Not into vanilla sex dressed in leather.. if all you're into is sucking and fucking, move on..

For me the sexual turn on is NOT the act of being sadistic, it is the body that I am playing with.

I like a restrained body: the muscles stretching and straining, touching a guy all over, feeling his body and those muscles.

Into bondage with tt, and cbt.. starting slow and building in intensity

I like taking sexual control of a guy - being able to take him to orgasm, edging him, and making him cum. I like to find out what gets a guy hot, what he likes, get him all wound up and hot to cum.. to the point where he feels he is nothing more than muscles and a cock... stretch your balls, work over your body and get your cock so hard that all that matters in the world is shooting your load.

CBT: the balls seperated and stretched low in their sack, the cock strapped and forced to stay as hard as rock, the veins popping from the cockshaft, the juice leaking from the head

TT: the nipples standing out firm and hard from stretched pecs, tweaked and teased, flicked and pinched until finally the clamps are on and the pain runs like electricity to the cock

ORGASM CONTROL: milking, chastity, denial, taken close and held at the edge of orgasm, wondering if this time release will cum, nothing more than a body and a cock, hips thrust fucking the air, desperate to cum, nothing matters except shooting that hot load, draining those balls

AND: a long list of other things... alphabet soup.. further stimulation.. keep it interesting it's about connecting & exploring... man to man action... power exchange.. submission and control... can go from 50/50 to 100% either way... NO pnp/chem, NO ff (why ruin a nice tight ass), ws, scat, blood, permanent marks.