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Who I Am
I'm a dominant from the greater Denver area. I've been around the local community for a while and am lucky to have the privilege of knowing some exceptionally skilled members of the community and learning from them. I'm married to my submissive/slave, and we're quite happy with each other. But understanding that we each can't be everything to each other, I look to fulfill things I can't with her (with her full support). Should it come to meeting, we can play together or separately.
Outside of the lifestyle, I lead a life that I am proud of. I am accomplished professionally, try to give back to the communities that have helped me, and enjoy what little time I left to the fullest. I've seen a good chunk of the world, but am always interested in seeing more and learning more. Although I'm pretty reserved and serious with those I don't know well, I'd like to think that I can focus on what's important, and laugh about everything else.
My kinky friends would probably say I'm mildly paranoid about keeping my kinky life secret from my vanilla life. I work hard to appear boringly uncontroversial to the outside world, and so likewise respect other people's need for discretion.
The Kink Side
I believe strongly that you can be a dominant without being obnoxious or arrogant. I tend to be a bit geeky, and over-analyze everything in my life. One of the nice things about this lifestyle is that it can be a break from that. I consider myself honest, intelligent, and trustworthy, and I expect any potential partner to be the same.
I seek out intense D/s dynamics. I want to evoke that fantastic submissive brain cocktail of obedience, lust, and a desire to please.
Regarding BDSM, there’s not much I don’t like. Outside of play, the mental aspects of dominance and submission are important to me: rules, ritual, and protocol. When playing I enjoy strict bondage, humiliation/objectification, and a touch of sadism
I'm probably less interested in traditional sexual aspects than most men on here. While my interest in BDSM is sexual, intercourse complicates things and can be dangerous. In contrast, a naked girl in a cage reading a book can be a huge turn-on. Service-oriented submission is a big turn-on too -- I've had a couple of mostly non-sexual D/s relationships in my past, and they were great.
What I'm Looking For
With all of that said, I'm not sure. I'd like to ideally establish some sort of D/s relationship with the understanding that romantically, I'm unable to do much. Something like a submissive woman with an understanding husband would be ideal.
Like many, I struggled mightily with guilt and shame and confusion when I first got into the scene. I like to point new people in the right direction.
For relationships, I'm drawn to people who are motivated, and worldly, and passionate about something. I appreciate goal-oriented people, and those who seek to make themselves better every day.
Even if not a potential play partner, I'm always willing to make new friends. People with similar interests. Humiliation, intense bondage, service, captivity, realistic long-term D/s relationships; awesome - let’s talk.
Thanks for reading. Hope to hear from you soon.
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