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I am a cis-gendered, heteroflexible, switch, poly writer of over-analytical or extremely insightful articles (YMMV), a scientist, attempting to be an entrepreneur, and am professionally awesome 24/7. I am not a 'one twue alpha male' type when dominant, prefering to be silly when circumstances are in my favour as I have a sarcastic, dirty sense of humour and am often a little silly, with "Yeah, well... So's your face." being my favourite way of disarming my friends when they get too aggro with each other. This has evolved lately between my slave and myself into very silly things like: "Your face is a duh-brain." "Your face is a face face." "Your balls are a duh-face-face." As stated, I have a slave, 'Wolf' whom I have helped to introduce to the wonderful world of poly and kink. However she often forgets her place, (he subtley hinted, tilting his head at her). She is the added perk with me: hanging out with me means that you get to hang out with her too. I'm looking for people with whom I can share new experiences, whether that's someone to tie up or someone to be tortured by. I'm not someone who enjoys one night stands or 'sex as audition', I would much rather have a ton of friends with whom I *don't* have sex than a ton of sex with people whom I *don't* consider friends. That said, I would definitely prefer to hold the middle ground of a handful of friends with whom I share my sexcapades. In the long term, I want to be surrounded by people who love me and get my urge to have as little drama as possible. In terms of experience, I am into rope and a little exhibitionism, as well as experimenting in other kinks such as knife play. In general, I respect people who are comfortable and confident with themselves and their roles. If you are happy and do what you want to do, or are working towards it, you will get tons of respect from me. I prefer people my own age, but I understand that within the scene that age is not really an issue, in so much as levels of experience or similarity within kinks are key factors. What I’m doing with my life: I am currently working as a Chemist and trying to find a balance between planning up to three months in advance and living in the moment. in the past I often found myself over analysing things, censuring myself and worrying about a lot of things, all of which I have found were draining, so I'm trying to cut those out. I’m really good at Writing funny, thought provoking articles examining areas ok kink, poly, communication, concent, etc. Making and/or drinking copious amounts of coffee. Giving too much info. The first things people usually notice about me is that I have a very unique accent. Almost everyone thinks that I sound either American or Canadian and as a result I'm starting to describe myself as 'international' I listen to a hadful of podcasts all the time. Mostly they're used for entertainment (Critical Hit, We're Alive, Poly Weekly, Pedestrian Polyamory, Role playing public radio.) But occasionally I will find the odd episode or two on something informative which I am interested in. I read as often as I can find the time, play videogames either via xbox live (with my friend G) or RPG style games with Wolf. I spend a lot of time thinking about relationship stuff: my partner, my metamours, the awesome people I know, what everybody looks like naked, etc.
LadyRoseberry
 
 Age: 41
  North Carolina