Hi there, I am your typical Alpha male running a business (definitely the boss in my vanilla life) recently entered the D/s scene with little experience in testing limits etc. Albeit primarily dominant I love the feeling of my submission to a dominant and strong woman and being under her control sometimes (rather switchy at times). But in being a typical Alpha I really enjoy taking charge and love the submission and soft sighs of release from play with a sub who appreciates my wants from her. But i am certainly not a sadist - submission is far more subtle than just the pain...

I am considered to be quite intelligent, charming and reasonably good looking (never had any problems in attracting good looking and elegant women in my past). I live alone in N London, have wheels etc etc... but do travel often for business.

I am quite cultured and artistic (paint and sculpt) and give a great massage having done yoga for many years in the past I understand how & where to massage the stresses away.

Being atypical as an Alpha male I am primarily switch but with the right person and in the right context of play love submission.

One has to enjoy all dynamics to appreciate both roles. Curious about a bi dynamic in a D/s relationship of mmf play and looking to expand my bi experience as sub to bi play as instructed --