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| If you are Dominant, submissive, slave-like, polyamorous or kinky/fetishistic in some way, then finding new relationships, or making existing relationships work, suddenly gets more complex. Not only must you find S/someone with whom you "click" but you also have to communicate needs and urges which may be unfamiliar to your partner or which may even frighten them. On the other hand, deciding to explore your kink can also be an exciting and mind-expanding experience. Whatever you seek, it is normal for questions and concerns to arise. Some common concerns are:
How can I improve my chances of finding the One that I seek?e
My fantasies seem extreme and I feel embarrassed and guilty about them.
This feels right but I'm new to it all and don't know where to start.
How do I tell my vanilla partner that I'm kinky?
My partner has just confessed that they want to submit to me but I don't know how to deal with this.
My partner has asked if they can dominate me but I don't want to get hurt.
We have both discovered that we'd like to try something new but we don't know where to start.
I told my partner of my fetishes and they panicked. How can I reassure them?
I'd love to dominate my partner but I don't have the confidence.
My partner has admitted that they are submissive and I am interested to try dominating them, but it feels strange to do it. How can I learn to be more demanding and enjoy having my partner submit to me?
We would like to open up our marriage/relationship but we don't want to damage it in the process. How can we prepare ourselves for such a big step?
I am submissive in my sexual relationships, but I need to be more assertive at work. This seems incongruous. How should I resolve this?
I provide confidential, discreet sessions to explore these issues and others. Sessions can be face to face in and around London, on the phone or by instant messenger/Skype.
On a separate note...if, having learned more about you, I happen to know of someone that you might 'click' with, I will also be delighted to introduce you if you are both interested in doing so. I enjoy bringing like-minded people together and I do so like a happy ending (or indeed a kinky, wicked or sado-masochistic one!)
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