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	Hello ladies (and possibly curious gents), My life is pretty busy with work, and travels for my job, leaving my social life dull and boring. I started thinking how I could get more interesting things to happen. I came to this idea, and I hope you'll indulge me by reading this post. I am looking for ladies of any age that are looking for conversation, maybe more, because they're bored, curious, or just need someone to talk to. My interests are extremely broad, and frankly, I am quite the perv. When forced to label myself, I'd say an intelligent and kind Dominant with a sadistic streak with a tendancy to have polite respect towards strangers, with a romantic soul. of course, all this doesn't mean I won't treat you like a little cumrag fucktoy, that's useless for anything else, if that's what you are. It just means that that's something I save for when the time is right, and the other party wants or deserves that kind of treatment. I'm open to talk about anything, from the everyday rut, to things that are bothering you, to discussions about the meaning of life, but I am hoping, of course, to get some interesting discussion, or more, about sexual fantasies, especially the ones hiding in the dimly lit corners of your sexual appetite, the ones you are nervous to share... In this day and age, it's hard to trust the people in your life with everything going on, especially regarding the more private sides of life like emotions, struggling thoughts, sexual fantasies, lusts, longings, and so on. It's hard to know how someone will react, or maybe your fantasies or longings are so dark, taboo, or shameful that you could never share them with someone close by. I know there are sites that offer a decent vent for things, but I can imagine there are some things that you wouldn't discuss even here. I know that there are for me. This is where I'd like to come in. A stranger, no strings attached, you can tell me as much or as little about yourself as you want, you can share with me whatever you want. I can promise I won't judge, because chances are either I've seen it, talked about it, fantasized about it myself, or at least contemplated it in my own mind. Chances are, your deep dark fantasies spark something inside me, and we can talk about it, maybe even act a fantasy out through the magic of messaging / voice chat. I wouldn't judge you even if you brought up something that isn't part of my interests. Who knows, maybe you can convince me to like it. smiles Of course I have a range of messengers (MSN, Skype being the messengers of choice) to my disposal, as well as a phone program that lets me call any nearly any country in the world for little to no cost. So ladies, whether you are submissive or Dominant, young or old, looking for a one time thing, or a longer term confidant, just want to talk about every day stuff, or feel like relieving your conscience and telling someone about your naughty little secrets or fantasies, keep in mind I am here, and always interested in meeting new people Thanks for taking the time to read this, and hopefully I will get a note from you. The kind Listener.

4/6/2011 10:43:04 PM

Hahaha, not three hours after my last journal entry, I get a message, from a guy of all people "LETS FUCK" after which I explain that I am not into guys, nor intrested, and that he is a rude ass, making it harder for the rest of us men, for not even showing a first bit of respect. I get back "I'M MIKE. NOW LETS FUCK" so, I become a bit more clear in my next message. Then get back "Well at least I am not fat......LMAO" Which amuses me so much; if he thinks I am fat, then why the hell demand sex like a complete social disfunctional moron? Are you that desperate , LiverpoolLove?

4/6/2011 12:47:28 PM

As a general observation: there's a lot of profiles on here that are either fake or mistaken about what it means to be a dominant or submissive. Too bad, because when you approach someone from a wrong standpoint, especially if they are new to the scene, they will get wrong idea's and impressions. Either abandoning the scene, or just getting messed up. Just because you are a control freak does not make you Dominant, and vice versa. Respect, trust, and a certain level of friendship should be at the basis of any relationship, a D/s one even more so then vanilla.

On a sideways related note, I thought it might actually be a fairly interesting community to meet some new people with similar interests. So far, not really any luck, mostly because my messages either get deleted without being read, or because the addressee just doesn't feel the need to respond. Which is a shame. A "Sorry, but I am not interested in talking to you" would be nice and respectful. As would an explanation why not. I mean, I take the time to read your profile, write out a unique, mostly grammatical correct and spelling error free message for you, that most likely hooks into your profile / comments on your photos / journal. The very least is write back politely, even if you're not interested. It's not like I send out "NICE TITS NOW STRIP N SUCK ME OFF SLUT" messages like some kind of lobotomised sea-cucumber.