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Hetero Male Dominant, 44,  Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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A dominant black man looking for submissive men women and couples. Naturally dominant individual with very high expectations of my submissives. I can teach you but only if you are willing to learn.

Im a very busy man and I am looking for submissives that can help make my life easier and more pleasurable. In return, you will receive guidance, discipline, and a man that will be fully committed to bringing the best out of you.

A regular at Dark Odyssey events. Member of Fallout. Occasionally go to events at The Crucible and The Baltimore Playhouse.

Please do not waste my time. I am not interested in chatting or exchanging emails with single men pretending to be women or pretending that they are actually a couple. Do not address me as Master or Daddy. You have to earn that privilege.

Say what you mean and mean what you say. If you send me a long drawn out message about wanting to serve me then you need to be prepared to offer some sort of non sexual service that I want from you during our first meeting.












 Dominant Male



 5' 9"

 300 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Mathematics (Expert)

 Cuckolding (Expert)

 Swinging (Expert)


 Fine Dining





 Rear End Play

 Erotic touch (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Sensation Play

 Spanking you (Expert)

 History (Expert)





 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops


 Camping (Beginner)


 Yoga (Beginner)

 Blindfolding you


 Canes and Crops


 Watersports (Beginner)

 1950s Lifestyle

 Curious About:

 Public Play

 Wax Play

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Journal Entries:
9/9/2022 10:46:32 PM

And just like that, its time to start packing. The house sold within the first week of being listed. Once again the Universe has chosen to show favor towards me. I have lived in VA all of my life except 1 year, the year after my divorce when I moved to MD. Now, I am headed to Philadelphia PA. 

Sorta funny considering I have spent the last 20 years of my life traveling throughout different parts of western PA to attend swingers parties and go to a few clubs in that area. Have always wondered what it would be like to live in an area where there is a swinger's club within driving distance of my home. Never did I imagine that I would one day move to PA and then Philadelphia at that. 

There at least 3 swingers clubs and 1 bdsm club within a 30 min drive of my new place in PA. Not sure how long I will be there but it will definitely be fun.

8/1/2022 7:48:59 PM

The artist Nas once said that life is a bitch and then you die. I agree wholeheartedly. That is why I try to live life to the fullest everyday. Several things occured over the past two years that have significantly changed my life. Im not writing this post to complain about those things but to reflect on how those things have influenced my choice to fulfill a long time fantasy that up until this point in my life seemed unrealistic. 

Tomorrow, I have a realtor coming to my home to list it for sale. I will be selling my home and moving in with my submissive so that we can build our 1950s household. She lives in Philadelphia so this will not only be an opportunity to live out my fantasy but it will also be a fresh start in a new city. The circumstances that created this possibility were not desireable but I am happy that they pushed me towards fulfilling one of my long time fantasies. 

Life is a bitch and then you you may as well make the best of it while you can.



7/29/2022 11:47:47 PM

I have been foturnate enough to find a woman that wants to help me build my household. We have been in a 1950s style dynamic on and off for the past 3 years. Just like anyone else, we have had some bad expericnes but we choose to focus on the good. I have discovered that this is really the key to living a happy life in this world. 






11/24/2021 5:05:22 AM

I identify as Heteroflexible so I updated my profile to show my interest in submissive men and transexuals. Im really surprised at the amount of emails I have received in response to that update. 

The most common question I get is "how can I serve you?" so I thought I would add a journal entry to answer that question. First, Im not gay so I am not attracted to men. However, because I have a control fetish I am flexible in my preferences and am willing to play with men or transexuals that are submissive. My definition of submissive is one that is willing to submit even if there is no sex involved. More specifically I am looking for individuals that want to serve long term. 

I am a big man so I prefer the bois and gurls I play with to be petite and very feminine. I have a strict one cock rule so you must own a chastity device and I will expect you to wear it whenever you are in my presence. I will not allow you to cum before, during, or after we play. The last thing that I look for in a boi or gurl is that your are close enough to me to meet real time. As for those that are not local but still want to serve, perhaps you could offer me something else. . 

11/14/2021 10:16:34 AM

Glad to see that CollarSpace brought this feature back. 

3/5/2018 7:17:36 AM
I found a link for this site on the profile of a friend on Fetlife. Although, I have read a lot of complaints about its functionality and how it has changed over the years, I tend to like the site. 

Have met a couple of women from here, chatted with even more, and have received an overwhelming amount of messages from men that want to serve. I mean, what else can a dominant man want. 

For those that want to get to know me better, Here is a link to my fetlife profile 4111964


3/5/2018 7:04:16 AM
Lets see...where will I start? I used to enjoy posting and responding to messages in the forum section but since there is no longer a forum section on this site I guess Ill start using this journal feature more. 

10/18/2017 2:06:07 PM

Alright, so I finally went over to to see what my results would be if I took the kinky test...Not too surprising...but I damn sure am not a rigger...Have had 10 feet of rope laying around here for about 5 years and still don't know what to do with it. 81% Sadist?...well maybe a

== Results from ==
100% Exhibitionist
100% Dominant
100% Voyeur
100% Non-monogamist
99% Primal (Hunter)
95% Master/Mistress
89% Rigger
86% Daddy/Mommy
82% Owner
81% Sadist
72% Degrader
65% Experimentalist
47% Ageplayer
28% Masochist
18% Rope bunny
17% Vanilla
4% Brat
3% Primal (Prey)
1% Boy/Girl
1% Submissive
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Pet
0% Switch

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