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55, look about 40. In the process of losing some excess weight. Non-smoker, non-drinker, not into drugs. Brilliant underachiever. Master's-level education. Work PT doing IT work. Run my own home based business PT doing more IT work. Politics run considerably left of center. Mundane hobbies include hiking and amateur radio. Will get back into biking once I can restore one or more bicycles.

I'm into control scenarios. This includes restraints, chains, gags etc. where it would be necessary. Consent is an absolute requisite, but the illusion of non-consent has always been a turn-on. I'm not into pain. If I have my way with you, I'll torture you with pleasure instead.

As to relationships:
I'm married. At this point, we're working on some issues and seem to be making some progress. One of the issues was resolved by our mutual recognition that we're poly. When we've worked through our issues, we'll each be looking for a woman to add to the mix. At that point, I'll get a chance to get out and meet some people. FWIW, I'm loyal to a fault and am a nice enough guy once you get under the intimidating shell.