is here. Time to get busy, to start new projects and to just enjoy life.

Still need someone to help Me with My new project...or to be My new project?

drop Me a line, lets talk.

M
1/8/2009 10:41:21 AM
Hope everyone enjoyed the Holidays. I know I did. But now that the New Year has begun there's a lot of work to do. My New Year Resolution was to get My leather craft going again as well as a couple other big projects. These are big tasks for Me to tackle alone when I also have those daily mundane tasks to deal with as well. So I'm really hoping I can find a worthy sub/slave girl to assist Me and take on the challenge of My training. At this time this is not a live in position, but could work into one by the end of the summer.  I'm looking for someone artistic, adventurous, very alternative lifestyle minded and who wants to learn the bdsm lifestyle. Must have strong bondage and fetish interests and love wearing leather, she will often be modeling some example of My work. Though the relationship is strongly sexual in nature, there will be no sex between Master and sub. I'm not looking for a wife or girlfriend or someone looking to be supported.

12/15/2008 2:50:08 PM
My surgery went well, I'm pretty much healed. It was tricky asking My Doctor if I'd ever be able to wield Flourentine Floggers again? lol. That's ok...still got a good strong right arm! and the left is getting stronger every day.

Cold weather like this is perfect for staying home and working with your favorite sub/slave. Hours of bondage and experimentation. I'm still looking for someone to teach and someone to help me with My leatherwork. just drop Me a respectful line if interested and only if you're in the area and willing to spend some time getting to know each other before just leaping into things.

M
11/7/2008 5:37:59 PM
Not much excitement lately. Have to go in for minor surgery monday, then have a short recouperation time where I won't be able to lift one of my arms. Times like this a well trained sub would come in handy.

Trying to help My roommate find a place of his own so that I can turn his room back into My workshop/training room. Would like to have help preparing for this too, but haven't had any serious applicants for training in a few months.

patience.
10/17/2008 4:02:46 PM

I would think that I could find a submissive who's new to the lifestyle and wants to really learn and experiment with bondage and fetish. My interests lie there, not in finding a sex partner. I want a sub/slave whom I can teach. I want to see her cuffed and strapped down. I want to see how she looks in leather restraint, rubber, rope etc. I want to hear her fantasies and see if I can make some of them become reality. I'm creative and need to excersize that side of Myself before My skills become rusty from lack of use. I want to be the nurturing Dom/Daddy and to enjoy the occasional company of a kink loving companion without all the focus on relationship and sex. Time I have, The tools of the trade and skills to use them I also have. But it seems right now it's all going to waste.

ah well, things happen when they are meant to.

10/11/2008 1:18:18 PM
it's nice to be back in town and comforting when I spot telltale signs of those in the lifestyle. A flogger hanging from a gunrack in a pickup truck. (you probably know who you are. lol) The certain hints in how someones dressed. Saw a girl wearing a thin leather collar at the grocery store the other day. It was a very nice sight, even though it may have just been a fashion statement and not the collar of a sub/slave. Still, I love the sight of a woman wearing a collar, didn't see that much living out in Ozark. (not that you see it nearly enough here in town).
9/29/2008 8:02:04 PM
The move back to springfield has been long in coming. I found a nice centrally located place which I unfortunately still share with a roommate, but who is gone 5 evenings a week and keeps his nose out of My lifestyle.

Since moving back I've mostly just been getting settled and taking it easy. I don't know if I will become active in the local circles again, but I definately cant just walk away from a lifestyle that has been such a big part of My life for over 20 years. Lets face it, I can always use the services of a devoted sub/slave. So if the right one should cross My path, I'm liable to rope her and put her to good use.
9/21/2008 12:29:35 PM
I'm finally back in springfield. Just want all My friends to know that I'm well. I'm not sure that I'll be getting active in the community again any time soon though. I've just been taking it easy lately and enjoying the 'simple' life. Still, once you enter into the lifestyle, it's not so easy to just give it up right? it becomes a part of you, and that rarely changes. So I do keep active in simple ways, and I'm always looking for the right 'project'.

Be Well,

M
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 Age: 25
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