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KenovasCassie

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Kenova
First, i have a Sir. His name is Kenova here and on FL. I am poly, but only interested in a Miss at this time. And I'm really, really bad at initial emails, so if you see me peeking at your profile a few times, feel free to email me. Second - I have another profile here - I'm a switch, so my other CM profile is MarieMachiavelli, and my FL profile is CassandraMarie. ("Kenova's cassie", "Marie Machiavelli", by your powers combined, FL Profile is CassandraMarie! *geeky-fan-girl-salute*) --------------------------- As of now i am on this profile trying to find female Tops/switches to play with as a bottom. Meaning me as a bottom, i mean. Not them as a bottom. That would be the other profile, obviously. Keeping things separate? Yep, makes things easier. ^.^

This profile was also created to speak with and meet other subs and switches, and maybe a Miss to play with. I'm an ambassador for SLS (see below), and a non-important-but-happily-recruiting member of TNG (still see below). Mistresses, and switch Misses...i'm kind of shy in my sub personality, so if i keep looking at Your profile, please feel free to send me a stern email. ^.^ ---------------------------
Third (see, counting!), i have a graduate degree and a great deal of education. I work with the mentally ill and violently unbalanced for a profession, and manage a program teaching life skills to the mentally challenged. So please, no "want my cock" or "u wanna b my slut" emails? They're remind me FAR too much of my patients. I mean seriously, I've heard those EXACT phrases from my patients. Any requests from Male Dominants will go into my bulk folder. Most requests by males, period, will go to my bulk folder. Just a caveat. If you are interested in chatting with me, you'd be better off emailing my Sir directly. Otherwise you may be waiting a month or so until I remember to check the bulk folder, if at all.
I can chat with males. I can be friends with them (I'm friends with several, they make funny noises when you poke them). But at my request, those introductions go through Sir first. He's my "Male Friend" filter. If i have to respond to you because you didn't bother to read this far? It's going to be pretty sarcastic, boyos. ^.^ So please be warned, if you email, and you don't get a response...or one you didn't like? i did tell you. ^_^
Last, i would welcome friendship with any who would like to discuss our lifestyle, or make friends in Philadelphia? I'm a member of TNG (go TNG!), Submissive Life Skills (go SLS!) so anyone 18-35 who wants to get involved in the scene and meet people, email me and I'll talk you into going! TNG is The Next Generation, a group of BDSM social events, classes and friendship-oriented-meetings for new people in the 18-35 age range. It's a place to meet those of us in our age, without chicken hawks looking over our shoulders, and discuss what it's like to be young, wild, and kinky. SLS is Submissive Life Skills (aka "submissive life-support), a closed (as in, you must be vetted or invited) real time discussion and educational group on life skills and psychological/emotional development for submissives in the Philadelphia area.
6/2/2013 4:23:28 PM

If you are going to email, after ignoring my Journal, my Profile, and my wishes?

 

Don't use the title "Master"to introduce yourself.   If you're that clueless, you aren't a Master.   You're a boy with an inferiority complex. 

 

Don't demand that I refer to you by a title which you obviously (by your trolling ways) haven't earned.  I know Men who have earned the titles they use.   Most of them (read: ALL of them) would never in their lives introduce themselves by their title.   They don't have to. 

 

Don't insult real Men who have earned the right to be known as Master, Sir, or Lord.   You aren't worthy to claim their titles...so why do you think you're worthy of my submission? 

 

Thank you.  

 

cassie (Kenova's girl)

 

1/10/2013 6:11:46 PM

Do you know why my profile asks that men contact my Sir before contacting me?

 

Because the only men who are willing to speak with Him first, are thinking with the good head, not the tiny one.  

 

Funny how having to talk to a male Dom prior to emailing a cute female subbie will weed out the boys who are only thinking with their little head.

 

And yes, I said "boys".    Because if you're being driven by that head, no matter how subtly or politely - you're still a boy.  

7/2/2012 4:42:34 PM

Okay.

So.

Question-ish statement.   Because I'm confused.

So. 

We're chatting.  

We're flirting.  

We're having fun, or so it seems.   You ask me all sorts of private questions.   You come on heavy and strong.  

Then you find the next cute picture to flirt with...and start "forgetting" to answer emails.

Huh?

Instead of acting like a grown up Man/Woman and writing back to say "Hey, I wasn't really looking, I just wanted to flirt, thanks for the time"...you lead me on until finally you admit that you weren't really looking, you just wanted some "fun chat" - or you stop emailing and put on your profile that you already had someone. 

Or you put on your profile that you're so "desperate" to meet someone...when I've asked you a half dozen times to hang out.  

My profile is kind of clear, isn't it?   Cute Subbie Girl Looking for Female Domme/Friend/Play-etc?  

I'm not a bitch, I'm a nice girl.  Really!  

If you just want to chat and flirt, say so.  

If you're going to lead me on, and then say "oh by the way", and just stop communicating?

Yeah.   No thanks.  

That hurts.  

That's mean.  

I know I'm cute, because I get a lot of attention, phone numbers, etc, from Dominants who are very nice...but not what I'm looking for.  

I know I'm intelligent, because my advanced degree tells me so.  

I know (or at least, I think) that I'm polite and well mannered - because my Sir trained me to be. 

So, uhm...is it just this site?  Or, am I really just emitting psychic waves of "move on, nothing to see here?"

Help?   Answers?   Comments?  

 

6/2/2012 5:16:50 AM

Yes, I have face photos.

New ones, as a matter of fact.   I went from brunette to raven to auburn to redhead/ginger, in the last six months.   I may go blonde for the summer - it's actually my natural color.   New photos for them all, yay!

No, I will not post them.  Please stop asking for (or grammatically painfully demanding) face photos.   If I send you a face photo, it's because I trust you and want to play with, or have a relationship with, you. 

The ones I have up are within the last year or so and are representative.   I think the phrase is "true and accurate representation", and I'm not giving newer (IE, "ones that identify me in vanilla life") to anyone I haven't spoken to at least by email, or by phone.

It's called safety, "duminates".   Really.   Look it up.

*end-Sarcastic-Subbie-rant* 

(To the nice Mistresses, Masters, Sirs and Misses...my apologies, this was aimed at the majority, not the minority)

11/20/2011 1:47:31 PM

Okay, so...pet peeve.

I am a submissive girl.   I am my Sir's submissive girl.   I submit to my Sir.   He has earned my trust, my love, and my surrender.   He has guided me through my mine fields, trained me to be His servant, and given me constant reason for my faith in His ownership of me. 

I...am not YOUR submissive.   If I choose someday to submit to you, it will be a choice made after you have shown you are intelligent, dominant (dominant, not aggressive or bitchy), and trust worthy.   For all the emails I've received saying "proov ur a sub 2 me"...my response, is "prove you're a Dominant".   As a submissive girl surrendering my body and my emotions...I have a lot more to lose than a Dominant demanding my surrender.  

My Sir says...a Dominant's first conquest is themselves.   Until they master themselves, any submission they receive will be hollow.  

And I'm not a hollow submissive.  

KissedbiFire
 
 Age: 30
 Everett, Washington