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Firstly, to get this out of the way Im not looking for ONS, hookups, flings, or people who are already seeing someone (even if they live far away or are poly). Also no couples.
What I am looking for is something meaningful with either a lady or a gentleman between 27 and 42, and ultimately long-term with the potential to develop into a relationship. Ive been single dating for a few years and looking to meet someone cool to enjoy all aspects of life with, especially kink ) Again, I am not interested in couples or poly people, sorry.
My ideal dominant is someone who is firm but caring. Mutual respect and enjoyment are paramount. I dont enjoy pain (can tolerate light kingcaning etc.), and my main kink is probably orgasm controlteasingedging and being used sexually.
I like to switch occasionally, but Im looking for a mainly dominant partner. Im GGG and SSC so therefore open to most things a deserving Dom would be interested in exploring, though my hard limits are anything illegal, blood, scat, sharp pointy things (e.g. needles, knives etc.), electrical play, choking and roughviolent sex.
I find the pyschological aspects of BDSM and powerplay a lot more exciting than the physical ones - so although playing with toys are fun, ideally youre also able to create a really awesome and sexy scene just with whatever is lying to hand and your creativity!
Outside of kink, Im a pretty normal person with a decent job, my own place and a cat. I like the usual things like good food, cocktails, movies, Netflix, and a few other things like sci-fi, videogames, boardgames, archery and roadtrips.
Interested? You need to be
- drug disease-free
- single and monogamous (i.e. not in a relationship - I dont expect exclusivity immediately, obviously)
- non-smoker ( non-vaper)
- a lightnon-drinker
- open-minded and respectful
- between 27 and 42 years of age
- sexually experienced or at least willing to learn
- decent job independence
- own home - this ones not mandatory, but its preferable for you to live alone than with housematesfamily )
- no kids, no exes hanging around no drama (pets are ok)
- own transport or willing to travel - Im ideally looking for someone fairly nearby as long distance gets tedious... would consider up to 1h30 travel
- cool with larger women - Im a BBW but more to hold onto )
- considerate, kind, loyal and honest
Important I insist on safe sex, mutual respect and consent.
Initially I would prefer to meet in publicat hotelsyour place until I know you better. Im looking to meet fairly soon regularly - not looking for penpals )
Im sex-positive and open-minded, and a fan of slow sensual as well as more kinky sex, but mostly love to explore each others fantasies and mutual pleasure. I especially enjoy a lot of teasing (giving and getting), playing the coquettish role, and keeping things interesting. Love to cuddle, spoon, and have regular sexytimes - Ive had a higher sex drive than all of my previous partners, so no headache excuses from me )
Happy to exchange pics kik if we get on
If youre interested match the above Id love to hear from you! Drop me a pm with the following 3 wordsphrases 1- your favourite animal, 2- your favourite sex position, 3- a dish youd cook to impress me - so mine would be Elephants Spread eagle Steak
Im happy to discuss most things as long as youre respectful.
Looking forward to hearing from you x
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