Who am I. That is what I need to tell you about, and who better to describe me than me, right? I am going to tell you about two sides of the same person. First the vanilla side. I am looking for friendship, romance, and fun. Be my friend, get to know me. First and foremoat I know the meaning of respect. I know the meaning of words such as honor, trust, and integrity. Become my friend and lover.

Now lets flip that coin.

I AM a Dominant. I will help you find that submissive that is inside. Look deep into your soul. Do you see here waiting to be found? I can help you. You know she is in there, you have felt her, that is why you are looking here. That is why you are looking for me.

I am a good Dominant. I am a fair Dominant. There will be rules and duties. I am not looking to micro-manage your life. I have limits, I bet you do too. I bet we are not so far apart. We can discuss this when you are ready.

I am somewhat of a sadist. It isn't something I need, so don't let it scare you away.But not pain for pain's sake, a little slap on the butt at the right moment, can bring pleasure also.

Our distance apart is not critical, because I will travel to meet you.

I would love to find a novice submissive. Training someone that is new might be fun. But experinced or not if you are interested please respond. I hope to find someone for a serious D/s relationship, someone who is intelligent and caring. I enjoy many nonbdsm activities including cooking, movies, billiards, bowling, darts, etc.

Please be a non smoker, or planning on quiting.