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**UPDATE**

Probably should have done this a long time ago, but I really don't come on here that often anyways. I am the proud owner of a puppyslave of my own, so thus I am not looking for any slaves at this time...I am leaving this profile up, however, because I'm, as always, more than willing to make new friends in the Lifestyle, especially like-minded fem subs. Please feel free to drop me a line!



I am a young Dominant male who is currently enlisted in the military. Thus, while I do hope to talk with many submissives, and hopefully meet up with some of you, long term may be a challenge, but if we feel that strongly about one another, I believe anything is capable of working. That being said, I'll talk a bit about my self.

I am intelligent, and enjoy having conversations about many things, including the philosophies of D/s, particularly with submissives. It is always simply fascinating to me to try to learn what it is that does it for a slave, what makes that fire burn in their bellies to serve.

My philosophies on D/s are this: The Master and the slave are both equals, and have equal responsibilities to sustain the relationship. The pet freely embraces her place, kneeling next to the One she cares for, and in return, that Master is obligated to hold that submission in the highest care, taking care of his little one and making sure that she is happy. I have been astonished at how many Masters I have met do not know this simple fact, and I've seen most of these relationships breakup because of it, although the two were sure that they loved one another. That being said, I am very firm, and if I believe that I am doing the best I can (a matter I consider very seriously about myself), then I expect my pet to give fully and eagerly. One thing I hate is a pet who pushes my buttons in order to test me, or to try to gain punishment for herself. If you feel that you need to "test" your Dominant by deliberately doing things contrary to his wishes, then there is something wrong with you. There are many other ways to test a Dominant.

What do I seek in a slave? The only physical requirement I have is that they be fit, so that I can go outside and do things with them if I want to, like hike or play some sport, or anything that comes to mind. As far as physical preferences, I prefer smaller girls, but that is by no means something I'll hold against someone. Personality-wise, the submissive must be all the usual things. You know, intelligent, sweet, and have a great sense of humor. Aside from the usual, I want someone who is honest, even if it is brutally so. I have been hurt in the past by so many deceptions and half-truths, and I won't have that anymore, if I can help it. I also like girls who are physically affectionate. I am a cuddler, and I tend to pull my girl randomly into my lap or beside them and cuddle. And a note which I have learned to consider as very important: I am a gamer. I enjoy spending my time playing games like World of Warcraft. Will I do it all the time, of course not. But I've met too many subs who either didn't understand it, or flatout hated my hobbies. So any inquiries should be from a slave who is either a gamer herself, or open minded to a Dominant with gaming interests. On the more intimate notes, I get pretty much turned all around. I enjoy verbal humiliation, objectification, biting, force, and, above all, puppyslaves. I could list all night the things I enjoy, or are willing to do. If you have any questions about it, ask me, and I'll be more than happy to supply you with an answer. But just know that when it comes to intimacy, the dirtier/more open-minded you are, the better.

On one very important note, I am, above all else, very protective, and very controlling. This means that while I will treasure my pet and care for her to the uptmost of my ability, many have found me to be too overbearing, and I seek a pet who is content to obey in all aspects of her life. You'll notice that I have used the word slave. Recently, I have come to the decision that I don't seek merely a submissive, but any who will belong to me must be a slave, and crave total control.

To wrap this up, I must say this. You may have stopped reading this profile once you saw that I was so young. If you have not, and you are reading this now, then I thank you for the consideration. And now I must ask that you show me some additional consideration. Please, do not judge me upon my occupation and age. I am, and have always been, a very mature individual. All I ask is that you try me before you make your decision on whether I am mature. Thank you.

Found a pic of myself, only about a year old...I really don't like it that much, but I'm not allowed to put the one of me in uniform up, so this will have to do until I can get a better picture. If you would like to see the pic of me in uniform, just ask, and I'll be more than happy to share it.

**UPDATE**
5/21/2008 4:15:44 AM
You know, I think it's time for a new picture. I was going over my profile, and even *I* cringed at the terrible picture I saw before me. Maybe THAT's why I can't get people to reply to my emails. I know people try to not be superficial...but it's only natural to be drawn to the very best, especially in a medium like this.

So...I guess keep an eye out for a better picture soon. :)
4/22/2008 3:24:47 PM
I'm not usually one to complain about things...but I have to say, there is almost no bigger downer than having spent a good...5-10 minutes on a personalized message to someone here, and not get one word back in reply. Especially when it comes from a girl who says something along the lines of "I'm always looking for friends, so feel free to message!"

I'm not going to say that this is wrong, because I know that female subs are constantly bombarded by emails on a daily basis, and they have to pick and choose. It's just disheartening to get the same treatment from *every* person I've tried.

Just venting, I suppose.
3/1/2008 11:32:19 AM
Goodness, almost a full year since my last post...I guess things have just been busy and eventful back over here.

As per the norm, I'm sure, I don't get many contacts, but thanks to all of you who even took the time to just say "Hey!" It's always nice to just get a random PM.

As always, I hope everything's going well out there.
4/21/2007 11:49:22 AM
Man, been a while since I was on here. I hope you all are having a good time. Let's hear it for summer, eh?
1/16/2007 3:18:05 PM
Woot! Burning Crusade's come! Haven't gotten my copy yet, but excited all the same!

Anyone else playing?
12/22/2006 2:22:40 PM
Have a safe and happy Holiday, everyone! :)
10/27/2006 5:29:34 AM
You know, it's easy to get discouraged in this Lifestyle. But I think it also says something of the Lifestyle when complete strangers (usually submissives) message you and encourage you to keep heart and to persevere, and sometimes tell their own story of waiting and pining.

So, thank you all for the support.
10/11/2006 8:52:14 PM
I'm becoming convinced that there are no fun, affectionate, adventurous gamer slaves out there anymore. Nothing comes close to what I want. None of the girls that are available, anyways.
sweet1o1ita1990
 
 Age: 19
 New york, New York