You ever text or message someone who claims their interested “BUT” (you fill in the blank). Its every excuse in the book why there is no time in there schedule for you. You look on your friends feed and see all this communication between this person and others. You see this person is going to this event and that event but cannot meet you for a cup of coffee. Do yourself a favor and let go anyone who is interested in you will make time for you period. In today’s time with all the communication if you have to chase someone they just might not want to be caught by you. Don’t go away bitter just go away, sooner or later you will find someone out there for you. Never try to force anything sometimes you just have to know when to let go

King Mike

Since I been on the internet I have witness countless amount of naive woman looking under rocks and in caves for prince charming. Seems over and over they keep running into the Big Bad Wolf. Hey fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on ….who?
Look ladies none of us are kids, its time to stop blaming men for your impatient ness and unwillingness to go and seek out the proper information and training before you get started.

It seems much easier for ladies to rally around a bitter sub and hate men/Doms.
You ever ask yourself what made her bitter? Or better yet what make any person bitter?

One failed attempt at something does not make you Bitter in most cases it only fuels your determination to succeed. You have to fail at something over and over and over to in order to develop such a negative outlook on it. (would you say this is True or false)

When you here a woman say she was taken advantage of, what questions come to your mind?

I think and ask…Well how long did you know this person?
Have you seen him play with others before?
Have you spoken with anyone who plays or have played with him?

The list goes on, it seems that some people are so eager to play or so scarred to be alone that they either rush into something or settle for anything.
Ladies “You can’t polish a turd” no matter how hard you try, no one met you and then became a bad person. Those where fuck up people people when you met them. You over looked a flaw in their personalities. You rushes to let someone you really did not know bind you to a cross and do sadistic things to you, maybe its time to stop blambing men and start looking in the mirror to find the source of your problems.

It has been my experience (as a man) that being patient and getting to know someone is the best way to begin to build a friendship/relationship that will stand the test of time.
When you spend enough time around someone the real person that they are will show up sooner or later. I am not saying wait until it does (How will you know when it happens)
I am simply saying take your time and develop a comfort for the person of interest other than he has a Big Cock, or Nice Dungeon or what ever.
Having toys does not make you a Master of them.
Having a big cock… (Well that’s pretty cool) lol.
Seriously that does not tell you if the guy as a a$$hole or not (I am pretty cool however the rest of the guys with big cocks may be a$$holes lol).
While you are in the beginning stages or rebounding period take this time to read up and take classes on the kinks you are interested in. Two things can come about from this

#1 you learn all there is you can learn about that particular kink making it virtually impossible for a poser or troll to come along and sell you a bill of goods just to get you where he wants you.

#2 while you are there in the class and have been attending faithfully you are meeting people who share that same kink. By you coming every month you see who is serious and who is not. So if ever you meet someone from that class not only do you have a common interest you also know how dedicated he is to being good at what ever he/she is trying to become.

I will cut this short because I do not want to be wordy…

King Mike
this is just my two cents I hope this helps someone.

Words to the wise work on yourself never just sit around feeling sorry for yourself.
Just because your single does not mean you should sit around and grow lonely.
Take this opportunity to turn yourself into the person you want to be. Ask yourself how can you make someone else happy if you’re not happy with yourself?
If you made a list of the qualities of the person you want and then found this person, could you hold on to this person if you actually met them?
Weather your Dominant or submissive we all can improve on ourselves. Just because we are in a relationship does not mean we should stop striving to be better, and if you happen to find yourself single I feel you should take that time to not only better yourself however you should prepare yourself to be able to accommodate the person you long to be with.
It’s only natural for any human to imagine what type of person they want for a mate. Be it physical, intelligent or skill level.
May I ask… if this person came along rite out of your fantasy what is it about you that would jump out and grab his/her attention?
It is of my opinion that in order for any type of relationship to work you must be equally yoked. With that being said I believe one should always prepare themselves for the things they want to achieve in the future.
So if you want to be a “whip master” take classes buy books and a whip then practice. So that when the sub of your dreams finally comes along and she is into whips you will already have prepared for her arrival.
Submissives for instance if you are into Boot Blacking take a class read a book get some old boots practice. Sooner or later a Dom that is rite for you will show up it is very impressive (to me) to meet a sub who knows her stuff than listen to one tell me what she will not do because she is no doormat.
I guess what I am trying to say is if you stay ready you never have to get ready. Always be prepared.

King Mike