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In vanilla-land, I'm professional, clean-cut, even buttoned-down, but once we're in private, watch out! I'm both safe and sane - but believe me, I have that little twist in the bedroom and out of it. I'm past the initial excitement of trying things for the first time (although a fresh submissive is always a joy), and looking for something a little more serious. And yes, I'm reasonably successful, so I'm perfectly comfortable discussing a long-term position for the right girl. If you're a stunningly beautiful, intelligent, deeply submissive woman who'd like to leave her life behind and devote herself to service in a caring but strict environment in which your every material need is met in exchange for your unquestioning and enthusiastic obedience, whether that's for a week, a year, or the foreseeable future -- we should talk.

A little more about me: I'm introspective - cerebral, even - and I read obsessively. I also stay in pretty good shape, and I love to travel abroad as well as to try that new restaurant on the corner. And I like my job.

As far as my "type," I respond well to intelligence, to enthusiasm, and to humor - and generally not so well to the crazy or the dramatic. Physically, I have a weakness for redheads but can certainly find beauty in others, and dont restrict myself to those of the Caucasian persuasion by any means. And a note about those out there with "more to love" - being overweight is not a deal breaker, but nor is it something I'm particularly attracted to, and I'm likely to make it something I'll work on. Which is to say, I enjoy a generous derriere as much as the next guy, but if you're not in shape and you end up submitting to me, diet and exercise will very much be in your future. I don't feel the need to be cruel about it, but nor will I feel inhibited about helping a girl towards a more physically healthy and attractive body type. In D/s land, I tend more towards the mental domination, orgasm control, and the bondage ends of things (particularly rope bondage), and away from blood or needles or excessive pain. I very much do have a Pygmalion complex, and look to have a girl reach her full potential, in ways of which I approve. Not much of a sadist, so if you find yourself over my knee for a spanking you can expect to know it tomorrow - but probably not next week. And very much not into mind-altering substances, not so much because I think they're immoral as because the legal consequences in my profession would be excessive.

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10/18/2011 9:55:44 AM
First of all, I should make it clear that because of a combination of professional and personal things going on in my life, I'm not actively looking - sad to say, I wouldn't currently have the time to treat a submissive right or give her the attention she deserved, and you girls do tend to like attention, don't you? That said, I'm happy to make friends and chat about possibilities, training programs, innovative rope bondage techniques, etc. If I *were* looking, I'd be careful to distinguish between 'lifestyle', 'play', and 'training' in terms of what I was looking for. Those aren't mutually exclusive goals, but they're certainly not the same. From a lifestyle sense, I'm about as far from 'keep her chained up and use her hard' school of thought imaginable (actually, I strongly suspect most people who claim to live that way are failing to distinguish between porn-fueled fantasy and reality). I suppose '1950's lifestyle' comes close - I like women who are intelligent and ambitious, but I also look for someone who is comfortable taking responsibility for the home sphere while being supported by me, and I'm more than successful enough that a long term partner wouldn't *have* to work outside the home unless it were necessary for her mental health. Certainly, I can imagine lots of ways to encourage her to spend her time that don't involve clocking in. In the 'play' sphere, I enjoy a broad spectrum of activities, but none that are all-important and take over my life - they're hobbies. I'd particularly like to hone my skills at rope bondage (at which I consider myself an advanced beginner or intermediate) and work towards developing safe suspension skills. And I can think of few things that are as relaxing as dealing with a nice firm derri? over my knee for a well-deserved spanking. Finally, the 'training' activities - here I'd love to be able to commit a fixed period of time to training a girl in some specific way or set of skills. There are a few programs that I'd consider myself competent to provide, and if anyone would like to discuss aspects of this I'd be happy to. I do have some experience in introducing a girl to the joys of anal play in a safe and gentle way, and haven't had one yet who didn't enjoy it. For you girls out there with more to love, although I am in no way a 'chubby chaser' I *do* have some experience in enforcing a diet and exercise program with a combination of positive and negative reinforcement that's resulted in some fairly impressive results. If anyone would like further details (including dominants interested in designing such a program to improve their own subs' health and physical attractiveness or in dealing with their girl's issues with painful penetration) I'd be happy to talk further about it.

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coldgold
 
 Age: 31
 Sacramento, California